Girls and BDSM

MGRaiden97 · 2018-11-03T18:39:51+00:00

This, and the increase in weak men. There has to be an equal amount of dominance from both sides in a relationship. Women are getting less of it because of the increase of weak men, and therefore want more dominance.

O_Duderino · 2018-11-03T18:09:56+00:00

And also "50 shade of grey".

light-----------dark · 2018-11-03T18:23:06+00:00

It’s a valid theory. I wouldn’t be surprised.

I’m dating a woman that’s in a high power position, and she loves being tied up and surrendering.

Zanford · 2018-11-03T22:53:06+00:00

Yes. Virtually all girls are super super into BDSM. For me, getting a nice enthusiastic BJ is as good as anything, time after time, but most girls really get off on elaborate submissive roleplay and mixing in different kinky elements.

And yes this has ratcheted (pun intended) up in recent years, likely due to

More exposure to these things in media like 50 Shades (ofc it goes both ways, and 50 Shades was so popular b/c women already crave this)
Harder to find fit men with a dominant personality in RL (beta-ization and dropping T)
Unchained hypergamy
Needing bigger and bigger dopamine hits

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-11-04T12:46:57+00:00

Submission is central to the female experience, and no matter how much ”You go GRRRRL!” feminism gets spewed at us by the Cathedral, Nature knows the truth. Women have never been more “equal” than now ... and they’re less happy than ever. Why? Because they are happier when they are fulfilling their natural role as wives and mothers, and not wasting the flower of their youthful fertility working some shitty cubicle job.

You know how they used to give high school kids those fake babies to take care of who were basically little Hitlers to show them how much parenting sucks? You know why they stopped doing that? Because, where they tried this, teen pregnancy went up. You cannot mess with deep, biological drives without consequences.

So now that women are “equal”, well that comes with ”responsibility” also, and as men, we know that responsibility can be pretty thankless. You know what your father got for keeping a roof over your head, food on the table and the lights and heat on?

At dinner, he got the big piece of chicken.

Women want LEADERS, not LOSERS. They are thirsty for masculine men. Feminism is a giant shit test. Don’t get fooled by the bullshit. I can’t tell you how often I’m gaming a younger woman and, because I tell them flat out (in the right way) what I’m going to do to them, sexually, they blurt out som version of ”OMG! No guy has ever talked to me like this before!”

Remember, don’t listen to what they SAY, watch what they DO.

Further reading:

Uncle Vasya’s Guide to Submissive Women

-How to lead when she wants to follow.

Of Human Bondage – Uncle Vasya’s Guide for Men Who Like To Tie Up Young Ladies.

-The Field Guide to playing knotty games with naughty girls.

[deleted] · 2018-11-03T22:05:02+00:00

none of that is new tho. its been going on since the beginning of time.

derrtderr · 2018-11-03T18:27:05+00:00

Every time someone talks about their “kinks” now I go a big rubbery one.

BDSM is boring. It’s just edgy vanilla basics trying to distance themselves from their Puritan upbringing.

Dominating a girl who wants to choke you, now that’s fun.

cuteman · 2018-11-04T00:13:34+00:00

Don't confuse what people say with what they do and actually want.

Title	Girls and BDSM
Author	hijox772
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Date	November 3, 2018 6:06 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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