I’m pretty sure the common answer to this question will be “who fuckin cares? Lift & fuck other girls” but I’ll post this anyway, might get a refreshing perspective.

So I went on a first date with this HB9, a doctor, real nice stuff. Took us about a week to find a time when she’s available but we finally do it.

We’re sitting in a bar and conversation is flowing super well, lots of common interests, and this chick starts eye fucking me. We make out at the bar for a bit, then I bring her over to my place. Unfortunately she’s on her period so can’t fuck, but she gives me great head. We spend about an hour afterwards just touching and making out, she keeps telling me how wet she is and how bad she wants me inside of her, etc. Also built some comfort cuddling and shit. Spent a total of 4 hours which went by so quickly. I text her goodnight and that I had fun and whatever.

Next morning, before I even get a chance to text her to set up a second date, she starts texting me. After a few messages back and forth she asks me if I’m free tomorrow (just 2 nights after first date). I say I’m not, but offer the next day. She can’t do it (again, doctor, very busy) but suggests we try next week. Overall I’m getting very high interest vibes.

A couple of days pass (rest assure I’ve been fucking other girls) and I try to set up logistics. Then she gives me this his bs about how busy she is all week with work and shit, and doesn’t have time to see me. I say “alright maybe some other time” and drop it. 3 days and no response.

What the actual fuck? I was so confident I had this in the bag. How do I take it from here?