GF left me for her ex..

tomb545 · 2019-03-27T11:13:34+00:00

sluts gonna slut mate, stay single and serve your goal ! Life is great without this drama, trust me

FereallyRed · 2019-03-27T12:32:33+00:00

Your validation hamster only eats food from the relationship store.

Start your own sustainable garden.

You're tying your self worth to the behavior of flakey women. Think about how fucked up that is.

cufflad · 2019-03-27T11:15:57+00:00

Fuck them man - girls get attached and make shit decisions based on emotion.

Crack on with your life, neither of them were worth your time.

KeffirLime · 2019-03-27T12:35:02+00:00

Alpha Widow's are terrible partner choices, the mere fact that you are with them and their ex chose not to be will always put him above you in her mind.

over the past 4 months it developed into a relationship.

Even more so when you're displaying beta traits, complying with all her relationship demands. 4 months is way to early to be developing into a relationship and most certainly too soon to be meeting her family. All these things need to be earned not handed on a 4 month platter.

I am struggling with the idea of finding someone new

The biggest problem with your situation is your approach to women. You seem to be looking for the next "one", that maybe the next girl who comes along will finally be it. This leads you to over invest in women who show you some affection.

Time with women is to be enjoyed for what it is, and what it is, is always determined by what she shows you.

If she keeps adding great value for a lengthy period, perhaps you show more investment. If not you just enjoy it for what it is.
If you show more investment and she keeps adding great value, perhaps show a little more investment. If not you just enjoy it for what it is.

There are no pre-conceived notions of girlfriend or wife, she's just a woman to you, until she proves herself to be more. And if not then you're enjoying her purely for what she's proved to be.

Until you remedy your view on women and stop assigning them value that they haven't earned you'll continue to feel the way you do now.

FixYourselfFirst · 2019-03-27T12:04:19+00:00

She's not yours, it was just your turn.

alpha-zach · 2019-03-27T13:12:18+00:00

Ex calls, says “I’ll change.”

This is a recipe for disaster for both of them. If he does change he’s in her frame, she’ll be miserable. If he doesn’t intend to or doesn’t, he’s just gonna screw with her head for a time then leave or she’ll break up.

She’ll be alone, and she’ll come back to you.

Are you gonna be a loser and accept her because your oneitis needs her? Or are you gonna be a man and tell her she fucked up and you’re done?

Enjoy the victory of lowing she will be unhappy with her decision one way or another. GFTOW. Go focus on your mission. You got this bro

asktrp4433 · 2019-03-27T14:30:07+00:00

You know her parents after 4 months? Dodged a bullet m8.

civilizedfrog · 2019-03-27T15:11:33+00:00

GF after just 4 months.

Ignoring the fact that she was given the gf status too quick, you should see the silver lining here. I knew a guy whose girl left him for her ex after 3 years of ltr.

mrmaldoror · 2019-03-27T12:54:25+00:00

Stop dating them for a while. Just have casual hookups. You still have to shit out another 40 blue pills.

McVaghunter · 2019-03-27T13:14:20+00:00

I slept with quite a few girls and boosted my N-count but never found it very fulfilling

You're still plugged in, there's nothing one can say to a blue pilled man to make him take the red pill. Come back when you realize that casual sex is way more fulfilling than monogamous relationships.

Title	GF left me for her ex..
Author	soupondaroof
Upvotes	3
Comments	13
Date	March 27, 2019 11:02 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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