Girl wants Help

Store_Front_Door · 2018-01-26T15:17:05+00:00

Isn't inviting someone over for "school work" code name for fucking while in highschool?

360_no_scope_upvote · 2018-01-26T15:36:01+00:00

Jesus these replies are awful. Go, show up, game her a bit if she's not responsive to kino, and escalation, just fucking leave bro. "Oh shit I forgot about another assignment that I have to finish pronto, catch you another day".

fnordsnord · 2018-01-26T15:47:25+00:00

deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^0.4446 ^^What ^^is ^^this?

JerryMullin1978 · 2018-01-26T15:30:14+00:00

Don’t fall into the trap of thinking flirting means anything. Women can dangle the opportunity of sex to get what they want. She hasn’t done anything for you. If you help her, you’re sub-communicating a willingness to trade resources for her desire. Think of Sam Rothstein in Goodfellas. How did it work out for him? Are you going to feel used? How do you think she’ll look at you in the future?

whizkidmill · 2018-01-26T15:24:24+00:00

You could come up with some witty way of saying you'll go over but won't help with homework. Maybe "I can try, but I dropped out at 7th grade" or some shit better than that

redhawkes · 2018-01-26T15:10:19+00:00

Don't fall in the beta orbiter zone. The reason you're asking this is cos of scarcity, and you think you'll lose her if you don't help her.

Remember that you don't have anything to lose.

"busy", let her orbiters do that for her.

deepwoodsty · 2018-01-27T04:01:38+00:00

yes she could be using you. Or you could say yes but in exchange for something. (does not have to be sex) ie she owes you a drink! Hopefully this could lead up to sex at some point.

Thethrowawayoption · 2018-01-26T21:25:04+00:00

I think the one thing missing from this thread is that, if it does turn out to be code for "come over so we can bang", there's nothing wrong with actually helping with her homework too if she actually needs it (but only do that afterwards so you know which situation you're actually in).

judexco27 · 2018-01-27T10:31:07+00:00

Get up your ass and go over there. Kino the hell out of her. If you end up doing the homework without any action, you'll know your place in the pecking order with regards to her, you can boldly next her without looking behind. You need to stick your neck out to know where you stand. You won't get any action by playing safe. Remember " fool me once , your fault. Fool me twice my fault (am an idiot)".

I strongly advice against leaving her if she doesn't respond to your moves, it will make you look butt hurt and childish. Better ask for a return favor if you don't end up getting any action. Anyways, no matter the outcome, you will know where yo place her.

WillyWonka321 · 2018-01-26T15:18:12+00:00

Usually girls who want their homework done just want to manipulate you. Sorry. That's why its called the "bitter taste of the redpill". Do some self introspection and be totally honest with yourself what type of guy she sees you as. Attractive or just a tool.

Just say you are kinda busy and maybe next time. If she give's you negative feedback ignore her. Dont put her on a pedestal. If you want to be with her ask yourself whether it would be enjoyable if you knew the only reason why she was with you is only for the favours. Try and get more girls in your life. Doing a girl's homework is a sign of oneitis. You feel like if you refuse she will blow you off and that will be your only chance and being with a girl. Its not. Respect yourself man.

Title	Girl wants Help
Author	Thrawy124
Upvotes	10
Comments	20
Date	January 26, 2018 3:07 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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