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Someone needs to write a lengthy post on LDRs on the main sub. It's been floating in my mind for a while...
/r/askTRP11/10/16 03:50 PM
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I don't really see anything you did over the top wrong here. You're about 1 year in TRP and people don't realize... it took you years to "become" Beta due to all the messages that we get as men about how we are to treat women and go about life. It's not something that's undone 1 year in TRP. I think for where you're at, you handled things as well you could. This TRP thing is a Marathon brother, not a Sprint. You got this. Personally I see two options really. Unless I'm misunderstanding your stor…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 03:46 PM
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This is a Girls Night Out situation. I can tell from your comments you really, really, really want to believe you found the unicorn who won't do debauchery whilst away from you at the beach. That means you're really young comparatively speaking, so I'm not going to kill that dream. I would say to let her initiate all communication and to be mindful of how much time goes on between conversations. Also, you know this girl. Who are the girls she's going with? What do you know about them? Does your …
/r/askTRP07/10/16 02:06 AM
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Sounds good. I'll give his channel another once over.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 10:54 PM
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Yeah, but don't you think Vegan Gains turns people away from Veganism? Yes the message might be sound but I think it gets lost when he's like, "I'm glad this bodybuilder has cancer" and "I hope your kids fucking die from this disease found in meat".
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 10:10 PM
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I'm Pescatarian but it's mostly because I get crazy stomach and body aches, bloating when I eat most meat land meat and foul.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 10:07 PM
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Thank you for posting here. This is really a come to Jesus moment for me and I'm thankful that I look at the asktrp sub so much. So I'm 36 now and known for a while that I needed to stop drinking. I've drank since grad school because, well. That's what you did, then. You'd have a big exam and you'd get fucked up the weekend before to deny the anxiety and to be avoidant. You'd then pass the exam, and then get fucked up again the weekend afterward to celebrate. Then came marriage...where we got dr…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 01:40 PM
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This post is golden in and of itself. With respect to OP, you might want to think about reformatting this to go on the main TRP subreddit. I think a lot of men could use this information. This was good for me as well as I am also thinking about quitting drinking and have long wondered about AA.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 11:20 PM
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You need to get the fuck outta there, bub. But you won't because you'll hamster that it was a one time thing and it doesn't mean anything. GTFO bro, sooner than later. Had this same thing happen to me once, blew it off and then later (about 6 months) a similar situation happened and she said I "raped" her. I went through a lot of emotional turmoil with that but low and behold 2 weeks later, she's perfectly fine again, has decided she blew it outta proportion and that she's not reporting it to th…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:41 PM
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She's not very attractive at all. Amazing to think she has the balls to embarrass men who approach her online. Such arrogance.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 09:32 PM
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This was the funniest video I've ever seen, haha
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 03:56 PM
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Man this may be the best post I've seen on TRP in a while. I know this agony and this pain.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 01:06 AM
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This is good advice man. I'm thankful for folks like you, and this thread in general. Whenever I fall back into my former BP wanting marriage self, posts like this remind me of why this is the better life.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 07:22 PM
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Wow. There is absolutely no point to marriage anymore or to being in an LTR, especially if distance is involved. SMDH.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 04:25 PM
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Good job, OP on a very necessary topic. For more information about this, I highly advise every man on TRP to pick up copies of The Power of Habit: Why we do what we do in life and business and Switch: How to Change When Change is Hard. I might actually also suggest Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces that shape our decisions. Read each of these books from start to finish and awake to a better understanding of who you are, how the environment shapes your bad and good habits and why your min…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 12:51 AM
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THIS absolutely. I need to feel the hunger pangs to know that my body is actively in a state of consuming fat right now instead of carbs.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 04:07 AM
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On one of these forums someone suggested to delete and recreate your Tinder profile every 3 days to try to out fox the algorithm on there (it's why you get progressively worse looking women over time on the app; the app places you in a pool of people depending on how many women swipe right on you. The more swiping left, the lower you SMV is perceived to be by the algorithm so you are placed with equally lower level women. If you start swiping and you are only seeing landwhales, delete your profi…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 04:42 PM
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This is a great post, thank you so much for that! I actually am trying to tell a buddy of mine that the reason he keeps having no success with women is that he is determined to meet them in Bars but he's not listening to me. Thank you brother, I really enjoy being a student of TRP and learning these things.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 12:21 AM
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Oh my this is going to kill the next few weeks. Thanks!!
