Hi guys, i have a problem and i'm gonna write a bit more for you to understand it well.

I have a gf who's 16 and i'm 17, we have 4 months together. She's a virgin and i know that for sure. At first dates, i started escalating a little bit each time, starting from touching her tits to fingering her. Usually we do this outside in the night when nobody's around. At the beginning of the relationship she was telling me that untill 18 she won't do sex, but now she tells me we need to have a room, a place just for us to make it. I feel her, she wanna have sex with me and she told me that i'm the only one who made her feel in such a manner(really, the problem is we don't have where to make it now). After we were rubbing and touching, on the road home i was thinking sometimes if i'm the first who touched her, her tits and pussy. Usually my proper answer was that i'm the first and that's why i didn't ask her if i'm right or no.

*So, today we were texting a little bit and as the conversation went further, i told her she started getting naughtier as i like it and that she has more courage now. Then i told her that i like very much the thought that i'm the first with who she does these things(i was testing to see her answer). The conversation continued like this:

Her: I'm feeling bad about this and i can't say that you're the first just to make you feel good, but at us things are different and more and at a higher level( *sth like we do more things like this together than she did with that guy)

*Me: Why are you feeling bad? Explain it

*Her: It doesn't matter, it doesn't have importance

*Me: Tell me, be sincere

*Her:It doesn't matter

*Me: I don't like that you're hiding, it isn't the case

*Her: I'm not hiding, i told you it doesn't mind and that's really it

*Me: I want you to be sincere

*Her: I am, i've always been sincere with you, read the text above with more attention and you'll understand

*Me: You know that i respect your past..you're feeling bad in what sense?

*Her: I know and thank you. I said that i would feel bad if i would make you think you're the first

*Me: I was thinking sometimes i'm not but i don't know, i prrefered to believe i really am

*Me: No, with you all is different and higher

*Me: i was thinking about it and i wanted to ask you, but i had the impression i am

*Her: i'm feeling bad, sincerely..can we talk later..?

*Me: fine

*Her: i love you, take care

*Me: love you too

*I was feeling that she was trying to close this situation and don't want to talk about it, like she's hiding. Then i turned off the phone for about 3 hours and in this time she send me a text. When i turned it on i was going to the gym, i answered her and i acted a little distant and that we talk later.

*Guys sorry for the long post, now i don't know what to do..to bring this subject again and to ask her what she did exactly with the other partner? To tell her i don't like that i feel she's hiding from me? How should i react?

*P.S: i know, it isn't that serious like sex, but i hate this feeling that all this time i thought something wrong. I accept all your replies and criticism. Thanx guys!