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redpillnobody/r/askTRP31/05/16 01:38 PM
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So many white knights ITT.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 06:01 PM
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There are some good studies out there on pre-selection: One study: http://www.synergy-pr.com/files/JESP72009%281%29.pdf An article outlining what was found in the study: http://tierneylab.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/08/13/do-single-women-seek-attached-men/?_r=0 But single women showed a distinct preference for mate poaching. When the man was described as unattached, 59 percent of the single women were interested in pursuing him. When that same man was described as being in a committed relationship, 9…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:06 PM
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That clears things up.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 03:17 PM
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Be careful saying anything remotely positive about marriage or you'll get hounded endlessly lol
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 02:30 PM
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She heard about you from her friend and wants to find out for herself if it's all true. This is like attractive women getting hit on by fat slob dudes. You just have to deal with it because it comes with the territory.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 11:23 AM
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About a month ago I got a job selling cell phones at a major retailer where most of the workers are either young people or "lifers" that gave up on life and have consigned themselves to retail work. So I get paid more than a lot of them and have no direct supervisor in the store so I do what I want and encounter a wide variety of people. As an aside, why are you putting down the people who work at the same place you work at like they gave up on life or something? That paints yourself in a pretty…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 11:21 AM
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This kind of situation comes up occasionally, and I always think of a woman who got punched in the face on her fourth date. Imagine the advice for this one: I F (18) got punched in the face by M (20) on our 4th meetup, suggestion was to move on, but he said he was sorry, and I still want to pursue some sort of relationship with her, so what should I do going forward?
/r/askTRP28/06/16 11:19 AM
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Hey OP, good list! One thing: The dead bedrooms sub link is typoed. :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/16 11:08 AM
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tldr version: It's a very low-carb approach based on using fat for energy. See the /r/keto sidebar for more info.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/16 11:07 AM
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One exception does not disprove the rule. Instead, it can often prove it. tldr: OP doesn't understand statistics, RP theory or that there's a PPD sub
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 12:50 AM
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Hell yeah, give em hell, good luck
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 12:48 AM
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Yeah for real. Don't miss the second edit!
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 07:49 PM
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/u/RedditAdminsSuck_88 check the second edit. Shit's going down.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 07:48 PM
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See my new edit! Exciting developments!
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 07:46 PM
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I just got the same reply from him and edited my post. Goddamn.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 05:57 PM
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Fuck me. I didn't even see that comment. Goddamn's legitimately sad. Ugh.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 05:54 PM
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Blowjobs are a motherfucker when a girl is in the frame of mind that she wants to take care of you.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 02:45 PM
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Fix these issues by adopting the template - opener, suggest meetup, close with contact info. OP plz print this out and frame it
/r/askTRP27/06/16 01:58 PM
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lol I'm just giving you shit, but yeah that's definitely it, and OP is overcomplicating it to hell and back
/r/askTRP27/06/16 01:17 PM
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OP please don't do this shit You sound like you have tighty whiteys with Drakes face on them
/r/askTRP27/06/16 01:05 PM
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The "K" is dismissive and makes them not want to keep talking to you unless you've already built attraction, frame, etc.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 01:03 PM
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Say yes, be friendly with the guy and act normal. And for fuck's sake, don't show up here the next day asking some shit about "power games."
/r/askTRP27/06/16 12:05 PM
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Please make this sincere, I don't easily get offended, just don't be a douchebag. Don't be a pussy by saying things like this. You're a big boy, and you can take it without people sugarcoating it. Shitcan this girl and go meet some other girls. It's that simple.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 11:44 AM
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"sixth: he is not accountable to you. you are accountable to him. Basicaly remember that he is in charge, not you. He does not answer to you." I just want to add something I haven't seen said in the comments so far: He's also accountable to the health of the relationship and your long-term well-being.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/16 11:04 AM
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They're red flags for a plate/FB and green flags for an LTR, if you're looking for that sort of thing. Decide what you want and handle her accordingly.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 10:59 AM
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That's probably about as well as that could have went. Idk that I'd draw much from that conversation in terms of major red flags.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 02:46 AM
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Hey it's just a saying, that shit sucks. Learn what you can from it and you'll be better off for it. Good luck man.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 02:33 AM
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I'll let you Google the voting data so that you can really dig into the numbers, which I know you'll want to do just from your line of thought here. What I'm saying is that women make decisions more emotionally than men do, on average, and that emotional decisions are typically more geared towards short-term satisfaction, on average. Btw I PM'd you
/r/askTRP27/06/16 02:21 AM
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Grab your shit first and break up with her second, like come on is this your first rodeo. As things have happened, confront her 100 percent. If she declines, you can have a sheriff's deputy escort you there as a witness depending on where you live, which might not be a bad idea regardless so she doesn't say you punched her or some shit. gl man
/r/askTRP27/06/16 02:18 AM
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You have given nowhere near enough information about a specific situation for me to answer your question. Keep in mind that a red flag is just a red flag. A minor red flag doesn't mean a lot in and of itself. It's when you have a number of red flags that you start saying wtf.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 02:07 AM
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I'm going to give a few quick/smartass answers to a few specific quotes with something a little more serious for you to think about on your own at the end. As adults, aren't women just as capable as men of making their own decisions? No Why would they even need men to be "in charge"? To save them from themselves And if they're not as capable of good decision making as men (which I rather doubt), why not, and is there any way to fix that? Because they're women, and there isn't a way to fix it bec…
/r/askTRP27/06/16 02:02 AM
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It's one of those things where it depends. Girls who are openly like omfg I'm bisexual and make a big deal about it are generally attention whores, etc. On the other hand, if it's something where it comes out for the first time that she's attracted to women six months into an LTR or something and hadn't ever really acted on it, that's a whole different situation.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 01:58 AM
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Got me too
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/16 01:47 AM
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Thank you. I agree that steering them to the appropriate sub (polyamory in her case imo) is probably the easiest case without opening a massive can of worms. Maybe I should start a polyRP sub. What a cluster that would turn into. :P Redpillwomen presupposes that its members seek the exclusive commitment of one man, and that being a plate or side piece is a BAD deal for a woman. I agree with the bold completely. While I do think that certain specific polyamorous arrangements could hypothetically …
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/16 09:57 PM
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AF/BB is real
/r/askTRP26/06/16 08:58 PM
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Related: When you first escalate with a girl to fucking her right in the pussy, don't go for a condom first. Wait to see if she says something about it before hopping on your dick. If she does (or doesn't), that tells you a lot. If she doesn't and doesn't seem like she's going to, go ahead and grab a condom then since you've gotten the information you need.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 08:46 PM
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You're getting the idea faggot <3
/r/askTRP26/06/16 07:02 PM
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Drake is gayer than aids brah
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 05:28 PM
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There you go hi5
/r/askTRP26/06/16 05:21 PM
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Again, I want to say that it being your sister doesn't make a shit to me personally. Just realize that she's not attracted to you and move on with your life, just like guys are advised to do so here daily. There are lots of pretty girls on the pretty girl tree, so go get you a few. Also remember that you can't negotiate desire. That means you can't help how you feel for your sister, and that's fine. However, you can control what you do from here on out, which includes things like protecting your…
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:26 PM
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But I love him
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:25 PM
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I'll be honest. When he talks like that, it upsets me. Your frame sucks. Who cares? Let your friend brag without being a whiny bitch about it.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:24 PM
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Dealing with this girlfriend issue is pretty easy. You break up with her and leave no evidence in text messages or anything like that of what she saw on your computer. Then you hide that shit better than you're hiding it now if you decide to keep it around (seriously, you're a fucking moron for leaving it on your desktop, and I hope you know that). Then you take the line that she went psycho on you and threatened to make up stories about you if you broke up with her. That's about the best you're…
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:24 PM
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Okay fair enough, that's a much better explanation. Sure it's an attempt to put you down.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 03:55 PM
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Let me try an instructive example in case you genuinely don't understand. Hillary Clinton is stupid. ^ That's not me trying to project power, intimidate anyone or act aggressively.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 02:20 PM
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You're overthinking this to an overwhelming, tremendous degree. I'd almost vote to automatically delete any post with "power" in the title fml.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 02:00 PM
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You can adjust to your situation as needed. Ditch the heels for some cute flats, long dresses are great when the weather is warmer, tights with a longer dress when the weather is colder, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/16 01:33 PM
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Here's my submission for "makes it a plate school" according to the given definition in the OP. https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/4p8z9g/new_to_rpw_couple_questions_related_to/d4ki3g7 I hold the unpopular opinion that a man cheating on a woman isn't as awful as a woman cheating on a man. I am saying this because I think I am more sympathetic to your arrangement than most. I also think that your boyfriend IS committed to you. I think a good solution would be: he gets to sleep with ot…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/16 01:28 PM
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Feel free to take it or leave it, but I'll throw this out there in an effort to be helpful: Review: What is a plate? This is a Manosphere term for a woman in a nonexclusive sexual relationship with a man. Everyone knows what you're getting at, but I think that for the sake of really driving the "not a plate school" point home once and for all, it might be worth pointing out that this definition isn't precise or complete. I'm not saying so to nit-pick, but the distinction is important for focusin…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/16 02:25 AM
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Says the guy who just agreed to not initiate sex with his wife.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 01:58 AM
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Thinking of it as a mix of perspective and context is helpful.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 12:42 AM
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One of the things ive agreed not to do is initiate sex. You absolutely 100 percent cannot do this indefinitely. Helping her work through her issues is great, and I'm of the opinion that you should do that, but it should not consist of removing initiating sex indefinitely. Might want to take this to the marriedredpill sub.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 12:40 AM
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I have no idea why in the world you're posting this here. You're both fucking idiots.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 12:37 AM
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But she's not a "party girl" Nah she just drives an hour (a fucking hour!) to hang out with another guy and get drunk and stay the night.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 12:33 AM
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Yeah for real like lol talk about self-loathing
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 12:27 AM
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I lift it and then hold it for a couple of pumps to make sure I'm in like I want to be, and then I can let it go for the most part for a few minutes if I keep fucking with somewhat upward strokes like at a diagonal like / or whatever The main thing for me personally is that it helps when I want to slow the pace for a minute since I don't have to slam into her to get a similar amount of depth
/r/askTRP26/06/16 12:21 AM
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Interesting stuff. I have this in my clipboard from recommending it to someone else for a different reason, but you might want to take a look at the free CBT program that the Australian National University has available here: https://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/16 08:47 PM
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First and foremost, I'm sorry that this happened to you. There's a lot to unpack in your post, but I'll hit a few of the high points that I think will help you to get a good start here with RPW and with taking control of this aspect of your life away from what happened to you when you were younger. I'll give you a few quick points for easy digestion, but feel free to ask myself or any of the ladies here for elaboration. When I was 10 I decided that I never want to get married, have a relationshi…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/16 08:41 PM
