General tips for first date?

lionofthejungle · 2015-12-12T22:31:37+00:00

Ask questions that elicit positive responses and emotions. You want to condition her to associate those feelings with you.

Ask her what's she's passionate about, how she feels about things she brings up, what she wants to do with her life, etc.

Make sure you keep it light, don't get too intense or heavy. Throw in a few jokes here and there.

When the time is right, touch her - gently. Even just poking her arm as you make a statement is good. Just don't overdo it.

Lastly, make sure BOTH of you are having a good time. Don't focus too much on making sure SHE'S having a good time.

Hope this helps!

RAPTOREXPLOSION · 2015-12-12T22:09:41+00:00

Ask questions based on what she talks about, but don't talk too much about yourself. Smile. Maintain eye contact. Escalate - touch her like she's already your girlfriend. Go to a couple different places - don't just stay at one. This establishes trust and builds the idea that she's going places with you, which will make it easier to take her to home.

Have fun!

underrdog · 2015-12-13T11:18:13+00:00

be yourself, dont talk too much about yourself, listen her, tell a joke, dont forget to smile (it works)

Good Luck!

Title	General tips for first date?
Author	thatblondeguy_
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Date	December 12, 2015 10:00 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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