FWB

kingofpoplives · 2015-02-25T01:38:41+00:00

So, what is the best way to bring it up?

You never bring it up. You just fuck and don't do any relationship stuff. Many will get it and won't do relationship stuff either. You'll have a relationship of mutual sexual convenience.

Others will eventually bring it up or try to do relationship stuff. You just need to avoid encouraging that and let them choose if they want to continue fucking or not.

David35207 · 2015-02-25T01:26:09+00:00

Just don't mention the FWB thing. If what you have at the moment is good, keep doing it. Meet weekly, don't text very much, and when you meet up, fuck her brains out. If she isn't willing to be exclusive, then that's fine, because you should have at least one or two other girls that you are concurrently meeting/talking to during the week in the same manner.

thenarrrowpath · 2015-02-25T22:14:43+00:00

So, what is the best way to bring it up?

Stop being overt and open with women right off the bat. You do what the hell you want to do, so long as you don't promise them exclusivity. Text for logistics, meet up, hang out, bang, end of story. You let her bring up the "what are we" question. From there you need to decide if she's a plate or worthy of an LTR.

unknowncitzen · 2015-02-25T01:39:47+00:00

For young women you have to be what the other guys have said. But for older womem 35 and up you simply say "hey we clearly enjoy our time together so how about we do the FWB thing and see how it pans out" of course you have a higher success rate with this After you have fucked her and blown her reality!

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2015-02-25T03:13:39+00:00

I've noticed that girls do not like being asked if they would like to be friends with benefits,

This is basically like failing the commitment shit test before they even give it to you. It says you're terrified of the eventual conflict when she tries to bargain with you for more commitment.

When she brings the topic up, be honest but provide as few details as possible. "I like you a lot, but I'm not in a position with my career to have a full-time relationship." Then change the subject and resist any further attempts at discussion.

oldredder · 2015-02-25T04:59:06+00:00

Plenty of girls like this.

penguin_says_slide · 2015-02-24T23:16:52+00:00

I really like you. I enjoy your vibe and the time we spent together and I don't want to end that. However, I also can't become exclusive right now. If you're cool with hanging out, but not being exclusive...(kiss)...cool. If not, cool.

Title	FWB
Author	weirdnamedindian
Upvotes	6
Comments	14
Date	February 24, 2015 11:10 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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