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A word to the wise: Consider running this by your SO first. There are a lot of potential benefits, as is listed in the OP. However, it's a sensitive subject for some men, and it can turn into a major point of contention if it's not approached properly.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/16 08:24 PM
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Here I tried to draw a diagram in Paint: http://i.imgur.com/NtSdjqJ.png Basically lift her ass cheeks up a little, not her whole person, just her ass meat so that you can hit it from underneath and get more of your dick in there Normally it's like <---you--><--ass cheeks--><--pussy--> and when you lift the ass cheeks out of the way, it just gets you closer to her pussy, god I hope that makes sense and doesn't sound retarded lol Tbh I'm like 6 and my girls have ass like a motherfucker, and if I d…
/r/askTRP25/06/16 08:18 PM
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One for each week reset every Monday would probably be fine for the traffic this sub gets /my two cents
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/16 05:04 PM
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lol there's no mystery why you guys get counted off for grammar, what a victim this is the end of this conversation, if you want to become a better man, then you're in the right place, but you'll need to change your attitude
/r/askTRP25/06/16 05:02 PM
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That's a super loaded topic. My advice is to Google "pua approaching groups" without the quotes. Even if you don't want to go the full-blown PUA route long-term, you can still pick out the parts that will help you (much like TRP in general), and you can't beat PUA tactics for approaches, starting conversations, etc. In my experience, one place that a lot of guys get hung up on is trying to talk to one girl out of a group and getting ganged up on (ie: cockblocked) by the others. It's much easier …
/r/askTRP25/06/16 05:00 PM
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Seconding that I've never had guys go in bashing their SO anywhere near the level I've seen women do it. I have some pretty married beta guy friends, and when they do complain, it's pretty much always of the form, "I wanted X, but she wanted Y, so we did Y." If you suggest he does X instead, it's always, "I don't want to hear her complain blah blah, it's not that easy blah blah." If it keeps up, it inevitably turns into "If it's so bad, then why are you with her?" just like you said.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/16 03:14 PM
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You're being a pussy, and you know you're being a pussy. So the next logical step is to figure out why you're being a pussy. It's probably some form of fear of failure. The idea is that if you sabotage yourself, you don't have to face the anxiety of possibly failing with her in the future. With that having been said, don't turn a ho into a housewife. Decide for yourself which level of chick she's going to be. Look up the post on Bitch Management. If a chick is the clubbing type and hooked up wit…
/r/askTRP25/06/16 03:07 PM
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Talk to people more (in person). It'll take a while, but you'll get a lot more capable of handling social interaction, and that will drastically help you with game.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 03:05 PM
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The issue is that you can't help without causing a tremendous amount of harm to yourself or your friend in the process. When you play with pigs, you get covered in shit.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 03:03 PM
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Don't go out with plates
/r/askTRP25/06/16 03:02 PM
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Yes, a while
/r/askTRP25/06/16 03:01 PM
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Keep in mind that formal marriage is a relatively recent concept in our history as a species
/r/askTRP25/06/16 03:00 PM
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How do you deal with people who post the most vague questions ever?
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:58 PM
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Your SMV probably isn't affected. If anything, it could improve it if there ends up being a rumor that you fingerbanged a chick in a club unless she was like a legit 300 lbs. Chubby chicks can be fun nbd
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:57 PM
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There's a logical progression for those goals. Figure out which have the most priority and focus on 2-3 at a time at the most. Good luck man.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:56 PM
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If Nina Hartley can get a bitch off with half of one finger, I think you'll be fine if you learn better technique When hitting it from behind, lift her ass up some so that it's not between you and her so much When hitting it from on top, push her legs back so that your pelvic can go flat against hers instead of at an angle, but not all the way or it'll put your dick at an angle and squeeze your dick out of her gl bro
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:47 PM
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Again, that's her choice, and you don't get to decide that for her. She's an adult, regardless of whether she acts like one. The big problem here is you keep getting pulled into her frame (and to a lesser extent, the frame of your parents).
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/16 12:15 PM
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That's a comma splice, and that'll be 2 points off, you illiterate faggot.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:14 PM
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Yeah that's where the "typically" part of "A man [worth having] will typically feel emasculated" comes in.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/16 03:13 AM
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If a guy gets upset with a bit of banter then meh I can tell he is insecure That's a shit test. All women test, but some just test differently and more/less frequently than others. Context matters a lot too. :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/16 01:57 AM
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Pretty much anywhere in public besides the doctor's office
/r/askTRP25/06/16 01:55 AM
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Jesus Christ, it sounds like you're making a tremendous amount of progress. Keep it up man, post more and feel free to PM me to shoot the shit.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 01:00 AM
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Practical Advice: Be very clear about expectations on any interaction with the guy. You want no lack of communication here so if he tries to suck your cock (assuming you don't want that), he can't be like whoops my bad I thought you wanted that. Also, why the fuck would you take this chick out on a date? You don't take plates out on fucking dates, and you sure as shit don't take chicks out on dates who have a boyfriend and who are on the Internet looking for cock.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:41 AM
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That's rough man. Kudos to you for cutting it out for that long after it being that big of a problem. What else have you got going on in your life?
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:37 AM
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A&A&A&A&A&A&A&A&A&A&A&A&A&A&A&A&A&A&A&A You care entirely too much about this shit with your sister. You can't control her, and you shouldn't try to. If she wants to be an idiot, that's her business. Hold frame, lol at her and carry on.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/16 12:34 AM
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Worry about improving yourself instead of worrying about the worth of other people
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:29 AM
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She's not attracted to you. This is not LMR, ASD or any other terms you learned in the past week. She's just not attracted to you.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:26 AM
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okey boiiz Can you please not do this? It makes you look like a 13 year old girl at a fucking Justin Bieber concert. Also video games aren't a huge deal in moderation as long as the rest of your shit is together.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:23 AM
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Q1: How do you change your mindset to reduce your instincts to shit-test? The reason I learned about TRP is because two different guys I was talking to mentioned shit-tests to me. I had no idea what they were talking about, I just thought I was flirting. To be fair, you probably were just flirting, but there are better ways to go about it that will be more likely to get you the result you want in the long run. Q2: In regards to evaluating dating prospects, what are your deal-breakers? I've got a…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/16 12:12 AM
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You could also change the title to: Advice on Begging my Wife For Attention Like a Beta Pussy Faggot Active dread will make you look like you're begging for attention. "Look at me, look at me, validate me because of X." Passive dread is so much more powerful and does not have the side effect of being validation-seeking as fuck. Relevant quote: "When you're in the end zone, act like you've been there before." Alright so I'll be a little nicer. Active dread doesn't work well 99.999% of the time be…
/r/askMRP24/06/16 11:58 PM
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Two things: Being fairly happy with yourself and craving external validation are not mutually exclusive. What you're describing flies in the face of having an abundance mentality. It's worth noting that abundance mentality is not limited to women, so what else have you got going on in your life? As an aside, there are sections of NMMNG that talk about similar situations as what you're describing.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 11:55 PM
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I want to say. You're a hot girl of course you have options but you're also 31 and a single mother so have fun finding someone who's not going to just want to fuck you. Or you could not act like a total butthurt little bitch It's called amused mastery, not unamused butthurt But that would be stepping into her frame correct? Correct!
/r/askTRP24/06/16 08:39 PM
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Two words: External validation You think if these girls picked you instead of whoever the fuck, then that would validate that you have worth News flash: It won't
/r/askTRP24/06/16 08:38 PM
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or that they're "testing my metal" For future reference from one man to another: mettle* I also find I get on with women SO much better than guys.... and there's no competition There's plenty of competition, but you just don't see it or take it as seriously as it is, go Google Ian Ironwood's posts on the Female Social Matrix I never run out of things to say around them which happens constantly with guys. Your whole post wreaks of needing external validation, which is addressed in full by the boo…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 08:37 PM
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This is one of those cases that can be an exception to the rule of "plate the bitch if she goes without you," but we'd need to know a lot more information about your situation.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 08:32 PM
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Here's a way to think about frame: Are you coming from a position of strength or a position of weakness, regarding the context of the interaction? With this girl, you're obviously coming from a position of weakness.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 08:30 PM
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Here's the thought I'm getting at: If you want to use this as a really good lesson for yourself, then look at what it was that led to you having oneitis for this girl in this specific case and see what weakness(es) that's honing in on in yourself so that you can improve. Good luck.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 08:28 PM
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I'm pretty red pill (even before I knew what it was) with everyone but this girl. It doesn't work like that. That's like saying you're straight except for this one dick you suck all the time.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 08:14 PM
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Any chick who drinks to the point of being drunk at any point with me is no longer LTR material with few exceptions.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 04:03 PM
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My ex tried to murder me twice. Easier to get laid from physical scars than psychological ones, but we're all fucked up. Welcome to the club buddy. Get to reading and keep posting. Good luck.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 11:37 AM
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lol what a butthurt homofag he was
/r/askTRP24/06/16 01:48 AM
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No
/r/askMRP24/06/16 01:42 AM
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It depends how you use it. Add the "News Feed Eradicator for Facebook" and only use it for close friends and family to keep in touch/organize events, mind your privacy settings and don't really post much of shit and you're fine.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 01:25 AM
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I thought OP said he was Puerto Rican my bad, I think I mixed tabs lol Either way who gives a shit
/r/askTRP24/06/16 01:24 AM
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That's not really AMOGing as much as it is guys being guys. Quit worrying so much about what everybody thinks about you. I have been written up for hurting someone's feelings before, and I'm not trying to get in trouble again. lol please tell this story
/r/askTRP24/06/16 01:17 AM
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Not looking for fucking shortcuts
/r/askTRP24/06/16 01:15 AM
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The group laughed at my joke, but I still didn't feel content. This douche was wayyy scrawnier and lower GPA and lower status than me, I feel like he didn't deserve to even attempt to take shots at me. I really wanted to just tackle him and beat the fuck out of him, put him in his place. But I know that's not practical because popular people usually have friends/backup and obviously most people aren't worth going to jail for. You handled it well externally, and you handled it poorly internally. …
/r/askTRP24/06/16 01:07 AM
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If you were raised in it, then why are you acting like such a pussy about it?
/r/askTRP24/06/16 01:03 AM
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Tell her you'll make her a dick burger but you'll need to use her buns
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:46 PM
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Here's one: https://therationalmale.com/2016/06/06/the-talk/
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:43 PM
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Google Roissy's post Be a Skittles Man
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:42 PM
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what are some career choices that i could pursue with that degree that could make me some good amount of money that would allow me to move out on my own. I figured you would have thought of that before you started.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:40 PM
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Yes The cause can be pelvic tilt, which is easy to fix with some simple stretches, google it
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:39 PM
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Comfort test, she could also be projecting but that isn't a lock
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:38 PM
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Go anyway If she goes without you, next Doesn't sound like LTR material to go get drunk in vegas for the lols anyway
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:37 PM
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Here are some options: Get your balls up Powder your pussy before you go out so it doesn't sweat Take up knitting Go to a gym that's indoors There are girls in indoor spaces, go fuck some of them lol?
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:36 PM
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It doesn't work like that. Post more. PM me if you want idgaf
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:33 PM
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she has 2 kids which is a deal breaker for a LTR for me unless she proves to be fucking amazing. You're fucking retarded if you LTR a FB with kids. My thing is I havent told her I am not looking for a LTR (no opposed to one eventually with someone but far from looking or what I need right now) Do I address this? Ignore it? wait till she gets attached and then throw it at her? nip it in the butt now, my intentions and let her take it or leave it? what do you think? There are recent posts about "T…
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:30 PM
1

