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[–]Terdmuffin4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I think it's in how you define "happy ltr". A lot of marriages and LTRs are barely tolerable for the people in them and a lot of people in "happy" relationships still cheat. AWALT isn't a hard rule that every woman will cheat any time they are given the chance, AWALT is more of a reminder that women aren't special innocent unicorns incapable of doing something like lying or cheating. Place almost any woman, or man for that matter, in the right circumstance and they'll cheat.
[–]JacobM00re points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
"almost any woman", by your logic there are women that won't cheat no matter what?
[–]Terdmuffin3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I just don't really like to speak in absolutes.
[–]TirionTheHallowed0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you absolutely sure?
So, all women will cheat in the right circumstance? Even if they're happy in their LTR?
[–]Prov22291 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Reread what the above user said.
[–]Willow-girl-1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Two words for you, son: "George Clooney"! ("Brad Pitt" will also suffice.)
Just kidding. At the end of the day, all you can do to reduce the risk is to choose your partner carefully, then make the maintenance of your relationship, and your own quest for self-improvement, a priority. (BTW, that goes for men and women equally.)
[–]Blerks0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What's the point of your question? There's already a TRP term for women with qualities like 'won't cheat.' It's "Unicorn."
If you want to argue that at least one woman exists who would never, ever cheat, then I would agree that's probably true. But for those of us without the resources to search the world with a perfect knowledge of every woman's personality, we still have to find someone we can be happy with.
The entire point to TRP is to remember that women are human beings. They have flaws. That doesn't make them bad, that makes them human.
[–]boora322 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So, what's your answer for this complex problem that everybody cheat but somehow I saw most people live happily in LTR or marriage?
Hm? In my entire life I've seen maybe one or two people living happily in a LTR or marriage. Unless the couple is at the honeymoon phase, which goes away by year 2 or so.
How do those one or two couples do it?
[–]boora320 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
The only couple I can think of right now is my ex-girlfriends uncle (Marco) and his wife. I did know them and had some interesting conversations with Marco, have spent some time in his house but I didn't know them deeply so I had no knowledge of their problems or fights.
They are married for 10+ years and they gave a vibe of really liking each other, really a simple, structured family. I won't say it was a red pill relationship, but his wife really seemed to respected him as a man and they are both rural-raised christians. You could easily tell their family was structured because their daughter was not a slut and actually had some standards and I always respected her a lot for that - she's not a donzel by any means, but far better than "modern" teenagers.
People born in rural areas in my country are really conservative, so I'd say that's how they did it. His wife respected him and both had real christian values and morals.
If you read the parts of the bible where it talks about relationships, you'll find it is really similar to the red pill philosophy. Women have to respect their men; slutty women aren't worth anything; women have to be submissive and men have to be dominant and so on. There's a interesting verse in the bible where it says that women have to respect their men, and men have to love their women, it's interesting because it doesn't ever says that women have to love their men, which fits exactly in the red pill philosophy that say "Women aren't capable of real love, everything you can do is expect respect from them"
Of course, feminist christian women is a thing, so you can't expect every christian couple to be happy in a relationship. I'm sure any christian couple that actually follows what's writen in the bible will have a happy, structured family, though.
PS: I'm not christian. Have read the bible and spent some years playing with the idea, though.
Two things. First, the way relationships look in public is different than they look in private. Second, seeing people in a relationship gives no information about how that relationship started, how long it will last, or how it will end.
AWALT is not a rule, it's a warning. It's a reminder to not assume that you got lucky and your woman is the exception.
[–]GreenPiller0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
1."Most people live happily in an LTR or marriage" Most people pretend to be in a happy LTR or marriage
2."TRP members assume girls must be cheating" If you are a fairly good looking girl then chances are you probably have about 200 guys asking you out on Facebook or Instagram. So let's say I have a huge fight with my LTR. What are the chances of her hopping on another dick after a bad night? Fairly high.
We don't make stuff up, we simply analyze every possible outcome.
[–]LaLongCarabine-1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
AWALT is real.
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