This girl approached me on the train a few weeks ago when she looked lost and I looked at her cause she is hot. We started taking and she wanted me to show her the city as she was new. She was going to leave the city again, fly home, get her stuff and move to my city two weeks later. She could not keep her hands off me. I have never had so much physical non sex related contact with any girl and I barely knew her half an hour. She laughed at my stupid jokes and made me compliments. Despite her being an HB 7. An 8 with makeup. Anyway we made plans for the next day instead. But suddenly an old friend took up all her time that day and we couldn't meet and she flew back home right after. Then no contact. Nothing despite her telling me via text how happy she was we met bla bla. Not a word from her for weeks. Then she sends me a text saying she's back in two days. I say that's great and then nothing from her again. Then she suddenly tells me her accomodation fell through and she needs a place for two days and asks of I can let her stay. I say yes. She doesn't respond for the rest of the day and suddenly the initial accomodation worked out again. Then she says she wants to meet for dinner. I agree and the no more messages from her until I message her days later. We set a date. She coincidentally pics a super expensive place (maybe a real coincidence). Neither of us knew the place. She is extremely touchy. Leans against me, constantly holds my hand and my leg. Wants me to take IG pics for her with her and the food. She toasts to us meeting and great true connections and seems genuinely happy and into me. She wants to go on a walk with me right after the mean. (I paid over 130 bucks). And we go and she constantly wants to hold my hand and says how great this is and we are exploring like little kids and when we stop holding hands she says she wants to hold my hand again. Then we say good night. I go in for a kiss on the lips and she turns away and says: I want to take it slow. She's one of those artsy liberal arts Asian instagram girls who most likely dont tak it slow with a Chad. So I say but and she looks annoyed almost and just leaves. I text her half an hour later that I had a good time and ask her to let me know if she made it home ok. No word from her until late the next day. She's constantly on her phone btw. She writes the bare minimum word message that she's ok. I ask her if next week works again for another date, she doesn't reply. Only two days later she replies with the emediate second message asking if I have a computer she can use at my place.

I feel she's just using me. Many days between messages when I want to set up something, and every single time she initiates messaging me she needs something. Be that a Tourguide to find housing, be that a place to stay or dinner or a computer. I said she can come and she said ok and again nothing from her since then.

I don't get it. How is she so enthusiastic and cuddly and touchy and gives me every single sign in the book and then ghosts me again and again.

Is she some psycho who is dead inside and uses me or what's going on here.