How do girls react to growing SMV?

zeekt12 · 2019-06-29T18:02:53+00:00

It's more of an epiphany.

They see you every day. It's like hitting the gym, you dont see the changes until one day, you do.

And when they notice, you'll now they notice. They treat you differently. Compliments, flirting, being kind, ect.

Its always easier to start fresh with other women because they dont know the old you. Females that know the old you, will always have that reference of you in their mind. It's hard to kill that impression, but can be done.

MatSapientia · 2019-06-29T20:49:42+00:00

I used to be the invisible IT geek. Muscles grew, character evolved, and girls suddenly became super nice and start conversations with you. What amazes me the most that ALL of them show obvious changes in behavior and outfit depending on their ovulatory phase they’re in. You notice how their clothing is picked to draw more attention, more lipsticks and perfume. Ironically, the first day of that cycle they tend to come to my office with meaningless questions and excuses just to have my attention and hear my comments on their outfits. This didn’t happen before I grew considerably.

One of them even asked me begging to put my number in her phone and she chased me over 3 times to come to her home “to eat together”. I didn’t notice that my natural unconscious game evolved to that level until late on.

One of them had a task with very simple steps which I explained twice to her. She called me a 3rd time telling me she forgot how.. I lost patience on the phone and said with a scolding tone “are you serious now??,..” then I went to her office and she gave me angry looks which I ignored pointedly, explained steps again and wrote on a little paper and stuck it on her keyboard. I wasn’t doing that assholery on purpose, I just did what felt right to me. After a couple of days she started showing more IOIs and generating excuses to hold my attention. Oh, and she was one who was most upset about me leaving the company.. waited for me in my office just to give me tight hugs and good wishes just in case we don’t meet again.. mind you she was one who never cared in the past.

When I left that company, I got a very hot goodbye like no one else, thanks cards, gifts tight hugs and tears.. mostly from age range from 20 to 23.. that one who took my number became fiercer in her chase weeks later until she understood my lack of interest.

I used to be the fucking fat geek.

[deleted] · 2019-06-29T16:54:36+00:00

do it for yourself dude

thrwy75479 · 2019-06-29T18:25:02+00:00

How do girls react to growing SMV?

If they like you, they may try to stop you from improving. Most of the time, it's not a conscious thing, and done to keep you within their reach.

In some cases, if they're crazy about you, they may stick around in the background in hopes that you'll settle down with them, so long as you're not too far out of reach. This sometimes happens with guys who have friend-zoned girls.

Also, when you've gained enough SMV, should you try to hit it off with them, or it's not worth it and you should seek out girls that don't know you?

With girls that are already familiar with you, it may or may not work. The problem lies in the fact that you'll have to overcome the image they've already formed of you in their minds, which is more challenging than starting from a clean state with a new girl, especially if she has friend-zoned you.

People—not only girls—need time and space to accept a different image of you. Trying to convince people by presenting logical arguments, or telling them that you're different, or creating a new image for other people, does not work. They have to be shown, and it happens indirectly.

For instance, a girl you're familiar with at work wants to grab a coffee but you have to turn her down with the genuine excuse that you're meeting a girl for a lunch date. After perhaps a few probing questions, this may affect the coworker's perception of you, which may result in different treatment from her. Note that you didn't tell her, or convince her of anything.

It happened as a natural consequence of you doing you.

HurricaneHugues · 2019-06-29T21:58:30+00:00

How about you try it

Title	How do girls react to growing SMV?
Author	throwawaytrpguy
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Date	June 29, 2019 4:51 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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