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 01:06 AM
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Fast-forward to late 2015, He proposes and she says yes. 18 months and he proposes. He was so obsessed with this girl he didn't even take a proper amount of time to vet her and now he's promoted her to be his army's second in command, as Patrice O'Neal would say. I'm curious from an educational prospective. I've swallowed TRP about 11 months ago, and how long should someone vet a woman before marrying her (if marrying is what they want to do despite the vast reasons not to...)
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 07:50 PM
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Dealing with this same situation and most likely leaving her within a week. I suggest you do the same.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 10:54 PM
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Alright, Dan. There might be hope for him yet. And KUDOS to you, noticing your staff like that. You're clearly on your own A game and showing good leadership skills.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 12:21 AM
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Also want to note that the stages are not linear...so your LTR may actually skip around. For example I think Monkey Branching can always happen depending on factors such as SMV and what not.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 04:13 PM
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Hey brother, I feel you. Sorry for the situation. Same thing happened to me except it was a three year relationship. Hang in there, get your alpha back. I might softly advise though not to cohabitate with anyone, even if it's been two years or more. It's not worth it since a home is stable but women's emotions aren't. She can just as easily call the cops on you one day for no reason or just as easily you come home from work and she's banging some other dude (happened to me). AWALT but get back i…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 04:30 AM
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This is a great post! Just last week on asktrp someone mentioned to me I was making a situation harder than it had to be because my logistics were all out of wack.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 12:44 AM
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I'm not even sure what to do with this, wow. She left Johnny Depp. Wow. What is even the point of marriage anymore?? There is seemingly ZERO benefit to the man.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 01:05 PM
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This happened to me my first year of school. A girl who I was placed in a team with for a research project reported that I was stalking her. The only communication we ever had was by email and text and it all centered on the project. That was a shitshow and I never trusted female working partners again after that.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 11:29 PM
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I just really, really struggle with the fact that 50 plus women all were raped by the same man some 40 years ago and NOT one of them came forward because "Cosby" was too big at the time. I feel like one of them said something in testimony along the lines of "she didn't know what she was doing but the next thing she knew she was performing oral sex on Cosby and he finished in her mouth". Somehow that translates to Cosby drugged her.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 11:27 PM
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Am taking that to heart and will both delete and restart my account and change my pics
/r/askTRP25/05/16 11:06 PM
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I think if you opt to pay the $20 per month you can select filters but I've never done this.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 11:05 PM
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Now that's interesting. I've been unmatching landwhales by the tons (no pun intended) so maybe somehow it's giving me more landwhales? Like when you restrict calories to burn fat, so when you eat food, your body makes it tougher for you to lose more fat.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 08:05 PM
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Well clearly I need to up SMV and get attractive photos. It's just been landwhales for me the last 3 weeks.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 08:03 PM
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Hahaha, well that makes it simple. Thanks!
/r/askTRP25/05/16 08:02 PM
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Okay, this is good advice. I've had this account forever.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 03:55 PM
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Stupid question: what are the Tinder two rules?
