Is there a SMV marker or difference level you can reach where being beta doesn't push the girl away? For example, if Tom Brady had a college girl and he showered her with affection would she leave or would she stay because OMG it's Tom Brady?

I'm asking this because I believe that some girls need more beta behavior than others. At least, with my LTR she enjoys my displays of affection the more often they are. Things like an "I love you" text randomly during her day makes her feel loved (she says) while on TRP they preach not to do things like that a lot.

How do I know when it becomes too much if she's only showing signs of enjoying it?