Yo so often I have a pretty hard time getting aroused, either with a chick or by myself. With a chick usually the first time I try to bang I have trouble getting the willy working but eventually it works out and then I'll have no trouble with that girl. When I'm in a dry spell (now) though I just can't get turned on at all, even by myself. Since I know you all will suggest this, no, I rarely watch porn and when I do I have a hard time getting aroused with it. I rarely wake up with wood unless I've recently been turned on by a chick. I have had a blood test and my T is totally fine (actually a little higher than normal). What does this sound like to you? To me it seems like a totally mental thing which is confusing. Note: I lift five days a week and eat really healthy