/r/askTRP25/05/16 03:55 PM
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This is great advice I never knew that
/r/askTRP25/05/16 03:50 PM
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I really like this post and am going to save it. Really good, solid advice here.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 05:20 PM
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Right off the bat you know she's an attention / validation whore. Probably the type that posts selfies online and waits for 30 guys to tell her how hot she is. Proceed with caution.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 07:27 PM
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I dunno... it's probably just me but a girl saying, "I love seeing guys not get what they want" means this chick is all about validation. Turning down guys is the most power she feels during her life. I'd tread carefully and reevaluate if its worth it to continue, brother.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 06:26 PM
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Thank you for this list... there is still a few of these I have to tell myself to stop thinking.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 05:08 AM
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It's decent, I've had some pretty good dates off of there but I don't think it's the hook up kind of thing. Girls on there are looking for romance and all that shit. Lots of HB6 - HB8s on there.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 03:38 PM
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Had an LTR that used to do this. Sat her down and told her in a very calm manner, that if she can't respect me, there's no point in continuing our relationship. I don't want to be in public with her criticism and she's an embarrassment. I don't know if that's dread game or not, but she sure enough stopped doing that in public. Now she still had criticisms but she only told me those behind closed doors from that point on. You really have to stand firm on this one and very clearly tell her what yo…
/r/askTRP29/04/16 12:57 PM
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I was just telling this to someone on here. I like Bumble, it's my favorite so far. You swipe right or left like Tinder, but the difference is that after there is a match, only the female can start the conversation. She has 24 hours to do it. If she starts the conversation it's a good sign she wants to get with you, and I've noticed far fewer flakes. It's been around for a bit but I don't think has been heavily advertised. I really like the women on there Another good app is Blendr which is my 2…
/r/askTRP29/04/16 12:47 PM
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I'm really just here for the comments...I've said too much.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 12:38 PM
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Love LuiMarco. He often also states in his broken English, "Someone explain this shit for me". Which I think also applies here. Hey, I'm a black male and I don't like loud hoodrat morbidly obese black women either.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 12:35 PM
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"this is my underage daughter's phone" scam Almost got hit with this scam last week on Tinder to be honest. I was messaging a girl then out of nowhere she asked me to Skype with her. That's when I knew shit was about to head south so I blocked her. Online dating brings with it its own challenges, that's for sure.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 12:31 PM
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No doubt, brother, definitely go out there and have fun. I've got three dates set up for next week with 2 HB7s and 1 HB6 (we have a lot of common interests though so whatever, hahaha). I'm definitely of the belief to add tools to the toolbox to help you on your journey!
/r/askTRP29/04/16 12:24 PM
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Have you read the TRP guide to online dating? If not read it, brother and you will quickly learn it has nothing to do with you. Women who are online are flakes. Think about it, something is going on to where she has to use an online apparatus for self validation and for gaining suitors. In many of these cases it could be just that the date went well (Girl 1) and she matched with another guy who too is taking her on a date. I don't know you but I assume the problem isn't you. What I WOULD recomme…
/r/askTRP28/04/16 03:27 AM
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Any thoughts about Houston, TX? I'm thinking of moving there from DC sometime in the summer...
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 02:37 AM
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OP Thank you tremendously for posting this. Thank you so, so much. What you're describing here is so apt and so true. I look back on a few years ago when I was super productive, I also was very happy. Hard to believe that working ones fingers to the bone could also lead in such joy. In the few years hence, my productivity has gone way done and likewise so has my joy. It's no fun going through life with no work ethic, but even moreover, no purpose in life. Letting hours drift away as they become …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 02:26 AM
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I'm not sure but I feel like this question comes up a lot about Tinder girls. The rule that I've seen exercised on here that I follow is that anything less than giving you their number means they have a control issue or excess baggage with security (she wants to control when you talk and when you don't). I ask for the number and anything less than giving me the number I hard next.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 07:06 PM
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This. This answer is perfect. Don't do it kid, I don't care how wonderful you think her pussy will be. It ain't worth it.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 06:52 PM
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Gotta quit looking at your ethnicity as a liability and instead as a benefit. Everyone always talks about "black and white", but you're Indian, so you're different (in a good way). What's different is intriguing. Use that as a power, brother. One of the things is you'll have to fight stereotypes that you're only interested in engineering, have a hard to understand accent--- you know bullshit beliefs that may turn SOME girls away. First and foremost you have to move the focus from what you lack. …
/r/askTRP21/04/16 06:11 PM
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Never heard that holding hands is Beta, wow... The fact she wants physical touch at all is a good sign. Don't be so focused on "being alpha" that you mess things up, bro.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 07:04 PM
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I've banged a few bisexual women. One was lesbian at the time and apparently goes back and forth with lesbian / bisexual. Slutty for sure. I don't know I've been with enough girls who claim lesbian that I'm starting to think it's just another shit test to be honest. However, in some cases it's also a red flag if she says that so I guess it just depends...