It happens, and you'll get used to it the more you approach.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:27 PM
4

He did it once at the start of the friendship and told people something i purposefully made him think was a secret, ofcourse since modern friend circles have no privacy it gets back to me immediately and i not so much punish him but rather explain to him that this is his 1st strike and i dont appreciate him running his mouth. You shouldn't have said anything to him about it. Once you know that he'll do that, you simply don't trust him to not do it, and you go about your business without making a…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 01:39 AM
1

No, she sounds pretty normal to me
/r/askTRP22/06/16 08:24 PM
5

If I'm correct, it would seem that you have no problem with the polyamorous aspect of the relationship, but you want him to have open and honest communication with you, which is supposed to happen in a polyamorous relationship anyway (there's a polyamory sub-reddit you can check, and it says so right in the sidebar). That's what separates it from other types of non-monogamy. It's worth pointing out that any form of non-monogamy, including polyamory, is not really the RPW sub-reddit's strong poin…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/16 06:37 PM
4

From your comments, it doesn't sound like you're a plate as the term is typically used. However, between the OP and your comments here, it's unclear if you're upset about his non-monogamy or with other things about how he's treating you. Could you give us some more elaboration about what it is that's bothering you about this relationship, how long you've been together, if you live together, how often you see each other, what the plan is for the future, etc.? If you could give specific examples o…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/16 05:32 PM
1

TRP is one part of the manosphere, the reddit subs are one part of TRP, Ian Ironwood has a good book about it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 02:48 PM
0

My wives SMV will never be as high as mine You'll get used to it, just hold frame, nbd gl
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 02:43 PM
5

TRP was a community long before it became a sub
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 02:40 PM
3

It's not a "safe space," and TRP narrative is completely about men improving their lives. If you suck at maintaining frame and people who bitch about stupid shit gets you down, then that's a personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 02:38 PM
1

This isn't necessarily straight from the sidebar, but you might want to do a little research into the concepts of the circle of influence vs the circle of concern and how your focus on one or the other is specifically what changes you from being reactive to proactive, etc. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 12:39 PM
4

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 11:52 AM
8

Who cares, it's a business move Not all RPers are anti-LGBT btw The idea that gay or bi men are all inherently beta (or at least not alpha) is far from the mark
/r/askTRP22/06/16 04:29 AM
2

Men and women aren't the same
/r/askTRP21/06/16 10:09 PM
2

I grabbed a girl's waist, made racist jokes, and even made sexist jokes about how women belonged in the kitchen. wow so edgy
/r/askTRP21/06/16 09:34 PM
1

There's no business like ho business
/r/askTRP21/06/16 09:32 PM
1

Apply for jobs and work on your appearance and interview skills, then apply for some more jobs
/r/askTRP21/06/16 09:30 PM
2

If you pick one to hit on, it will turn the other one off. wrong
/r/askTRP21/06/16 09:24 PM
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get over it pussy jk but what does it matter what everyone else does
/r/askTRP21/06/16 09:23 PM
1

cry more
/r/askTRP21/06/16 09:18 PM
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delta is kind of like the manliest beta or upper tier beta/greater beta or whatever the cool kid term is these days, usually thought of as a guy that generally gets shit done and isn't necessarily a pussy or w/e but is just super middle of the road, a lot of "good dad" types are like this
/r/askTRP21/06/16 06:16 PM
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this isn't exact, but it's close enough to give you a good enough answer that you'll quit caring about it because it really doesn't make half a fuck introverted + attractive = sigma extroverted + attractive = alpha introverted + unattractive = omega extroverted + unattractive = gamma
/r/askTRP21/06/16 06:04 PM
1

Like I said, you seem like you're willing to change and really want to improve, so I don't mind helping when I can. I'm not going to go word-for-word like I did in the previous post (because that takes forever), but I'll hit the highlights. Why would she tell me that if she isn't CONSIDERING having sex with me. A lot of this comes down to the fact that you're in the friend zone right now. You have a very slim chance of having sex with this girl. Yes it's beta to keep talking to her. But again, i…
/r/askTRP21/06/16 06:01 PM
1

I have some time, and you seem like you really want to get better at this, so I'll break this down piece-by-piece and hopefully give you some insight. I haven't messaged her since 2-3 days but I'm thinking now it might be more rational to text her back with low effort for now. If you text her first, that will put you in the role of chasing, which is going to lower your chance of ever getting with her. Seeing as she will be meeting the guy soon, I don't really want to 'back down' if it makes sens…
/r/askTRP21/06/16 05:03 PM
2

Okay, no problem. Your post was a little vague on some of the details so it seemed like you didn't, but nbd. In any event, it's not really a big deal in the long run, so no sweat off of your back.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 04:40 PM
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What it comes down to is identifying the things that you can control and the things that you can't. Similar to this is identifying the things that you can really know and the things that you can't. To give you an idea, the reality of the situation is that you can't really know why she jumped to this other guy, and you can't control that she did. That means you have a choice to make about the narrative you tell yourself. In your OP, the narrative you chose was that you suck and she moved on becau…
/r/askTRP21/06/16 04:39 PM
1

