Recently dumped by gf of 4 years. Long story short, I'm graduating with a master's degree in a few weeks, I have no car, no money, no job prospects. Gf got scared and bailed. Probably had a guy with more status, power, money, etc. lined up, who knows. Maybe she was cheating on me with someone she works with; I dk and I dc at this point. I'm pretty much over the depression part of the breakup as I've been RP for over a year and saw this coming in advance. Anyways, I've since been lifting, returned to training Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, making new contacts, focusing on getting my life together, etc. I've already added 2 plates in 2 weeks.

My question is this: If and when my ex gf reaches out to contact me, should I ghost her forever or add her as a plate? I'm fine with ghosting her (never contacting her again), and I haven't contacted her since the breakup, but eventually I'm expecting that she will text or call me to see how I am when she is lonely or needs attention. What are the pros and cons of adding an ex gf as a plate? Thanks.