Hello fellow TRPers,

I discovered TRP a few months ago. At the time, my GF was still friends with her exes; and i let it be .. except the most recent one before me. TRP was a revelation for me because i thought all these uncomfortable situations she put me in (hanging one on one with guy friends, seeing exes as "friends" almost all of them) were just me and that i had to be understanding.

Shortly after, i laid down the law and said you stop seeing the exes or i walk; i dont have to be around that. She complied and is now quite submissive and all .. However i think my frame is still compromised because i didn't say no to guy friends and now she s just coming back from a one week trip and says she wants to have lunch with a guy friend the same day she ll be waking in my bed, eating my food..

It makes me fucking mad and i just want to say hell no..! and move on..

I see how i let myself get walked over and how guys usually accept it by pretending like it s some sort of respect for her "freedom" ..but.. wtf.. hell no! If i do that, she cancels her life and is all over me.. the thing is .. im not sure i want to be with a girl that is ..well..that basic on that.

What do you guys think..?