How do I handle "Expectation" shit-tests from LTR?

vandaalen · 2015-05-28T09:07:20+00:00

You handle it perfect. Don't take that shit serious. "Well I expected you to come over, clean my appartment, take a shower and be waiting for me naked on your stomach with your ass high up in the air on my bed. I guess we should work on our communication."

It's just what they do to avoid having to ask for things. They cannot cope with rejection and asking for something involves the risk of getting rejected. She's trying to pimp you into constantly thinking about her expectations. That's not how it is supposed to work.

kingofpoplives · 2015-05-28T14:52:16+00:00

She's trying to turn you into her little bitch. This is a bad sign, because it means she's the type of woman who wants her man to a be a little bitch she can boss around and control.

Most women with this type of personality will break things off if it becomes clear you will not submit to their frame.

So unless you want to be her beta servant, you should stand up to her and make it clear that won't be happening. Then accept the fact the relationship likely isn't going to work out.

ThrowingMyslfOutther · 2015-05-28T15:32:46+00:00

Does she do every single thing you expect her to do?

puamua · 2015-05-28T08:39:43+00:00

"Awww, that's cute."

stickfiguresk · 2015-05-28T09:12:32+00:00

Use pressure flip. "Why don't I clean up your mess in your car? That's cute, sweetie."

If it's that bad, your dread game isn't good enough. Take steps towards replacing her. That bitch is complacent.

Title	How do I handle "Expectation" shit-tests from LTR?
Author	primaryobjective
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	May 28, 2015 8:25 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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