Getting over an ex

CisWhiteMaelstrom · 2015-05-08T22:02:29+00:00

When you're going through hell, keep going.

Wandering_Saint · 2015-05-09T00:33:05+00:00

Honestly? It's going to hurt for a while. I was with a girl for a month (I really only count it as a week, really) but we still bonded. We kissed, we hugged. No sexual connection, though.

Seven months later, I've come to the point where I don't miss her... I just miss having -someone-. I'm a bigger guy with shitty self esteem, and half of a job though. It's hard to get girls for me in my location.

I don't have any tips on how to pick yourself up. I'm sorry. I simply don't have much experience in it. I just wanted to say that your feelings are important. Hide them if you must, but never repress them. Probably unwarranted advice, but it's the first thing that came to my mind.

tl;dr - It's okay if you're still hurting about it. In the end, whenever you think about getting back together with her, or missing her, just remember that she has /no/ respect for you.

karmasutur3 · 2015-05-08T22:33:45+00:00

GFTOW.

(go fuck ten other women)

Come back and tell me after you've bedded ten more, that you still miss her.

Code_Bordeauxx · 2015-05-08T22:17:25+00:00

Yeah, pick one or more interesting hobbies and socialize with people. Sounds like you're missing the close intimacy. A warm and fun group of friends will help a lot.

h8uhoe5 · 2015-05-09T06:53:31+00:00

I would highly recommend this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MbCeyb9okac

I had a really good relationship about 6 or so months ago and I'm still not completely over it but I have shifted the focus of life onto myself and It's been a steady uphill change.

There are difficult times but you will always improve your happiness by working on yourself and making conscious effort towards it, It will not be linear, there will be good days and bad days, but you will look back and be glad that you decided to take control over your circumstances.

z_omg · 2015-05-09T23:56:51+00:00

Remember that there is a bloody good reason why the relationship didn't work. Trust it. And say Fuck You to the brain whenever it tries recalling only the positive memories of her - they're fantasy, don't let them fool you.

thebadmanpuntdbaxter · 2015-05-11T05:31:14+00:00

Rap music, heavier weights, and cold showers

I broke up with an Ltr last weekend and this has been my healthy prescription.

Rap is all about being the most Alpha mother fucker around and living like a god damn king. It doesn't dream about whispering sweet nothings into the ear of your imaginary unicorn on a fucking grassy meadow. It says im gonna fuck everyones bitch, then make some fuckin lettuce. G-eazy is a good artist to start with, then Kanye, then some A$ap.

Lift. Obviously. Become your sexiest version and move some iron. Its the most mindless way to increase your smv. Literally picking shit up and putting it down. Stimulates T production too, but ill get to that.

Cold showers. Life should not be comfortable. Your morning routine shouldn't feel like the amniotic fluid of your mothers womb because she doesn't fucking coddle you anymore. It stimulates T and clears your skin as a bonus.

The modern man is a fucking pushover. Be a primal beast. No permission, no forgivness, no judgement

Title	Getting over an ex
Author	trpthrowaway12343222
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	May 8, 2015 9:46 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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