A bit of background about my relationship. I've been seeing this girl for around 6 months now. We met just before summer and I've been her fist for everything past kissing. however she lives about 3 hours away, so were in a kind of long distance relationship where we only see each other about every 3 weeks or so.
Now ever since I met her I get texts from her whenever she goes out and drinks a little, which isn't too frequently but happens frequently enough. anyway so I don't know how to handle it. I'm taking it as a good sign if i'm on her mind while shes out, but shes asks me to call her usually while out. my go to response is just to say 'you're out', 'you're drunk', or just ignore her, especially if she is fairly drunk and sending endless 'why dont i get a reply' and 'fuck you' messages.

heres a recent example exchange

her: strangestaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaart

me: lol

Her: why are you loling

Me: are you out?

Her: maybe wanna face time

Me: you're out

Her: yeh so i dont know anyone, everyone's weird

Me: maybe tomorrow

Her: i wont face time tomorrow

Me: ok

Her: you dont care?

This text was also supplemented with multiple pictures of herself drinking and pecking girlfriends (and a cheeky middle finger which I think is playful). Now I dont think i should be on the phone to her while shes at some party. however maybe since she lives far away and we dont get to go to parties together she wants me to be on the phone with her there. i do get messages like 'wish you were here'.

so what is the right way to handle this, should I engage in playful conversation with her over text? or is it best to not be in contact while she isn't totally sober?

Whats your take?