Got reported at work

Aaren_Augustine · 2017-10-05T12:29:57+00:00

This is why you don't shit where you eat.

Human Resources is there to remove blame away from the business. That means its gotta have an "offender".

Work is a great place to learn how to communicate attractively; not game chicks. And since you didn't adhere to the shitting and eating rule, I bet you missed out on a couple of tells from her. Perhaps you assumed attraction instead of her interest in the free attention and validation you were giving her.

Triadis3 · 2017-10-05T12:28:06+00:00

Yet another cautionary tale that proves the adage...

Don't shit where you eat.

Women won't "Tell you" they're not interested.

They'll just go report your ass. Why? There are ZERO consequences nor burden of proof for women to do this.

Now you have a record, and a reputation.

Learn from it, move on. Might want to invest in a little voice recorder to CYA if you have to interact with this poor rape victim in the furture.

Don't shit where you eat.

growinglats · 2017-10-05T12:28:01+00:00

People are probably going to come at you with the “don’t shit where you eat”... now you see why.

But I’m going to say good job man. I’ve embarrassed myself too, it’s a sign that you’re growing and it’ll be natural to embarrass yourself as you try new things. It means you’re improving your skills. Nothing “real” happened as a result of this, you didn’t get fired. Don’t let emotions push you down, it’s ok.

Metalageddon · 2017-10-05T12:59:42+00:00

Well you know, don't shit where you eat.

Why? Because this can and often does happen.

No, not every girl, but more than enough that you should just avoid it.

And don't feel bad bro, there's no harassment charge, no lawsuit, no firing, you got off with an excellent lesson and walked away fine.

McVaghunter · 2017-10-05T14:05:47+00:00

Working on a masters degree yet dumb enough to do such retarded shit. If I was your boss I would've fired your ass not because of the bitch but because of your stupidity for shitting where you eat and I don't need stupid employees in my company.
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, maybe you're new to TRP and don't know what the side bar is

why this chick did this.

Her bestie probably wants to get your job and they planned to get rid of you. Hint; "She was flirting with me, clearly interested", yeah clearly interested in your position.

66zero · 2017-10-05T17:06:35+00:00

Workplace politics...she starts spreading rumors about you flirting with her to get attention. 'Uncomfortable' may have slipped out and things went downhill. You never know. Risky...stay wary.

redditJ5 · 2017-10-05T17:42:31+00:00

I got wrote up because I told a girl at work she had a hole in her jeans on her butt, trying to be nice.

Everyone was like, I can't believe I have to do this, but because she said something, they had to write me up.

menial_optimist · 2017-10-05T16:30:46+00:00

I abhor the phrase "Don't shit where you eat" so I'll just reword it to say do not mix work & pleasure unless you're completely prepared at all times to be fired. This doesn't apply if you're an independent contractor or if you own your own business.

Kommanderdude · 2017-10-05T12:52:31+00:00

Yet another case of a overly thirsty wannabe alpha taking general work place niceness as a girl wanting your cock.

Your body language meter needs adjusting. Don’t be so creepy.

acertenay · 2017-10-05T13:32:33+00:00

I wouldnt do these type of things at work. Becarefull for the future, there are plenty of places to pickup chicks.

BestSC86 · 2017-10-05T21:51:11+00:00

Couple of things....

Work on reading signs of interest because she wasn't interested at all and you apparently thought she was so I suspect your continued flirting and not seeing her IODs were what made her uncomfortable particularly if she was sending them for awhile and then you STILL gave your number at the end....that would be why she felt compelled to report the situation......

Secondly...YOU DON"T GET TO SET YOUR OWN SMV....that is set by the females in your vicinity and their desire to rip your pants off and fuck your brains out.....to wit, your smv was not particularly high and in particular was not high enough to get this girl to not report your advances to the company.

Perhaps you are over-rating your "HIGH SMV" which leads you to disregarding obvious indicators of disinterest (IODs) which results in girls reporting you to HR.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-10-05T22:39:16+00:00

😂😂😂

Serves u right sucker

Retspihi · 2017-10-05T12:43:51+00:00

She's likely autistic.

Title	Got reported at work
Author	RPthrowaway123
Upvotes	13
Comments	35
Date	October 5, 2017 12:22 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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