Getting plates?

rayyaal · 2016-10-18T17:48:06+00:00

You don't have to pay at the date. Venue doesn't matter too much, whatever works (bar, coffee, walk, picnic, etc...) and then try to escalate/get her back to your place.

Once you guys have had sex at some point or another she'll try to figure out "where this is going", either by being OK with a purely sexual relationship or you have to tell her that's all you're looking for.

Really she becomes a plate as soon as you two fuck, then after that is up to you to decide the direction it moves in - having a plate just means that there's no expectation of commitment.

cozyfeet · 2016-10-19T00:06:00+00:00

Never take them to a movie theatre or out to dinner for a first date. Can't engage at the movies, and dinner is too much time/money commitment up front.

First dates:

Coffee then a walk around the park is a good one. You should be making out by the end of the walk.

Frozen yogurt then walk around is a good night time date.

You want to keep first date simple and cheap. If you are vibing then all you do is walk back to your place. Sometimes I'll say something like "Let's go to my place." then just start heading there. Obviously you've been making out and have your arm around her/holding her hand so that your body language is congruent with your words.

If you're in a city then their should be wine tastings, museums, cheap comedy shows and concerts to go to. But I usually save these for chicks I've already spent time with an know I enjoy their company. Never pay unless its coffee/tea, and then try to get her to pay for that.

jb_trp · 2016-10-18T18:39:13+00:00

Don't take them to dinner. I do drinks, or they can come to my place and "watch a movie." Then just escalate from there.

In my experience, it makes almost zero difference whether you pay or split, so you might as well split. In fact, I've found the girls that don't even offer when that check comes have the least interest.

Rorta · 2016-10-18T20:55:41+00:00

Are you busy? Do you have important shit going on? If not just go out every night and start opening bar sluts left, right and centre. Just fuck the game ones and don't be a beta or a massive asshole.

If you've got shit going on run day game or just game on Tinder. Meet prospective plates at a bar, I don't think buying them drinks or not matters, what matters is the intention behind it. Don't ever meet a potential plate for a meal before you've fucked them, its just not conducive to getting them to fuck.

Title	Getting plates?
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Date	October 18, 2016 5:40 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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