I’m getting over a girl who I have bad oneitis for that already has a bf and is in no way interested in me sexually (pathetic, I’m aware). We’re good friends and she lives near me. We’re in the same program at school and going into our final year. I would like to be able to just stop talking to her entirely as it’s bad for my mental health, but the problem we’re both co-presidents of a club for the upcoming year and will need to be in constant communication now and throughout the year. On top of that she frequently asks me to study (we’re writing the same test at the end of the summer) and we usually study at the same library anyways.

I’m already trying to do my best in other aspects of my life (lifting, focusing on school, self-improvement stuff) but this feels like it’s weighing me down and I think about it a lot.

This sucks, but I’m trying to limit our conversations to just about the club. I was thinking of ignoring her texts any time it isn’t about the club but that may be too extreme.

Any advice?