/r/askTRP19/04/16 07:00 PM
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She misses the CC. Hard next, you're the prize and don't need that slut in your life.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 06:57 PM
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Girls don't call back if you give them your number.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 06:56 PM
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Happens all the time. Women who KNOW they will never see you again, or at least not until the next conference, and you live states away from each other. Have fun but wrap it up
/r/askTRP19/04/16 06:55 PM
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I don't know I find this mentality hard for an LTR. You're going to wind up fucking this up because of your mentality. What you're describing is a plate. You want to treat your LTR like a plate and that's the issue. But she's an LTR... emotional attachment is inherent to that set up. I just think going into the LTR saying, "at one point in the future she's going to fuck me over, if I remain detached it won't hurt as much" is going to screw you. It's a romantic relationship. Love and care are a p…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 06:52 PM
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The fact that her handjob was lame means you dodged a bullet.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 04:51 AM
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"Don't put her on a pedastal". The single toughest lesson it took me to learn.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 02:41 AM
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Don't do it. I know she wants to use Facebook to verify you're who you say you are but Tinder directly pulls your info from FB so there's no need for that. Plus if you give into that demand, you're now in her frame instead of the other way around. Assuming you have preselection pics up on Tinder (if not then you should), then that should be enough. No matter how hot she looks, she has to be in your frame, not the other way around. I'd just move on. Don't forget two of the central rules of online…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 12:39 AM
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Increase your cardio. By a lot. So 20-40 min of cardio added to your workout, pronto. Sleep. No alcohol unless it's wine. Then only 1-2 glasses. Sleep. No more Fapping or Porn. Both decrease testorsterone and you need higher levels of testorsterone. IF YOU'RE EATING SOY OR HAVE SOY IN YOUR DIET STOP. It will increase Estrogen in your body. This is another reason you should stop drinking Beer or Liquor.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 09:53 PM
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Have never been to Denver, but DC dating scene is ripe for the TRP man. Lots of Asians, lots of Indians, lots of international. Lots of African American women. I've heard it stated repeatedly that the edge is for men there because of the outrageously high gay male population there. So if you're finding a hard time closing there, you might need to reevaluate. Personally I love the neighborhoods, nightlife, museums. There are always new people to meet, OP.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 09:50 PM
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Go to the gym and improve SMV. If a girl is using you as an orbiter your SMV isnt high enough, bro.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 09:40 PM
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Anytime you receive an ultamatum from a woman, leave. You can soft next if she means a lot to you but grab your stuff. Don't argue, don't fight. Just quietly walk the fuck out and bounce.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 09:32 PM
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Run the other direction.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 09:01 PM
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He's not your friend, bro. Odds are he wanted to bang her since before you and her broke up. It's not your problem anymore. this has happened to me before when I was younger. It sucks, but there's nothing you can do about it except choose better people to call friends in the future.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 08:22 PM
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I'm going to go a different route with advice I think. Depending on how fat you are, running might not be the best cardio. Running will be good for your heart and getting your circulatory system going as well as increasing your stamina providing you are going for good distances (3 to 5 miles I think is good). However this does severe damage to your joints especially if you're overweight and you stand the chance of hurting something. You break something you won't be swimming in any pussy, brother…
/r/askTRP01/04/16 08:19 PM
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Folks, it's April Fools. This is clearly a troll post. Settle down, settle down.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 08:12 PM
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Holy shit this response is awesome!!
/r/askTRP30/03/16 10:29 PM
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You know what to do already, brother. Keep asking more hot girls for the number.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 10:28 PM
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Hey brother, I was in a similar situation some months ago with someone. I would just say above all else to follow your instinct. Think about this: she is showing her tits for drinks and is telling you that she is going to do this. She is OK with other guys getting her drunk and at a minimal she is going to get tipsy with them. Enter the hamster, enter the "I'm sorry, we just made out unexpectedly" conversation. Follow your guy, follow your instinct. Hard next, get some plates and don't forget ab…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 08:40 PM
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You can read all the redpill shit you want brother, but until you learn to forgive yourself for what you deem as inappropriate behavior / thoughts / feelings it's all for nil. I recommend watching "Hungry for Change". It's a documentary about food so fast forward to the end, about the last 20 minutes. They get into making a mantra for yourself to live by. The mantra is "I accept myself unconditionally right now". You see the truth, brother is it doesn't matter what we say, or what any other guy …
/r/askTRP29/03/16 07:59 PM
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"I don't love her or like her that much and was more or less just staying with her because I was too much of a pussy to leave and go through the trouble of finding something else." You're speaking to me right now, in a similar situation. I know what I need to do. She's not pregnant yet but I need to leave before that happens...
