One of the things I've noticed in the dating world is that when you approach and it's successful, you'll be sure to get the girl's number and start the whole dating process. But I've noticed a trend now, which is that at some point in the first week to 2nd week of talking, the girl asks if she can be on your social media. How does one handle this?

I had a bit of a faux pas and accepted one such request only to later to be asked questions about another girl who I was in a photo album with. Legit, we were having a great conversation on the phone and she had went through a photo album and out of the blue started asking me who this girl was in the pictures with me. It wasn't any of her business, but by accepting the friend request, I've now implicitly agreed that it is her business.

The rules seem to be meet a guy, give guy number, then stalk guy on Facebook. How does one get around that or what is good advice for that? I've found that eventually women will look me up, then send me a friend request and once that happens 1 of 2 things then occurs: 1) I let the request sit then get a shit test on what it is I'm trying to hide (you probably are married! or have a wife, or some weirdo which is why you won't accept it) or 2) I accept it, then immediate get hit with questions about certain pictures (this girl is in 5 of your pics who is she to you? or "OMG, I think I know ______ insert female friend name here) etc.

Quite frankly I'm not sure how to handle that and granting someone friendship on FB doesn't seem right if it's either just a plate or someone who I'm not sure where things are going to head. Thoughts? I have no idea how to get around it and I know on more than one occasion even before taking the Red Pill, the whole social media thing has burnt me a few times. Quite honestly, I think I'd rather fly under the radar and have a sense of mystery about myself then just have my facebook be a place of collecting data about me. Thanks for any advice, bros.