Have you been cheated?

Benz808 · 2019-02-03T06:24:50+00:00

Best Advice I can give you is time heals all wounds. So the recovery process will happen overtime. My situation was very confusing because I wasn’t upset or angry as others are when getting cheated because I knew our relationship was falling apart. It was a high school relationship and my first relationship at that turned into a long distance college relationship. I think getting cheated on was a blessing because that relationship made me depressed and ruined every aspect of my life but when it was all over a couple of months went by and it was already summer and I saw my depression fading. I still have occasional thoughts on how it was in the beginning but it was toxic. I’m only 19 and this happened last year so I was 18. This was also prior to finding the red pill and the girl that came after which ruined things leading me to find this forum. Anyways hope this helps.

Charybdish · 2019-02-03T10:12:35+00:00

I was just 17 when it happened, but I didn't found this community since 22. I think the experience was very eye opening and thats the reason I easily agreed whit all RP theory.

Now I look at the past and some relationships and I understand a lot of things, and where I failed. But I am really thankful to that first girlfriend for cheating on me, because since that moment, something inside of me changed for the better.

[deleted] · 2019-02-03T12:26:02+00:00

In my full on BP days I got cheated on. My girlfriend at the time had this male friend called simon, and I had that "if you have issues with anything a woman does you're a controlling bf!" Conditioning that lots of betas have. So yeah, I pretended I was fine with them going to the cinema together and shit.

One day she asks if she'd mind if she stayed at his apartment after a girls night out. At this point, deep within me, my severely beaten and chained masculinity managed to struggle just enough that I could muster at least a tiny amount of self-respect and I told her that no, I would not be cool with it. She seemed pissed but agreed.

Cue the night out and she texts me at 5am to break up with me as she's obviously been fucking this guy. I was cut up about it obviously but I did stay strong and go no contact.

Thinking about that time makes me cringe so hard, I was so pathetic it was unreal. Nowadays even though I'm not yet where I want to be and I'm not totally free from BP conditioning, I have my masculinity back and I don't feel depressed about life.

Being conventionally handsome but unbelievable beta is a painful combination because I could get girls, they'd just completely destroy me when I had them

BusterVadge · 2019-02-03T13:59:00+00:00

Laugh about it because lots of people cheat, and it says more about them than it does you. All you can do about it is be more masculine and also pre-select better next time.

RedHoodhandles · 2019-02-03T11:56:01+00:00

Yes. When I was 20. First gf. I went monkmode for 1 year. But without the "improve yourself" part.

look_up_there · 2019-02-03T09:55:11+00:00

Yes. How was it? Well everyone's situation is different isn't it. Personally, mine was fucking horrible. I couldn't eat or sleep for ages, my gut churned for weeks while I tried to figure it all out in my head.

Then suddenly one day you realise its just all part of growing up. In the end, I'm genuinely happy that I had it happen to me. Taught me so many lessons and I will never ever be put in that position again. It sent me to my all time rock bottom in life, so I had no choice but to go back up. And now life is fucking great

Title	Have you been cheated?
Author	Redpillavenger
Upvotes	6
Comments	8
Date	February 3, 2019 5:59 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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