/r/askTRP29/03/16 07:49 PM
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HA, brilliant point! I met a girl who was a devout Christian, then converted to Islam. 3 months later, had an affair on her husband. Religion isn't the answer to finding a good woman, bro.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 07:54 PM
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Religious women aren't necessarily higher quality. They are better presenters. My ex was very devout. Wound up riding into the sunset with Chad Thundercock while I was beta husband to her. I've dated religious women and by and large they are good at hiding the desire to want to ride the CC. AWALT buddy. Sorry to break the news to you this way, thought it was better to just rip the bandage off. Also, you might think you could sit through a religious service for the good of having a good woman. As…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 04:48 PM
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I'm reading the comments but don't see anything you did wrong. She disrespected you, she knew it (henceforth nervous laughter) and she made a choice. 1) Go into the store with my FWB or 2) Stay out here, wave down my ex and talk to him. She chose 2. I'd have sent her home, too. Men NEED respect and she aint the one to give it to you. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 06:20 AM
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We're not playing around here kid, don't do it! Danger!
/r/askTRP23/03/16 07:16 PM
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Women aren't fans of silence. Do the right thing, ignore her from here on out. You'll survive this bro. And you will grow in wisdom from it to be a better man. Let no woman have this power over you ever again.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 04:09 PM
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It might not be love you're actually seeking but rather security that a person you select to share your world with won't leave you or hurt you. That's different. Establish great friendships, and renew relationships with your family.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 03:32 AM
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No easy way to say this but the overall message is you're not quite man enough for her. That doesn't mean you aren't already alpha but this chick likes your resources, attention and finances. When it comes to cock though yours isn't enough. That's gonna hurt you the longer this continues, assuming she hasn't already cheated on you. Hard next. You've made her into an LTR but she wants to be a plate. Remember, you're the prize not her. If she can't recognize it, find someone who can.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 05:47 AM
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Your emotions haven't caught up to your head yet. As you said, you want the freedom of being single, and you don't have time. Your emotions are trying to tell you you fucked up. You didn't.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 12:54 AM
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Agreed. This was more of an unexpected return on something.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 12:49 AM
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Meh, fair enough.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 12:48 AM
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You can invest all your resources in ONE woman and then produce multiple children with her. Also together, your offspring are more likely to survive than if she's raising your kids alone while you're off banging the cavewoman next door.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 08:00 PM
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Have an abundance mentality. Also don't respond to texts quickly.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 07:58 PM
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Run. Run, run, run. She's pulling the "if you're a real man, you'll stick around for my crazy" tactic. Do not engage, brother, that is a road that leads to a lot of emotional and financial problems for you no matter what the connection was with you two. Do not engage. Also keep in mind, she's telling you in the text how to react: "don't be mean". That's manipulation, she's the one who fucked up and left you high and dry and now she's telling you not to have the emotional reaction that that situa…
/r/askTRP29/02/16 07:55 PM
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She's clearly into the whole sarcasm / cynical thing and expecting you to laugh it off or give it back to her as good as she gives. I say don't look too in depth at it, and continue to have fun being amused. The moment your amusement turns to irritation... I think you know what to do.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 07:50 PM
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Wonderful comment. Let them earn validation.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 07:47 PM
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The last single mother I dated was obsessed with me putting a ring on it quickly. I didn't and tried to slow things down, so we broke up. She currently posting pictures where her ass is pointed towards the camera on Insta and getting likes and pictures of eggplants from strange dudes. Not worth it, dude. Don't get emotionally involved with her, don't get emotionally involved with the children. As it was explained to me, at least so much cum was dumped inside her it resulted in children. Steer cl…
/r/askTRP29/02/16 03:27 PM
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Ditch the friend, he's not loyal. You want your bros to be loyal. This is actually a really SMALL infraction that tells you a lot about the kind of man he is (a similar situation happened last year when a friend of mine slept with a girl mere days after I told him I was interested in her). Never give the label of "friend" to any guy who thinks pussy is more important than loyalty. Ditch the girl, AWALT. Also, (and I don't mean this in an offensive way), check your SMV and get into the gym and wa…
/r/askTRP29/02/16 03:17 PM
