Help with message from ex

FrameWalker · 2015-01-22T22:03:12+00:00

She's just being polite. Not even a shit test. Maybe 5% her seeing if you still like her. Delete text, no contact move on is the default - especially if you're getting over oneitis.

I’d like to make her a plate at some point.

Did she break up with you? If so get this thought out of your mind. It's over. Keep slaying until it's gone.

UnluckyPenguin · 2015-01-22T22:38:16+00:00

Not sure if you are trolling, but if you aren't:

You seriously need to come back to the real world. What she said means absolutely nothing, just a nice gesture, probably seeking validation from you. She could kiss you and it could mean nothing. Unless she is being explicit with her body language and words, you could be pretty sure she is not interested in being a "plate".

With that said, whether or not she wants to hook up with you, you should not want to hook up with her. It's your ex. How many women are there in the world (that are more attractive)? Cut contact with that girl and start your TRP life with someone new.

Abundance mentality! To give a brief understanding of what the means: We get dozens of girls phone numbers. Numbers don't mean anything to me. Some will not text or call those girls just because we are too busy living in the moment. Girls will be begging to hook up, but we've hooked up enough that we'd honestly rather go out and have a beer with the guys. Your world needs to stop revolving around women. Try saying "no" to a potential plate because fuck it.

M3_Drifter · 2015-01-22T22:09:51+00:00

Not everything women say or do is a shit test.

Be polite and reply "thanks" or something to that effect, then resume no contact. Don't try to plate her. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

SkorchZang · 2015-01-22T22:36:15+00:00

"Thanks, I'm great babe. You?"

If she sends you a wall of text in response, assume she wants to reconnect with you (girl's been having second thoughts). Depending on what you want, you could invite her out for something, enjoy yourselves together, then fuck her. Make her a plate on the side, while you're seeing other girls.

If she just answers in short that she's fine, do not reply anything to that and forget about it.

Title	Help with message from ex
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Date	January 22, 2015 9:51 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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