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Hey guys how do I kill oneitis, I've caught it big time for a girl and I don't want to fall in "love", because I know how each relationship turns out in the end and I don't want a LTR

xXBlackSlave6969
October 8, 2017
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Title Hey guys how do I kill oneitis, I've caught it big time for a girl and I don't want to fall in "love", because I know how each relationship turns out in the end and I don't want a LTR
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xXBlackSlave6969
Upvotes 1
Comments 11
Date October 8, 2017 1:10 PM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/751lby/hey_guys_how_do_i_kill_oneitis_ive_caught_it_big/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/hey-guys-how-do-i-kill-oneitis-ive-caught-it-big.115824
https://theredarchive.com/post/115824
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[–]NazoXIII3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"Go fuck ten other women", hell talking to 10 other women would suffice. If you can go out and make connections with other women, and slip them the D (optional), you'll realizes oneitis girl isn't special.

[–]xXBlackSlave69691 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I will try this tomorrow at school thank you

[–]stylerTyler2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Is this a girl you’re dating or just a girl you are chasing? How long have you been doing what you’ve been doing?

[–]RedPillPurple1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

This is the question. OP is probably chasing or afraid of losing her.

IMO oneitis is just insecurity and the fear of loss because you perceive her as more valuable. And perhaps she does have a higher sex rank. So the solution is to increase your sex rank or find someone of an equal sex rank so you can avoid a manipulative relationship.

[–]stylerTyler1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

OP is probably being led on.

I agree with you about oneitis but I also think it’s scarcity. You fear losing her because it probably took you years to find her so now you don’t want to lose her and spend several years before you find the next.

[–]xXBlackSlave6969 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I could be being led on honestly, I've accepted a lot of trp truths but the one thing I struggle with is abundance mentality, I'm very new to pick up and honestly I find it hard because I live in country where not a lot of people speak English

Anyways those are bullshit excuses, I'm probably being led on, and she's some white chick I'm chasing but I'll probably never get but she talks to me and listens to all my problems and I guess she started off as a friend

And ye I'm a fucking virgin

[–]RedPillPurple1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

she listens to all my problems.

STFU. Now. She is not your therapist.

The best way to have the abundance mentality is to actually have abundance. Lift. Have a good income. Dress well. These things take years to develop.

[–]xXBlackSlave69691 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Honestly could be insecurity, most probs is

[–]refusewool1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Sidebar

[–]do_it_or_leave0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Who told you can't fall in love?

You just can't fall in love for only one.

How many have you seen looking for help because of fiveitis?

Be happy man.

[–]xXBlackSlave69691 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Five times the heartbreak!

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