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This guy is right. The online dating thing works well until they want to add you on FB. I say no to that.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 03:08 PM
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I've been reading TRP for about a month now. The biggest thing for me is improving SMV. My diet is on point I think (plant based but since I've tried to lose weight since October, I've gained 20 pounds of fat. I'm not sure what's going on but I know being a fat fuck isn't going to help my game any (5'11, 240 pounds). Because I've got that cuddly, teddy bear thing going on women see me as friends or as a possible orbiter (though I have made gains and either blocked or stopped contacting any woman…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 01:03 AM
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This is really helpful, thanks
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 12:24 AM
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Get rid of her now and save yourself heartbreak later.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:42 PM
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To be honest with you, I would quit coffee. I would stop the dependence on caffeine. You'll find you need it as a crutch to get through the day, stabilize your mood, etc. It's not good long term since it has an effect on your insulin in your body. Just sleep more.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 09:47 PM
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I've seen some crazy ideas on TRP before. I mean I've seen some crazy questions but this... FUCK NO you shouldn't convert to Islam.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 09:45 PM
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PRECISELY. This is by far the only response that matters.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 09:40 PM
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Been there. The best advice is keep doing what you're doing. It will fade, in time. But it might be a long, long time.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 09:37 PM
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I've discovered that almost no woman is worth an actual fight over, unless she's your daughter. I do like the response that u/TopTRP gave about "you're going to have to narrow that down for me a bit my man". Always maintain frame, even with another dude who can clearly kick your ass. Don't forget, a fight is two things: your bark, and your bite. Odds are he was bluffing, if he really wanted to beat your ass, and this is important, THERE WOULD BE NO WARNING. He's using his size to intimidate you.…
/r/askTRP19/02/16 09:35 PM
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You clearly have high SMV, plus if your pics get lots of likes from other women, you're golden (preselection). Way to go, bro.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 09:26 PM
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Always remember, brother you're a man. That means you're the prize, not her. This is a case of her saying, she either changed her mind, or that she found something more important than you to spend her time on. Always remember, women know exactly what they want to do. Always. Just respond with, "ok" then leave it. Abundance mentality means she's not your only option--- even if she is, there's too many women on the planet to worry about one who found something else important to do. Have fun bro, r…
/r/askTRP19/02/16 07:42 PM
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OP I really liked this post and can see the benefit of it. What about keyloggers? How to test if one of those has been on your computer or how to get those off? I'm always concerned if a plate or LDR wants to "borrow my computer". Thanks!!
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 07:33 PM
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Delete all social media. All of it. Especially that fucking Facebook. Get the fuck rid of it, I'm serious. No twitter or instagram either. Get off the grid, bro. Delete and change your email, Youtube. All that shit. Change your phone number and I'm sorry but you're going to have to break your lease. Find a new place to live. After all that is done, buy a throw away phone, and call that bitch asking for a paternity test. I will tell you this, there's no way that's she's pregnant and knows its you…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 03:12 AM
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THIS is what has become of women. Totally and completely fucked up messes of trash. They give no fucks but expect us to.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 02:51 AM
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The comments here are amazing and I feel like I learned a whole lot from you all about doing things for myself not because of a woman. This is really useful for me since like OP I could see myself doing my best to have a good presentation only for it to fall apart at the last second. OP sorry that happened, bro. I'm not coming down on you but I do think that you're giving Tinder more power than it ought to have. It's a new day! Time to keep swiping for the next slut.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 05:09 PM
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Vegetarian. I was vegetarian for about 7 years, stopped to eat meat because my doctor (a woman) told me I should. Had mad stomach, blood, etc issues. Go back to being vegetarian, all of it cleared up. There is actually data that suggests humans were meant to eat only plants and stuff. Dairy is HORRIBLE for your bones (despite the marketing ads that suggest otherwise). What I think is probably happening with you (and this happens to a lot of vegetarians) is that you're used to being full from mea…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 05:00 PM
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Meh, I still respect Rousey a lot. She's a fighter who's never lost before and finally did. I can give a pass. Keeping it real if Rousey knocked on your door today and asked you to fuck her, of course you'd say yes. I'm more interested to see what happens after the eventual rematch.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 04:53 PM