A lot of men today are raised to be like that because we're brought up in an environment that's largely about seeking outside approval. A big part of the RP is in recognizing this and changing things to be more internally focused so that we're focusing on the things in our lives that we have control over instead of the things that we don't. Good luck!
/r/askTRP21/06/16 04:34 PM
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All of that information helps to understand the situation tremendously, and thank you for sharing that. Also understand that I'm on your side here. With that having been said, she's still talking to her druggie ex-felon w/e ex. At some point, he allegedly said he was going to come after you with a gun. If this did happen, and it happened verbally, then it either happened when she met with him in person or when she was talking with him on the phone. My question is which of those was it, and why w…
/r/askTRP20/06/16 06:22 PM
3

having your little pissy meltdown will make you look like a toddler and will hurt your long-term growth, but you do you
/r/askTRP20/06/16 05:51 PM
1

Why in the fuck was she with her ex? If they were on the phone, why in the fuck did she answer the phone? Or was it her who called him? Hmm. You didn't answer any of this. I can't answer your questions until you give me the information I need by answering those. How this happened with your girl is of paramount importance here. Edit: Everything about this guy is screaming alpha fux. I hope you realize that.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 05:44 PM
1

she's not now, so just move on man
/r/askTRP20/06/16 05:43 PM
2

Alright man, I broke this down into a play-by-play for you. Good luck. I got sick of dating sluts, so I decided to look elsewhere and found a shy, virgin girl. hi5 We talked casually for a few months over skype. Since she doesn't live far from me I visited her for a few days. this internet/long-distance shit doesn't work out well I thought I might get into a relationship with this girl, because I liked her personality a lot. you can never, ever think this before you fuck her Now, she lied to me …
/r/askTRP20/06/16 05:42 PM
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hi5 Fundamentally, this comes down to the fact that some things are under your control and some things aren't. This is something that isn't really under your control at this point, but you're trying to treat it like it is, which is where your suffering is coming from. gl man
/r/askTRP20/06/16 05:33 PM
1

getting a reputation as a player is wonderful in that situation these hoes have heard all about you and they want to find out for themselves if it's all true lol
/r/askTRP20/06/16 05:32 PM
1

To make matters worse, the professor gave my friend points off on exams for mundane stuff such as spelling and grammar even though the class was a science class.... he's supposed to, get over it Now just recently, my friend was going for a jog on campus and needless to say he ran into the professor but did not know he was there, the professor tripped him and my friend fell! sounds like bs 99 percent of the time The professor is a Muslim Arab and my friend is a Jewish guy from Israel (who looks s…
/r/askTRP20/06/16 05:32 PM
1

If a woman doesn't give me sex, I feel disrespected. why and what context if you walk past an old lady in the grocery store and she doesn't jump your cock, do you feel disrespected being a smartass here, but for real we have no idea wtf you're talking about because you didn't provide enough info
/r/askTRP20/06/16 05:27 PM
2

block her and this problem solves itself
/r/askTRP20/06/16 05:27 PM
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I was looking him up today pussy send him a friend request to him by mistake lol? which he accepted lol! I didn't even notice that I had sent it until he accepted it and my heart came in my throat. who cares, you shouldn't She didn't mention it and I am sure he will bring it up with her and message her. why does she talk to her ex's I have unfriended the guy and have never met him in my life or in person. What should I do now? prob shouldn't have unfriended him since you look like an even bigger…
/r/askTRP20/06/16 05:24 PM
1

I drove over with the intention of talking to him and trying to de-escalate the situation I have a hard time believing someone who has that strong of a command of semi-colons really thought going over there was going to de-escalate the situation. You went over there to start shit like a dumbass. Until he started telling her he was going to come after me with a gun. He didn't make the threats directly to me and it was done verbally, so I didn't really have anything I could take to the police. So …
/r/askTRP20/06/16 05:23 PM
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I was always clearly her alpha but once she started to think she could do better, the shift was immediate. Weak frame alert Why is it that she's doing better than you? Why isn't it that she got tired of being your fucktoy after three years of realizing you're not going to commit, so she decided to get her shit together for one last attempt, failed at that, and is trying to pull commitment somewhere else? Also you giving a shit enough to post this is a frame issue in and of itself
/r/askTRP20/06/16 05:18 PM
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Something that will help in a major way is just making a quick "sweep" through the house before you go to bed picking up anything that needs to be thrown away (wrappers, etc.), picking up dishes out of other rooms and bringing them to the kitchen, etc. It takes five minutes at the most, but it helps to avoid that feeling of things "building up" to the point that they're really difficult to tackle.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/16 04:57 PM
1

"Earned success" happens to a very few chosen lucky SOBs. Yes, luck. Not "hard work", nobody got rich ever only from "hard work". I strongly disagree because you used the word lucky. Hard work by itself won't get you anywhere, but it is one of the requirements. It's just like a car with a powerful engine won't get you anywhere if it doesn't have everything else it needs to actually get somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/16 04:50 PM
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Related anecdote from my fiancee: My now fiancee (then gf) was to be the maid of honor at her best friend's wedding around a year ago. For the bachelorette party, they stayed over at a city around an hour away, got their nails and hair done, did some fun things and went out to eat. They came back to the hotel that evening to open presents, and it turned into a 45-minute SO-bashing session. Other than my fiancee in the room, there was the best friend/bride to be, the bride's mother and sister, th…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/16 01:18 PM
1

This is a part of a larger discussion that's not talked about all that much, but a fair number of things in general can be slanted alpha or beta depending on the context.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 12:38 PM
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Both of those depend completely on frame. You and I both disagree with the first two specific examples, likely because we can hold frame, but a complete newbie might need those examples first so that he can learn the exceptions later.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 12:07 PM
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Yeah I totally understand where you're coming from, but thinking about the intent of what she's doing (whether she realizes it or not) helps a lot with this. A similar concept is a comfort test, which is a test for beta. An example of this happening is when you have a married couple who haven't had sex much in a long time, and the guy starts lifting, dressing better and getting his shit together in general. His value starts to get higher and higher while hers stays the same, and she starts to fe…
/r/askTRP20/06/16 12:04 PM
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Np. A shit test is also called a fitness test, and it's a test for alpha. It's like she's attracted and wants to make sure you're what you present yourself as, if that helps.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 12:48 AM
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It's a fairly strong IOI that gives you plenty of opportunities to use canned lines effectively
/r/askTRP19/06/16 11:36 PM
2

It's fine if you don't overdo it
/r/askTRP19/06/16 11:34 PM
5

It's not a shit test, it's an indication that she's not attracted to you A shit test requires that she's attracted to you (and is essentially seeing if the alpha you're displaying is for real or not) No big deal man, there are plenty of pretty girls on the pretty girl tree, on to the next one
/r/askTRP19/06/16 11:33 PM
3

Shit's a lot easier irl tbh
/r/askTRP19/06/16 11:32 PM
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Don't sell them, keep them for your kids I would also not say anything about them to her
/r/askTRP19/06/16 11:31 PM
1

So again, nothing you just said refutes the fact that women commit more domestic violence than men in straight and lesbian relationships. I'm done with this conversation. Best of luck with everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 11:29 PM
2

Let me hit a few things here: If you want to hit on other women and have it not be a problem, then your first stop should be learning about plates (see the sidebar of this sub under "FREQUENTLY ASKTRP'D QUESTIONS"). After you get better at that over the course of 6-12 months, if you still decide you want an LTR, you can start working towards that sort of thing with the parameters that you decide. How you should think about it is that you're making the best choice you can right now in this moment…
/r/askTRP19/06/16 11:26 PM
1

Not if you want to be happy
/r/askTRP19/06/16 10:44 PM
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but im so fucking pissed I feel like i need to do something anything at all? Decide that the thing you're going to do is to not drag yourself down to this bitch's level before i decide to leave her ? otherwise i cant get over it You surely can get over it, but first you've got to find some other shit to do so you'll stop sitting around thinking about it so much
/r/askTRP19/06/16 10:43 PM
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What's up big guy? First we need to identify the problem, so I'm going to help you to do that here: no body loves me or care about me. I don't have any reason to change then You have an external focus instead of an internal one why would i change if no one cares or love me You have an external focus instead of an internal one Usually people outside hate me more then love me. You have an external focus instead of an internal one Every day i get that how much i lack for my generation and how they …
/r/askTRP19/06/16 10:42 PM
2

Who cares, you shouldn't If she decided to randomly take a shit in the floor of a grocery store you were in, would you ask why she did it or would you just leave the bitch
/r/askTRP19/06/16 10:33 PM
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google alpha widow, it's a cute part of hypergamy
/r/askTRP19/06/16 10:30 PM
2

You acted like a friend, and now she's treating you like one. She's confused because she doesn't want to fuck you (and she's not going to want to fuck you, so a relationship is out) even though you act like her bestest buddy in the whole wide world. Read the sidebar and leave this girl alone, it gets better
/r/askTRP19/06/16 10:30 PM
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Drop the girl, work on yourself
/r/askTRP19/06/16 10:27 PM
1

My advice for guys in your situation is to make fucking two girls your new normal. Don't worry about fucking 8 or 12 or 14 or whatever, just get two and maintain that for a while. It'll change your life.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 09:53 PM
1

Start worrying about getting over "The Twelve" As in the twelve bitches you fucked in the past month
/r/askTRP19/06/16 09:52 PM
1

Watching porn with chicks is fine if you're using it to escalate her boundaries
/r/askTRP19/06/16 09:50 PM
1

