Got a bj for the first time

FattiesMakeMeGag · 2019-10-06T03:49:05+00:00

I don't cum during bj's 99% of the time. Not your problem, if she feels bad who cares, let her hamster spin wild. If you can't cum at all, then stop jerking off to porn with a death grip 10 times a day.

66pisstrooperorder66 · 2019-10-06T04:10:14+00:00

Congrats buddy. My guess it 1 nervous 2 she was trying to be extra so she wasn’t consistent like how you would with your hand so every time you get a little stimulation she would change styles and so you would lose the stimulation.

wanker7171 · 2019-10-06T04:36:29+00:00

I find it's because the person sucks at giving them, or I've gotten a bj from them before (idk that last one might just be me). The best bjs I get start with just mouth for at least 5-10 mins and then they add their hand to finish.

FieldLine · 2019-10-06T05:30:41+00:00

Did you guide her to do what you like? Girls are usually terrible at giving blowjobs till you tell them what gets you off. They tend to learn fast, it’s just that no guy ever told them how and they learned their “technique” from Cosmo.

frognads · 2019-10-06T10:05:20+00:00

Stop jerking off. Get her to jerk you off during the BJ. Very few times has a girl finished me with her mouth.

YungRichKid · 2019-10-06T07:56:05+00:00

Try treating her mouth like one of her bottom holes that might help

machimus · 2019-10-06T16:27:56+00:00

Sometime chicks just aren’t good at it, especially younger ones.

Then again, could be that you don’t sexually connect with bj’s yet, I know I didn’t. It’s a weird situation if you think about it (but don’t think about it)

jrterry1969 · 2019-10-06T17:26:32+00:00

When I was young, I had the same issue for about ten years.....I could not come from oral. Very frustrating. Then it all changed when I was about 27 and a chick blew my Dick and blew my mind. I think it was partly not knowing how to guide or enjoy it, but mostly I think older chick are much better at it.

zboo1h · 2019-10-06T18:16:30+00:00

You aren't comfortable enough with it yet. I was like that at a young age as well. Then, I learned what I like, and took the reigns (in the form of handfuls of hair) and now it's smooth sailing the sloppy sea of saliva.

Flip_Angelo · 2019-10-07T04:21:53+00:00

That’s normal. I hardly cum from a blowjob.

But when I have, it’s the best god damn feeling. Very few girls are capable of it.

Haytch1234 · 2019-10-06T04:06:39+00:00

Just jerk off inside her mouth next to finish up and make she swallows.

Ask her if you can record it too.

Title	Got a bj for the first time
Author	bigscally
Upvotes	5
Comments	14
Date	October 6, 2019 3:46 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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