Recently broke up with LTR of 2 years. 2 months later she’s back with her ex boyfriend. She was with him for 7 years before me. He’s 37, I’m 27 she’s just turned 30. I am angry because this bitch has gotten away with murder. She got to experience a younger guy and then when she started hitting the wall and wanted security, she went back to her provider. To be honest I’m angry at her boyfriend for enabling her as well.

So basically as soon as I started putting up boundaries in our relationship, she was gone. And now she’s got her ex to fall back on. She never gave a fuck about me and she’s back with him because he’s convenient. She’s been given everything for doing nothing.. Rewarded for being a parasite with no morals.. how is this possible? Am I missing something?

Since going back to her ex, he’s bought her so many expensive gifts it’s unreal. He’s taken her on vacation as well. It’s the perfect start to her 30s and hitting the wall. She offers nothing of value to society and yet somehow she managed to experience the best of both worlds, damaging both in the process.. and received 0 consequences.

I don’t miss her. I am just angry because it shouldn’t be like this. Usually you hear of stories where women fuck up their relationships for chad and then they are only left with cats. But this one hasn’t had any consequences. Her boyfriend is rewarding her for being a disloyal slut. He knows she cheated, he knows she left him for 2 years and now he’s buying her back. It’s savage. What the fuck is wrong with him as well? It’s clearly not a real relationship, she’s just sponging his resources.. without that there’s no way she would be with him. I’m not financially secure yet either so that’s probably why she didn’t stick around with me.

This girl is a crazy bitch. She tried to suffocate me on the odd occasion as well. Bomb sex but a psychopath. Yes I know I shouldn’t have LTR’d her but I’m not asking about why I lost her.. I know why I lost her and I know I fucked up in that regard. But.. how has her boyfriend taken her back and given her everything after what she’s done? And how the fuck doesn’t she have the self-awareness to realise she’s just using him? Where is guilt/shame/empathy? Have I missed something that he hasn’t?

I don’t know what’s real anymore. A woman who appears cute and innocent on social media is the biggest parasite psychopath you’ll ever see behind closed doors. And yet she’s been given everything and I’ve lost money and time. How do I know who is good and who is bad if bad people can look good and vice versa? It’s so fucked