Her: who were you with last night You: girls Her: what did you guys do You: boned Her: gets sad It's ok you can do whatever you want It's my problem that I get sad anyways. You: yeah she always forces me to tell her. Bull fucking goddamn shit, she doesn't force you to do a fucking thing so stop using this weak ass pussy faggot cop out because you're not a weak sack of pathetic liberal fucktard shit, you're a fucking man, and men own their fucking shit.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 09:49 PM
3

It seems to me that "passing" a shit test is sometimes basically entering a woman's frame. Passing a shit test is refusing to enter her frame and keeping her in yours. After getting into RP shortly after I realized that was probably a shit test. Not at all. She's just continuing the banter with the inside joke. She's staying in your frame by doing that. There's no test because she's not trying to affect your frame. tldr: There wasn't a test, but she likes you.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 09:45 PM
2

Your main girl should not be your hottest girl. It's a different skill set required than looking good.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 09:35 PM
1

I completely sympathize with your situation and your perspective. I'll leave you with something to think on: Elephants don't swat flies.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 09:21 PM
2

True amused mastery (as opposed to having to "fake it until you make it") is the end goal of this type of thing. It comes from confidence and frame (which you'll get from experience and working through your own insecurities). It bothering you is a symptom of the issue, and that's something you need to dive into to figure out exactly why it bothers you in the first place. Chances are that it shouldn't bother you.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 08:38 PM
1

Another way to think about frame is whether you're coming from a position of strength or a position of weakness. To give an example, if you're coming from a position of strength, being dumped doesn't really mean that much since you know there are plenty of girls on the pretty girl tree, and you'll have no problem going and picking yourself a basket full whenever you feel like it. As far as the family in the hospital goes, coming from a position of strength could mean being an emotional rock that…
/r/askTRP19/06/16 01:07 PM
1

What's wrong with her being monogamous? That doesn't have anything to do with you.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 01:04 PM
1

This is going to sound like I'm just being a dick, but I get nicer at the end. Let's break this down real quick: Out with new girl at the bar New girl, so you have little to no investment in her. That's important context I run to her to help her pick up her shit that's fallen from her purse. There's your first fuck-up, did you wipe her ass for her when she went to take a shit too? But at the same time, I look like a bitch for not defending her when she's getting physical. Thinking that it affect…
/r/askTRP19/06/16 01:03 PM
1

Isn't all the focus on getting women kinda beta? It depends on the frame I'm thinking that all this time spent spinning plates I could spend working on my goals or relaxing from work so I could be more productive later. Being a good little worker bee is beta
/r/askTRP19/06/16 12:58 PM
1

The main legal issue isn't really marriage despite the uber anti-marriage dogma you'll see thrown around. The truth of the matter is that if you have your ducks in a row on how you handle a prenup, it won't get thrown out. All of the horror stories of prenups being thrown out are pretty easy to avoid if you have separate legal council, video the signing and the time leading up to the signing, have a drug and alcohol test done at the time of the signing and sign the prenup well in advance of the …
/r/askTRP19/06/16 12:57 PM
1

Throw How to Win Friends and Influence People in there before the Rational Male imo. It's a short read, but very effective, simple and to the point for exactly what you're asking about.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 12:39 PM
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How prevalent is cunning in the world? Not that prevalent. People are largely dumb and lack forethought. When they do try to play you, it's obvious a majority of the time unless you have a major information advantage, in which case no amount of "cunning" will save you. Is not believing everything you hear even if it's rather basic statements smart? I constantly assume everyone I'm talking to might be lying with every word they say. I have a feeling that it might be unhealthy to be in such a ment…
/r/askTRP19/06/16 12:37 PM
3

You have no legal recourse without outing yourself as soliciting a prostitute. The money she took is the cost of a lesson. If that guy would have beaten the shit out of you, then that would have been the cost of another lesson, which you came dangerously close to getting. The more you fuck with this and spend time and energy on it, the less happy you're going to be with the result.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 12:31 PM
1

A manosphere writer who was around a lot longer than more of the well-known names. He's considered the main manosphere writer on non-monogamous LTRs.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 12:26 PM
1

Cherry-picking. Not all violence is murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 12:25 PM
1

Women commit more domestic violence than men in straight and lesbian relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 03:01 AM
1

She's treating you like a beta orbiter because you cast yourself in that role (see what I did there) with your lack of escalation, lack of balls in asking her out directly and creepy way you got her number. I hope the analogy helps you in the future. Also just ignore her and on to the next one, but recognize that her 24 hour delay situation was probably influenced by your actions.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 02:01 AM
2

Two cases I ponder on now are "always eat in a restaurant with your partner" and "always go to boat trips with your partner". Never heard either of these, so I'm kind of wondering if you're massively overthinking this.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 01:57 AM
1

What does tons of emojis tell you? That girls are fucking annoying.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 01:57 AM
4

What do you all suggest? Just be normal to her at work and stop with trying to incorporate her in your life at all past that.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 01:56 AM
3

You need to get over it because it doesn't mean anything.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 01:55 AM
2

It's an issue of frame, much like a lot of things. It's a part of the larger understanding that the same act can be alpha or beta in some situations depending on your frame. when someone tries to get under my skin/inside my head by publicly attacking me, even though I can show I'm not affected nor that I care about the opinion of tthe little shit attacking me, unless I publicly hit back I feel like I lost power. And there's the frame issue. Your "power" isn't dependent on what other people say a…
/r/askTRP19/06/16 01:54 AM
0

but rather because it's just cheeky banter That's it. A neg should be a positive experience for the girl receiving it. because it lowers the woman's self-esteem It's not supposed to, which is where a lot of these fuckers miss the mark. because women are attracted to assholes It depends on how you define asshole, but that's way outside of the scope of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 01:49 AM
1

She's very glad that she has you there to tell her to do these things. Here's an example: There's a big difference between being employed and being self-employed. If you're employed, there's a pressure on you to follow a certain schedule so you don't get fired, so it takes less willpower to actually get the shit done that you need to do for your job. If you're self-employed, you don't have that pressure, so it's a lot more difficult because of the willpower involved.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 07:06 PM
2

No, I'm an asshole.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 07:02 PM
2

Women shit test all the time, it's just what they do. Even to omegas. I want to make a quick point here that I think this is misidentifying a shit test. I don't think she's attracted to the guy at all because of their previous history, and women don't shit test (ie: test to verify alpha) from guys who they aren't attracted to on some level (ie: guys who don't present alpha). Aside from that, I pm'd the guy some support. That shit's gotta suck, and if what he says is true, he's trying like hell t…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 06:40 PM
1

Alright, I'm going to go ahead and tell you that this next paragraph is going to come across as a little harsh, but bear with me because there's really, really good news. First thing's first: Your boyfriend has every right to be very upset about that, and if he posted asking for advice, a lot of people would have advised him to leave you over it. I'm not saying that it was your intention, but what you did is 100 percent in line with the behavior of a woman who is trying to keep a guy she goes ou…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/16 11:50 PM
1

Was there a particular incident where he felt like you didn't have his back? I'm asking because that's super specific.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/16 11:10 PM
1

If you're in a setting where you can't grab her and risk escalation, you can be like Hahaha I am so manly your little girly hands cannot harm me
/r/askTRP17/06/16 10:30 PM
1

Both Your main girl should rarely be your hottest, she has to be able to keep your stomach full and your balls empty, which is twice as much work as the average chick can handle
/r/askTRP17/06/16 10:26 PM
2

Another fun one is "you should"
/r/askTRP17/06/16 10:19 PM
5

Block her, on to the next one, who cares etc Don't you have some man shit to go do
/r/askTRP17/06/16 10:14 PM
2

as he thought it would help me develop the strong principles he thought I was lacking Question: Which principles did he describe in telling you this?
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/16 10:12 PM
0

Go get buttfucked in the ass, how's that for creative and specific
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 02:09 AM
2

You should build something for yourself until you can support yourself and THEN quit the sure thing. Jesus Christ.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 05:24 PM
1

Just want to say welcome, best of luck and keep posting.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/16 10:49 PM
1

Then it's a girl acting like a girl. What more do you want?
/r/askTRP13/06/16 04:52 PM
5

The original story was written in the 1950s and is largely about individual responsibility. It's a work that does have many ideas that mesh with RP, but not for the reasons you're pointing out since it doesn't really even include the story arc with the girl. There are a number of reasons that people are suggested not to look too deeply into red pill ideas in fiction, and them showing up accidentally without intent is a big part of that. In any event, it's definitely an example of a girl acting l…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 04:44 PM
1

How long have you two been together before you found out? There's no amount of time that will mean you should stay with her, but I think it makes for a good cautionary tale.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 04:30 PM
3

I agree 100%, and my use of language was not very clear at all. That's my fault. There's a big difference between the "good guy balance of alpha and beta" that you see the Athol Kay types throwing around and an appropriate mix of alpha and beta that flows naturally that keeps a girl wanting to fuck your brains out 24/7/365. The red pill, in terms of practical terms, is largely about teaching men to reclaim their true nature (alpha behavior from a strong frame) that has been stomped out of them t…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 03:24 PM
2