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Right on. OP this is the truth. Her even suggesting that means she is now LTR material.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 10:11 PM
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OP did not schedule two weeks out. OP is saying they were supposed to go out 2 weeks ago, and on that date she flaked on him. Then 2 weeks later out the blue, she small talks him.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 10:00 PM
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"Hesitance to act is why your city burns". It's from the season 2 series finale of "Arrow". It's stuck with me for a while. Basically to give a context, Arrow wouldn't kill someone who was going to go public with his secret identity so the lead character from the League of Assassins did it for him. But had he killed said character and several others he would have quelled several uprisings and wars within Star City. The point is, don't wait. How many times have you been in a relationship too long…
/r/askTRP16/02/16 06:03 AM
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Fan page. Or maybe I should make a fake account. In either case, this is great.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 05:58 AM
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RIGHT! So I'm not sure how best to respond but I really like your suggestion, thanks
/r/askTRP16/02/16 05:58 AM
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Point taken.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 02:21 AM
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You're smarter than I brother. It took me to middle age to realize the bar, club scene is pointless. Alcohol makes you think you're having more fun than you really are. And it wastes valuable $$$ you should be investing in yourself and your future.
/r/askTRP14/02/16 10:17 PM
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This is perfect, thanks!
/r/askTRP10/02/16 02:41 PM
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She's in a position of control right now. I am currently about to break things off with someone who is kinda the same way--- we would talk by phone when she decided we would and when I called I would get either pushed aside or asked to talk later or worse: she'd be on the phone with someone, I would call and then she would ask me to call back so she could speak with the other person. Then I accidentally discovered and swallowed the red pill. No matter Beta. Always have the mindset, no more beta.…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 04:16 AM
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Wait. You want to bring a girl that you're interested in on a Tinder date with another girl, and her girl friend? Brother, you give zero fucks and there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 04:07 AM
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Thanks, I'll be saving this and using it myself!
/r/askTRP10/02/16 04:03 AM
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This just made me feel way better about all the dumb stuff I've done in my dating life. Wow, wow, wow.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 11:33 PM
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That was insane. Wow. Be safe out there. Use condoms and guide your emotions.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 11:09 PM
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The fact she's fucking a guy who can't purchase condoms... smdh, gutter trash
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 10:49 PM
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Agreed, brother. Completely agreed. But you know how it is in BP life (or hopefully you don't). Older and much wiser now.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 08:14 AM
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Bookmarking and printing this. Wonderful advice.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 05:00 AM
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Hahahahaha!! Take it in stride, brother take it in stride, hahaha
/r/askTRP09/02/16 03:39 AM
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Upon sobering up the next day she was pretty forthcoming about everything. The next few years was spent trying to figure out if the marriage was worth saving. It wasn't.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 02:18 AM
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You did the right thing. Nothing is wrong with you. People forget that men are actually more compassionate than women. Women get the "compassionate" label due to one thing only--- they bare life and nurse babies. There's an awesome meme I wish I could find and post for you. It's a picture of a woman crying and it says something along the lines of "When Bae is making sense and using logic, so you have no other options than to use tears to win the argument." And that is so precise. We see tears, i…
/r/askTRP09/02/16 02:16 AM
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It's the screening process bro. Gotta screen well. If she has cheating behavior it will probably come out in dating just don't ignore the red flags. Besides if there's one thing I've learned it doesn't have to be a male "friend" that she cheats on you with. It could just be a random. My ex wife hooked up with a dude at a bar the week of our 5th year anniversary (after I in my BP mode had bought her a pricey anniversary ring that she wanted to go along with her already expensive wedding set), who…
/r/askTRP09/02/16 01:55 AM
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I think you're right. It "looks good" as opposed to actually being good.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 01:45 AM
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Agreed, and he still is. I'm talking FB profile pic with her in it, posts on how much he misses her, etc.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 01:45 AM
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I've seen it a lot and didn't know it, but I think the situation that stands out in my mind is I was good friends with a guy, and his girlfriend. Well the guy had to move to Chicago for a year for his job before coming back to my city. Before he moved, they were the most loving couple (I mean daily posts on FB proclaiming love for one another, always seen in public together, could finish each other sentences and all that). They were together about 2 years before he moved. I really was impressed …
