Girlfriend refuses to get STD test

[deleted] · 2013-12-09T22:52:10+00:00

Next.

Only dishonest people get so touchy about being questioned. An honest person will only get annoyed if you continue testing her, not if you ask to test her once in a blue moon.
Either she doesn't care if she's sick, or she doesn't care if she makes you sick. Either way she's not together upstairs.

work-the-balls · 2013-12-09T23:45:08+00:00

Sounds like she is hiding something, if not it's a massive shit test... Either way it's fucked up behavior

[deleted] · 2013-12-10T01:55:32+00:00

Don't cave. She gets the test or you next her. Say it just like that, end of discussion.

that_new_new · 2013-12-10T01:26:58+00:00

There is no legitimate reason for refusing to get an STI screening unless she literally got one last week. That doesn't seem to be the case here.

If she's refusing to share her last screening with you, that is a red flag. If she is refusing to go and get tested with you, that is a red flag.

It is not justified not to get tested out of "trust". That makes no sense. Refusing to get tested is inherently untrustworthy. If she were a trustworthy person, she would show you the results of her last screening and make a plan to go get tested again with you.

Get tested, make sure you're healthy. Then dump her.

[deleted] · 2013-12-09T23:39:30+00:00

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redpillshadow · 2013-12-10T02:11:41+00:00

You seriously need to ask? Why is there even a discussion going on? You next her and she will either come crawling with a test or she won't.

You do not even need to ask trp for that shit. Even the mainstream subs are going to tell you that is a red flag, hopefully. Maybe they just shame you for asking for a test in the first place. Still the advice now that you asked will be similar.

pheonixignition · 2013-12-10T00:09:34+00:00

The fact she's not showing you actually raises some huge red flags. If you were being honest with each other, she would be showing you. I'm feeling something untrustworthy right now.

ireallyamnothere · 2013-12-10T15:27:04+00:00

Here is some advice I give to both genders. It applies to everyone:

Never go back.

Seriously. I mean it. Don't go back to her. Listen to my old-man words when I say no good will come out of dating an ex. If you broke up twice, you had a good reason. Just don't do it, especially if she broke up with you. The only exception I will grant is if the breakup was due to geographical differences such as one partner moving out of state or something.

Breakups should be final. This is for your own mental health and hers as well. It is just better for everyone. Getting back together is usually just a cruel act of mutual psychological torture because the trust on both sides is seriously damaged. This conflict you are seeing between you and her right now is a sneak peek at what your future relationship is going to look like.

As for the STD test... I personally require one from anyone I am regularly hooking up with and they are mandatory before I accept a committed status for the relationship.

redpilldude · 2013-12-10T02:21:58+00:00

Next.

Title	Girlfriend refuses to get STD test
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	19
Comments	21
Date	December 9, 2013 10:42 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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