If you have a guy who has balanced alpha and beta characteristics and behavior, I don't think that it would affect much at all. However, if a woman was on hormonal birth control with a guy who was mostly or completely beta, and she came off of it, then I can imagine a scenario that she would start finding herself more attracted to other men and possibly less attracted to her partner in general without necessarily understanding why. Of course, there are plenty of other things that it could change…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/16 01:36 PM
7

They're also more likely to go out, more likely to sway their hips when walking, smell better to men (compared to when they aren't ovulating) and tons of other fun stuff. It's an extremely interesting topic that I think can be used to open the eyes of a lot of guys who are still blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 01:23 PM
2

As an aside to your original question, it's worth noting that this dynamic that they're talking about with these studies provides a foundation for a ton of RP concepts from the man's side of things like AF/BB, the alpha provider, dread, pre-selection and plenty of others. It also helps to explain why both alpha and beta are needed from a captain. If you want to get really in-depth with it, it also changes what the optimal strategies are for on the captain side of things in terms of how to distri…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/16 11:27 AM
3

Here's some quick science that will likely put a lot of it into perspective. I'll mansplain some of the implications here and in comments further down the thread. :p The following pair of studies were for women who were not on hormonal birth control: http://newsroom.ucla.edu/releases/Near-Ovulation-Your-Cheatin-Heart-6713?RelNum=6713 There are other studies like it, but I'm just going to pull quotes from these two since they all find pretty much the same things for our purposes on this topic. Ne…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/16 11:18 AM
1

Pretty much anyone with sense knows looks are pretty much the only factor that truly matters when it comes to dating. Most other things have very little impact on overall dating success That's provably wrong for men, but mostly true for women. You can Google it. Most seem to ignore it and suggest being "confident" and "dominant" or that the person should lift, even though lifting doesn't really increase attractiveness unless the person is already attractive to begin with. There's a lot more to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/16 11:20 PM
6

I sent you a PM
/r/askTRP12/06/16 10:07 PM
1

A&A probably works wonders with this guy
/r/askTRP12/06/16 08:15 PM
1

That sounds solid to me, but just don't fall into the trap of chasing her or continuing conversation if she bucks
/r/askTRP12/06/16 07:38 PM
1

Alright, you might want to include an edit in your OP that says that. I'm of the opinion that this is definitely a shit test (testing you for alpha) instead of a comfort test (wanting to feel valued/get validation). She's looking for an excuse to fuck you. Something as simple as, "Come by at 8 and give me some ass," can answer her question without answering it or pandering to her.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 04:53 PM
2

I understand your perspective on this. I really do, but if you play stupid games, you win stupid prizes. There's something about how you're acting that's attracting this type of attention, and without a better description of what's going on, it's going to be really hard for us to give you any kind of actionable advice. Best of luck though.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 04:34 PM
1

How does that work?
/r/askTRP12/06/16 04:28 PM
1

Awesome. Git r done
/r/askTRP12/06/16 04:16 PM
2

"You totally still want to bang me, don't you?" Did you ever bang her? I'm leaning towards no.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 03:24 PM
1

but nobody disconnects you from this world into a real one. In the movies, there was only one world, and I don't say that to be pedantic because I think it's a key part of the larger analogy that shouldn't be missed. Even once unplugged, they couldn't escape the Matrix and its influence on them. The people who were born outside of machine control in Zion were still under the influence of the Matrix because of how integral of a part of their world it was. My point is that you can operate on diffe…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 03:17 PM
2

Let's assume a man with plenty of options is in this situation. Does he give this chick the time of day? Nope. He has too many other options that don't give this level of bullshit to waste his time.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 02:30 PM
22

It sounds to me like you have a lot you're still trying to work through and have some trouble swallowing the pill maybe. You might want to look at the formatting help link below the posting box for future reference because it's hard to read that shit.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 02:12 PM
14

Acting like a drunk dumbass and alienating your entire social circle isn't "acting red pill." Sounds like you need to get your drinking under control.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 01:56 PM
1

This sounds like a good time to point out the difference between tactical problems and strategic problems. Tactical Problem: omg how do i (handle extremely specific situation) Strategy Problem: Why don't you have your license?
/r/askTRP12/06/16 01:54 PM
4

She can't make you an orbiter. Only you can make you an orbiter. She's not attracted, so on to the next one.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 01:49 PM
1

Make a list of the good, masculine shit about you. That's your foundation and starting point. Next make a list of the masculine attributes you wish you had. Pick out one or two of those and make a plan to cultivate them. Follow the plan for a while, then re-evaluate in a few weeks to check your progress and see if you need to make adjustments.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 01:46 PM
1

Standing up for yourself is one thing, and there's nothing wrong with that. Being obsessed over some "power struggle" and thinking about who is "the most powerful of the two" is some real autistic shit that you should probably cut out. You should also be careful of being too much of a clown in front of people since it seems like you might be doing it too much just for attention, which makes you an easy target as well.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 01:41 PM
4

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/r/askTRP12/06/16 12:11 PM
1

Taking responsibility for your own happiness as well.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 12:03 PM
1

I think you're drastically over-complicating things. You need to sprinkle in some beta to keep an LTR going well while maintaining an alpha frame. It won't hurt your attraction, and it keeps her comfortable enough to stay invested in you, which is what you want.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 12:02 PM
3

That she wouldn't break up with me when I said something she didn't like and then try to get back together five minutes later when she calmed down.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 11:59 AM
3

He should want what's best for you and not what will satisfy your short-term whims is my point. Best of luck though!
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/16 10:31 PM
1

Just pointing out the definition
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 10:30 PM
1

Plenty of resources to learn game, gl
/r/askTRP11/06/16 10:25 PM
1

Because you broke up with her?
/r/askTRP11/06/16 10:22 PM
1

Sounds good enough, might want to make it clear you're giving her your address thiugh
/r/askTRP11/06/16 10:19 PM
2

Can pm me too but I'm an asshole
/r/askTRP11/06/16 10:15 PM
2

And there's where you're wrong
/r/askTRP11/06/16 10:12 PM
0

It's not pedophilia if they've reached puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 10:09 PM
2

Women are more receptive to alpha behavior near ovulation.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/16 09:31 PM
9

Not a woman, but I can answer a few of these for you. 1 - Is the goal creating a fulfilling life for yourself, or simply snagging a man? Is snagging said man believed to be a necessary part of creating said life? RPW is primarily about long-term, female-centric sexual strategy as a component of a fulfilling life. Not everyone wants the same things long-term, but there's a general agreement on some of the things that no one really wants to happen long-term, and a good amount of discussion is arou…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/16 09:28 PM
3

You should listen to your parents until you're prepared to be financially independent. it's making me unhappy with not being able to do what I want. A red pill woman is able to listen to what needs to be done instead of being so caught up on what she wants to do and how not doing it makes her unhappy in the short-term. This is a good time to start practicing. If your boyfriend is encouraging you to disobey your parents in this scenario, then that's a separate issue that needs to be addressed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/16 09:03 PM
3

You'll learn a lot from just reading discussions here, participating and asking questions, etc. Good luck with everything.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 08:20 PM
6

wat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 08:16 PM
7

A related model is multiple LTRs, which gets into some fairly heavy shit really quickly as far as how to manage all of that, which probably doesn't get much play in TRP right now because so many people are still trying to figure out how to handle one TRP or multiple plates, let alone multiple LTRs.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 08:14 PM
4

I feel extremely shocked. You're in good company. You'll find tons and tons of guys here who had the exact same reaction. For me personally, it was like a lot of things I had known sort of on the fringes all came together for me, and I had this crystallization of thought where I had a kind of "aha" moment. Right now I feel so deep in shit that change seems almost impossible, at least alone. You're not alone. There are plenty of people here that will gladly talk shop with you on all of this. I ca…
/r/askTRP11/06/16 08:00 PM
1

I'll take a look.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 07:51 PM
1

Amen. When you see that people have acted the way they have because they are damaged themselves, it makes it a lot easier to deal with them and move on to great things.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 06:21 PM
6

How you're feeling is completely normal. It's what you do from here that decides how things will be for you for the rest of your life. Good luck.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 04:02 PM
22

You'll never be able to get revenge in any way other than becoming a great man, so go ahead and get that Count of Monte Cristo shit out of your system since it will get you nowhere but miserable. Welcome aboard, and keep posting.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 03:40 PM
2

This can be a beta bait shit test if you haven't fucked her or a comfort test if you have
/r/askTRP11/06/16 12:54 PM
2

You've got to accept that you can't go back in time and there's nothing wrong with how things played out for you, she's just a girl
/r/askTRP11/06/16 12:48 PM
1

Learn to maintain a strong frame
/r/askTRP11/06/16 01:08 AM
1

Please use line breaks and make paragraphs
/r/askMRP11/06/16 12:08 AM
4

Only if she passed out before he fingered her
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 10:39 PM
5

Thank you for the clarification. You cannot demote her to plate because she's already a plate. She's also never agreed to be exclusive with you, so why do you care if she goes to this concert with her ex?
/r/askTRP10/06/16 10:37 PM
-6

this is TRP not mommy plz google this for me because i am not a capable enough of a man to do research on my own, idc what you believe
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 10:26 PM
0

Are you a bitch
/r/askTRP10/06/16 10:04 PM
1

You wanting to "reply once and go no contact again" is acting butthurt and being stuck in her cheating whore frame. Block her and go on with your life. Do not respond to her.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 09:51 PM
9

