Girls talk about their problems

LeGrandDiableBlanc · 2014-12-11T21:59:32+00:00

It depends. If its a stranger, I just brush them off at the first possible second.

If I am in a social setting where my reputation matters a lot, you need to be more tactful. Usually I'll respond to their complaint as soon as there is a break in their speech with something like, "That sounds unfortunate." Then, without stopping to give the a chance to continue, I'll change the subject. You can act like you're slightly ADD and a new idea popped into your head (complete with facial expressions). After a sentance about the new subject, without giving the person time to respond, I'll mention that I need to leave. No excuse necessary, just, "Excuse me for a moment." and walk away.

Example:

Person: I can't believe that [insert problem that is most likely self-induced while showing no desire to change behavior to fix said problem].

Me: That sounds unfortunatet. Oh, did you hear about that shit in Ferguson? Crazy right? Excuse me a moment.

If they keep persisting, or find me later and re-engage I'll start to get more blunt.

Person: Like I was saying [reasons you should feel bad for me even though I have never had a real problem in my life].

Me: Hey, do you mind if we talk about something more positive? We're at a bar/party/[insert location here].

bobbyreno · 2014-12-11T22:00:48+00:00

Not totally relevant, but I just like posting this video on this type of thread. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

tombreck2 · 2014-12-11T22:14:15+00:00

"That doesn't sound fun"

change subject to something fun

"So how often do you hear your roommate having sex?

DeaD_bAU5 · 2014-12-11T22:29:25+00:00

Exactly what people are saying here, say "oh that sucks", then change the subject.

If shes a stranger and a downer just bail.

If it's a plate, say "oh that sucks" then change the subject.

Squeezymypenisy · 2014-12-11T20:54:01+00:00

I listen for a few minutes and act kind of caring, then when I get enough info I proceed to insult them on what they told me and every stupid detail. Some are shocked and mad, others are shocked then laugh.

Title	Girls talk about their problems
Author	deltaChoke
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	December 11, 2014 8:38 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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