/r/askTRP07/02/16 08:15 PM
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This resonates with me so well! In my former BP life, I would do the expected and chase after, thinking that's what they want. But she's not the prize, YOU are!! Let her leave or let her return. That's the TRP way. Fantastic post.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 03:33 PM
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Mad props for the ability to protect your emotions, bro.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 03:26 PM
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Not everyone is ready or able to swallow the red pill. You have to prepare for losing those who were in your former life. But it doesn't matter now, bro. Because now, you're alpha as fuck, so whatever with whatever they are saying. Do you. Always do you.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 06:15 AM
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Dear OP, TRP has not doomed you. It has enlightened you. But as the quote says, "I offer only the truth and nothing more." And the truth hurts. And the truth is AWALT. She finds a guy with a higher SMV and it's over. It doesn't matter your finances, it doesn't matter how much you "love" her. It doesn't matter what you did for her in the past. I speak as one who's wife at the time cheated on me during the SAME week as our 5th year marriage anniversary (she got drunk, met a guy at the club with mu…
/r/askTRP06/02/16 06:03 AM
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You're really, really young OP. So many of the good men here will tell you that she likes you RIGHT NOW, and that's true. But another truth is also you like her RIGHT NOW, also. In 10 years time you will be a different man than you are now. I don't think you're beta at all, and while many will say "oneitis" is a bad thing, I don't think that's necessarily true provided you've done your homework and know her inside out while thinking she's worth the risk (50% of marriages ending in divorce, often…
/r/askTRP04/02/16 05:59 PM
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This is a wonderful post. "If you act white, you come off as a beta black male". This explains a lot about some of the experiences I've had because I've too been hit with the "you act white" from black women I was trying to bang. I get it now.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 08:54 PM
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Where was this response 3 years ago, I could have used it then. This is powerful. Copying this and posting it several places.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 08:44 PM
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This post was amazing, thank you. I just discovered TRP maybe 2 weeks ago and just realized I'm orbiting around several women right now. There IS definitely one in particular I've been hoping for a while that things would change but your right, that's probably not happening ever. Thank you. I'm off to delete a bunch of folks from my phone and what little social media I have. Time to start fresh.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 08:43 PM
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I don't think you should share. I made the mistake of sharing something similar with someone in a LTR once. From that point on, everytime I did something she found unfavorable it became about my abuse. Also, that same woman wound up breaking things off with me, and I think a bad feeling is to trust a woman with something so personally intimate about yourself. For men like us (those who've been abused) a very powerful word is the word "no". When we were abused we might have said "no", but the per…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 08:09 PM
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As someone planning on quitting alcohol and who've made more than a fair number of mistakes when drinking / drunk, this post is awesome and gives me hope for better approaches.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 07:54 PM
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It's a breakup, obviously not one you wanted. It just takes time, brother.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 05:33 PM
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I'll be honest... I discovered TRP about 3 weeks ago and it's been amazing. This guy... this beta... reminds me of myself and my last relationship. I get it. I get where he's coming from but keep in mind he doesn't know what we do... things I've only learned in the last 3 weeks. He needs help. Yes he's in dire straights. But I surmise that like most men, he doesn't know the truth. The truth we have now. This post was scary to me, because it's the exact type of thing I would have written last yea…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 05:29 PM
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Brother, this is golden. Too many times I've ignored Red Flags and it's bitten me BADLY. This post is amazing. My latest mantra has been "Women do WTF they want to". After you understand that, you understand that it's her actions, and only her actions that matter most.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 02:42 PM
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The dark knight on team Red Pill. He protects us. And when he falls, another must rise.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 02:41 PM
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I have never heard of Black Knighting but I assure you I shall be doing it from here on out. That's a wonderful post.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 02:31 PM
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I'm so glad someone posted something like this. These kinds of posts contributed I think to my last breakup (or I least I think so. These were the kinds of posts she was posting to social media about a month before the break up)
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 03:22 AM
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