A hard no is not the same as LMR, but unfortunately, a lot of people don't get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/16 09:23 PM
2

Don't casually ask. Ask directly: "Who are you going to the concert with?" If she doesn't give you a straight answer, then she's doing you a favor by showing you that she's not trustworthy. If she can't be honest and direct with you on the small stuff, how will you ever be able to trust her with anything bigger? Suppose she's honest and says she's going with her ex-boyfriend. If she's not your girlfriend, then you have no reason to be upset about this. If she is your girlfriend, then why are you…
/r/askTRP10/06/16 09:20 PM
1

I agree completely. I think we're close to the peak, but not quite there yet. Things are going to get worse before they get better.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 05:25 PM
3

It's not for men who couldn't hack it in modern society, it doesn't hate women for being inadequate, it doesn't hate women and it doesn't seem women as being inadequate. That's what you're missing.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 05:22 PM
3

Upvoted. To elaborate OP, you'll see a lot of discussion about the idea of assuming the sale, an important display of higher value that is found in nearly all alpha behavior in one way or another. Your question shows that you were specifically not assuming the sale, which is a display of lower value.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 05:18 PM
-6

You're right, tons of science is wrong, my bad
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 04:56 PM
2

Read No More Mr Nice Guy and get into TRP discussion on long term life plans gl!
/r/askTRP10/06/16 01:44 PM
1

For TRP in terms of sexual strategy, it doesn't affect much in terms of practical matters, even though it's been shown over and over again that race does affect SMV tldr: Don't worry about it
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/16 12:19 PM
1

You linked me to this other post where you also didn't post an explanation If you want help, you're going to have to put more effort into this
/r/askTRP10/06/16 12:17 PM
3

I clicked this expecting to see an explanation, and there was none For me personally, I'm going to need to know what in the fuck you're talking about before I can give any advice other than post better
/r/askTRP10/06/16 12:06 PM
11

Multiple studies have shown that it's not something they're aware of doing fwiw
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 11:58 AM
1

That it's a tool. A hammer is also amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/16 04:20 AM
3

You've lost frame huge here, who gives a shit why she didn't respond? Her loss, on to the next one
/r/askTRP10/06/16 03:49 AM
1

Think of the context of every one of those things you listed in your life and whether you're coming at them from a position of strength or a position of weakness
/r/askTRP10/06/16 03:48 AM
3

I know the post you're talking about because I had a top comment on it. It wasn't so much about being vegan as it was about her being a pain to deal with and an unpleasant person (i.e.: unfeminine). If you aren't pushy about it or go on rants about hunting and meat, you're fine.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/16 10:20 PM
6

no sorry, you have a massive misunderstanding of the concepts of alpha and beta as used in trp
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 06:06 PM
4

rather than trying to become a part of the drug-fueled party scene. lol is this what you think being alpha is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 05:29 PM
1

Keep in mind that a lot of chicks think it's rude or imposing to suggest themselves coming over, so you might want to let her know it's cool for her to do that
/r/askTRP09/06/16 05:18 PM
1

Act like a man and think further ahead than the next month and all of that bullshit will fall away and you'll be able to focus on what's really important
/r/askTRP09/06/16 05:17 PM
3

First, don't shit where you eat. Feeling the need to game chicks at work is weak because it implies you can't get pussy anywhere else. To your question, frame is basically the social application of context.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 05:16 PM
1

Just tell them that it didn't use to be acceptable for women to vote, but times change so they can stfu
/r/askTRP09/06/16 05:14 PM
1

A variant on the same theme: She gets sick without her daily dose of petercillin and vitamin D.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 05:12 PM
1

There's always going to be risk, and the best thing you can do is decide what you want and then do everything you can to minimize the risk and maximize the reward
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 01:19 PM
1

I disagree with the old adage that "women aren't logical." Of course they are, they're just playing a different game. The point is that they don't play that game primarily with logic, not that they aren't capable of logic at all etc
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 01:00 PM
46

What's up mofuckah? Congrats for hopping on the RP train and trying to get your shit together. I am not really one of you You say this at least twice, and I understand that you're saying this to show that you don't feel like you have much skill or experience with women, but it shows a lack of frame. What I mean by that is that you're starting out from a position of weakness, almost as if you're giving yourself a psychological safety net where you expect to fail so it won't hurt as bad if you do.…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 12:58 PM
9

lol no she's not, typical propaganda approach nbd 10 feet higher fucknuts
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 11:49 AM
3

Looks are indicators of genetics etc, women care more about that around ovulation than other parts of their cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 11:42 AM
1

"Frosted Cheerios are fucking weird" "Your asshole" w/e you have a tremendous opportunity to have fun with this since she's trying to engage you without being aggressive
/r/askMRP09/06/16 02:24 AM
0

Myers Briggs types are glorified horoscopes sry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 01:18 AM
1

lol that woman sounds dumb and he sounds like he's socially awkward as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 01:17 AM
2

Because it's indicative of mental or physical illness gl
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 01:15 AM
1

Unless you're female
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 01:14 AM
1

Finger banging a frat slut behind a dumpster doesn't deserve a life sentence She assaulted him because he was drunk before all of that w/e w/e
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 01:12 AM
2

the fact that I dislike sex probably had something to do with it you should look into that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 01:04 AM
2

Wow thanks for the super in-depth fucking post, we can totally offer any kind of helpful advice whatsoever
/r/askTRP08/06/16 11:55 PM
1

White knights are being created faster than we could ever possibly unplug them, so it's not really something to worry about
/r/askTRP08/06/16 11:54 PM
2

"Hey chimly, would you be cool letting your gf go on a trip like this without you?" "No, I wouldn't make her go that long without my dick."
/r/askTRP08/06/16 11:52 PM
1

You can't dictate what goes on in someone else's relationship, and you shouldn't try to. You do not come across as weak for having standards. When you are compared to this other guy, you will be seen as more favorably by anyone who cares. Even if the whale says some bs, we both know that she'd take your dick on the drop of a dime if she thought she could get it.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 11:50 PM
2

Anyone who knows shit about shit would need to know a lot more about this girl to be able to give you anything resembling reasonable advice.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 11:45 PM
1

fyi: Law 1 was written based on Robert Greene's own experiences dealing with a female boss
/r/askTRP08/06/16 06:23 PM
1

A safe space is a good tool to use in select situations for people who have dealt with real trauma and who have really deep issues to work through them by having short-term "safe spaces" to deal with shit like exposure therapy etc And that has absolutely nothing to do with the absolute joke that they've turned the concept into now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/16 06:17 PM
12

Yeah that's pretty much it from what came out of the court case
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 06:14 PM
19

tldr: He fingerbanged some drunk broad behind a dumpster outside of a frat house I still don't understand how he got 3 counts of sexual assault like wtf did he do, use three fingers? pro tip: don't fingerbang girls who are passed out in fucking public
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 06:09 PM
20

I've also heard that she was willing to let it go if he apologized, but that he lawyered up. It's a trap, apologizing would be admitting guilt
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 06:08 PM
1

There are two ways to use the terms. One describes people and one describes behaviors. Both are relatively abstract ideas to a degree. When describing people, an alpha male is someone who is sexually attractive to women, and a beta male is someone who is sexually neutral. An omega male is the third to the set and describes someone who is sexually repulsive to women. When describing behaviors, alpha describes the behaviors that deal with sexual attraction, and beta describes the behaviors that de…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/16 04:54 PM
2

I've always had trouble with this unless a girl really gets her technique down Until then, I typically think about things I like that turn me on or w/e and that helps
/r/askTRP08/06/16 04:36 PM
6

If I'm reading this correctly, then your number one issue in the present is that you think him not wanting marriage is a reflection on you. You seem to feel this way because he initially wanted to get married, and now he does not. With that having been said, everything that you have said about him indicates the opposite and that his reasons for changing his mind and not wanting to get married have absolutely nothing to do with you. My suggestion is to give us a list of the things that you think …
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/16 03:56 PM
6

Having your chick be RP-aware isn't the end of the world, but how you handle it is a pretty big deal
/r/askTRP08/06/16 12:44 PM
8

You don't win by out-gaming her. That's your ego talking. What the fuck does out-gaming her even mean? You asked her about her n-count, and she indicated that she's probably a slut. That's great news. If you want to plate her, that presumably increases your chances of fucking her. If you don't want to plate her, then you know she's not LTR material. You gain either way from her answer no matter what it is that you want. You asked her about TRP. Massive fuck-up. There is no possible scenario wher…
/r/askTRP08/06/16 12:40 PM
9

Doesn't matter if she signs, she can withdraw consent at any time
/r/askTRP08/06/16 03:46 AM
2

but just the way you view women as not your equals Men and women are different, and therefore not equal You're thinking about "not equal" in the sense that 5 and 4 are not equal, so you immediately think one has to be greater than the other To give you a better frame of reference, apples and oranges are not equal For a better mathematical frame of reference, (3,4) and (1,7) are not equal The core of feminism is not about people having equal or more rights Yeah it's about improving the position o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 10:59 PM
2

Great concept, name needs some work and the layout is a bit tryhard, but plenty of potential gl
/r/askTRP07/06/16 03:46 PM
0

Say will instead of shall, it's socially awkward
/r/askTRP07/06/16 03:43 PM
1

Wanting an LTR isn't inherently oneitis
/r/askTRP07/06/16 02:22 AM
1

Rationing out beta is completely fine if you have an alpha frame and is necessary for keeping a girl around in a healthy relationship long-term, just keep your alpha:beta ratios in check
/r/askTRP07/06/16 02:16 AM
2

Don't shit where you eat has nothing to do with this situation
/r/askTRP07/06/16 02:14 AM
1

Google condom size charts and try others that fit as well (or better)
/r/askTRP07/06/16 02:11 AM
1

No most of the canon has been around for longer than the current American issues
/r/askTRP06/06/16 11:44 PM
1

Yeah my bad, the sarcasm was lost over text
/r/askTRP06/06/16 01:52 PM
-4

Tell her to stick her head up your ass and fight for air
/r/askTRP06/06/16 02:35 AM
1

We have evolved to walk away from situations where we lose more than we gain. Not really If neither party benefits, there is no evolutionary reason to engage in a relationship. There can be plenty of situations where this is the case if the offspring benefits sufficiently tldr: op doesn't understand evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 04:47 PM
3

What you describe in the first paragraph is a comfort test, not a shit test. She's testing you to see if you're interested in her, which is different than testing for alpha. Chicks don't normally comfort test in public, though they'll shit test in both public and private. On the topic in general, you typically have a higher risk and higher reward with shit tests in public, depending on the situation. Passing a shit test smoothly in front of other females probably triggers a bit of preselection a…
/r/askTRP05/06/16 12:50 PM
1

The formatting and paragraph breaks are impressive in light of the absolutely terrible grammar and post quality in general.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 12:03 PM
1

Identify first if this is a shit test or a comfort test.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 09:52 PM
5

It's closer to 5 out of 10 in the United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 12:22 PM
3

From this and everything else in the OP and comments, it sounds like you're a bit insecure about if you're good enough for him. Do with that what you will, but it seems to me like he thinks you are. Aside from that, you might want to decide which you'd prefer to do if you had a gun to your head: stay with him long-term without marriage or leave him in hopes that someone else will marry you. I'm not saying he's not going to marry you, but if you decide the answer to that question ahead of time an…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/16 01:40 AM
1

RP theory and principles can be applied to a very wide range of situations. Check /r/altTRP for a community that largely consists of gay men, for example. There's a fair amount of discussion for vetting women for LTRs if you know where to look. To drive the point home, there's also plenty of information (again, if you know where to look) about how to minimize risk/maximize gain in marriage in terms of everything you'd need to do to keep a pre-nup from being thrown out etc, despite TRP's stubborn…
/r/askTRP03/06/16 03:55 PM
1

I get along fine for a few days, proudly accomplishing things, even making time to meditate or write...and then suddenly I completely run out of steam. Not a regular here, but in GTD, there's a big focus on staying organized enough for things to run smoothly while avoiding being too organized to the point that you're wasting energy, which will inevitably lead to burnout. That might be a concept worth considering. gl
/r/RedPillWives03/06/16 03:33 PM
4

All I have to say on this topic is that female selection for an LTR/multi-LTR is generally a neglected topic on TRP subs.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 02:04 PM
2

Don't shit where you eat, but your responses come across as thirsty and that you aren't going to listen to shit anyone tells you, so gl hope you don't get shot
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 04:39 AM
1

Does he want to marry you? I never saw this answered.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/16 02:54 AM
-1

Aside from the mod politics, there was a large divide on what the goal of RPW was. Many thought that the only possible goal was legally recognized marriage, and anything other than that (including long-term relationships with various paperwork or how to deal with a high-quality man who does not want to get married aka put his balls on the guillotine) got you banned, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 01:53 AM
2

No
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:23 AM
3

Plenty of asexual people masturbate. I think asexual doesn't mean what you think it means. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 12:21 AM
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"I can't help the way I feel and slowly and gradually, the attraction just started to fade away". She is what she is, but this is some of the most true shit you'll ever see a chick say
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 03:13 PM
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I understand OP's concern, but it's w/e since it doesn't really apply to me I guess As an aside, you can put ".compact" at the end of a reddit url, and see if you like that, it can hide that you're fucking off on reddit a bit more if people aren't familiar with the compact layout
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 03:05 PM
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I'd say there's a bit of a difference in that we have a lot more to offer than sex, but I'm sure we both understand it's about the general sentiment and not a literal interpretation etc Edit: we = men
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 03:01 PM
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"If a bitch don't like me, something's wrong with the bitch." Keep working on yourself
/r/askTRP02/06/16 02:35 PM
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She's dumb, who cares, there are a lot of pretty girls on the pretty girl tree
/r/askTRP02/06/16 02:33 PM
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"If it flies, floats or fornicates, it's probably cheaper to rent."
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 02:29 PM
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Recording something doesn't change whether it's consensual. If someone records me signing a contract without me knowing, it doesn't void the contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 11:33 AM
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The need for alpha = the need to reproduce with good genes The need for beta = the need to provision and protect those kids until they can reproduce for themselves Doesn't matter if you have a bunch of kids if they all die because you can't feed them This is partially why female humans physically hide their cycle while other great apes and other primates show it off
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 02:01 PM
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Women get emotional support and security from beta behavior, and when they fuck them, it's essentially securing those emotional (and financial) resources for the future. The act of taking the red pill is essentially seeing the reality that this is separate from raw sexual attraction. It's not an on-off type of thing, and you're right that their drive for alpha behavior is higher during ovulation because that's when they're choosing for good genes. However, they also have a need for beta behavior…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 12:50 PM
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Thank you for showing exactly why the standard should not become affirmative consent, which is exactly my point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 01:57 AM
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It was included in Roissy's Sixteen Commandments Of Poon, which was written almost a decade ago, for one There's a reason it's called push-pull instead of push-push A fair amount has also been written about the "optimal" ratio of alpha:beta changing during a girl's cycle to be more alpha-heavy during ovulation and closer to 1:1 when approaching the beginning of the period, which is extremely relevant to the Nash equilibrium aspect of the situation you're flirting with
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 01:56 AM
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There are ways to legally record someone in many jurisdictions without their knowledge to the point that you can get the evidence you need to maintain that you received vocal affirmative consent. However, not all affirmative consent is vocal. You're not interested in addressing the spirit of the issue, and you're very misinformed on legal matters, so this discussion is ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 10:27 PM
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For fuck's sake move on, she isn't interested, not deleting you means jack shit
/r/askTRP31/05/16 09:59 PM
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Relevant information: Women are more likely to cheat based on seeking beta during the last week of her cycle (the week before her period). They're similarly more likely to cheat seeking alpha in the 2-3 days before and after ovulation. There are some fun studies on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 08:50 PM
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It's always been considered that the best way for a man to maintain a relationship with a woman is a ratio of alpha to beta in the range of 3:2 to 4:1, depending on who you ask. This isn't some new idea. Keeping frame and keeping your ratios from becoming too beta are the important parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 08:48 PM
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In any event, it's a red herring to this particular topic: If a man is accused of rape ala not getting affirmative consent, but he did get affirmative consent, and he has to prove it to stay out of prison, what do you suggest he does?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 08:33 PM
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But if you're taping her without her consent, what you're taping is non-consensual! There was consent for the sex, not the taping. The lack of one does not revoke the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 08:30 PM
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Neither of these things are difficult. That's not the point. The point is that it doesn't matter if you actually got affirmative consent when you're facing a rape charge. When you have to prove you got consent to avoid prison and your life being ruined, and you have no tools to do so, that's the problem. More specifically, it's not the idea of affirmative consent that the majority of people have a problem with. The problem we have is that, in a court of law, affirmative consent should not be the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 08:28 PM
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To be clear, nothing in my response indicates that recording someone (or taking nude pictures of them) without their consent is okay. Instead, I'm saying that having affirmative consent (ie: making the man prove his innocence instead of making his accuser prove his guilt) without the tools to prove that consent is absurd. Again, to be clear, I am not in favor of recording people having sex without their consent. I am against affirmative consent because it requires evidence to prove that is illeg…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 08:18 PM
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Revenge porn - You need to be able to record your sexual encounters if you want to protect yourself in an area where affirmative consent is the standard because it all depends on her word. Distributing photos of someone else nude without their permission being illegal seems reasonable and has nothing to do with gender. Affirmative consent - Sounds great in theory, works horribly in practice and is directly at odds with the idea of being innocent until proven guilty. Has nothing to do with gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 07:23 PM
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We can hope, but it generally doesn't work like that
/r/askTRP31/05/16 04:29 PM
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He does want it, he's just been taught not to act like it
/r/askTRP31/05/16 04:15 PM
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He's just trying to be a nice guy doing what he's been taught to do as far as the whole "you're perfect just the way you are shit goes "
/r/askTRP31/05/16 03:15 PM
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Studies also find that the level of testosterone in men is decreasing and that the waistlines of women are increasing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 02:46 PM
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Make a plan and stick to it, avoid the temptation to go back to her because you're sad
/r/askTRP31/05/16 12:53 PM
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"who the fuck is amber heard" that's what I think This bitch wants the money, and she's following the standard script for getting it: Marry someone who makes a fuck Stick around a little while Oh fuck he abused me allegedly Cash the fuck out
/r/askTRP31/05/16 12:42 PM
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