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This is the attitude that the fat acceptance movement propagates. "I'm not changing myself to get what I want, everyone else should change." If you don't want to change your approach, then what the fuck do you think will change with your results?
/r/askTRP16/02/16 03:47 AM
3

From what I see, the cheeseburger life isn't even much of a party. They fuck one or two guys per year and feel bad about it. This is where you lost me. This whole post is the sour grapes fallacy, and it also indicates to me that you don't have an accurate knowledge of how the average slut actually lives her life. You are foolish and you haven't properly processed the anger phase if you truly think that the average slut won't have excitement, free stuff, and a never ending string of adequate suit…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 11:06 PM
-4

Your mom.
/r/askTRP14/02/16 08:44 AM
1

Shut the fuck up. You were created to fuck. Your body and mind are designed to beat the pussy up. Stop thinking, just do it.
/r/askTRP14/02/16 06:14 AM
9

This is because you aren't the dominant male in that circle. You're trying to fake it, you haven't earned it.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 08:41 AM
1

It doesn't make sense because you're not considering the dirtiness of it and you're not considering the appeal being dirty has to a lot of women.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 04:55 AM
24

Yeah, that's what struck me, the wasted effort, especially since the things he wants, eg: her to feel what he feels or to get some kind of justice, just will never happen. This probably seemed much cooler in this guy's head while he was thinking it up. When he's telling her about the trip and all you can clearly hear him holding back tears, I assume he's trying to mask them as tears of joy but....nahhhhh, not to mention she gives a suspicious look at his phone when he leaves her in the room to r…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 08:46 PM
2

Reading about male dating stuff online is not a substitute for accomplishing shit in the real world. Besides that, there are plenty of veterans here, and plenty more that need to be here. The army is all about feeding that hamster just the same except it runs on hooah and eagles and shit, not feels.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 11:32 PM
1

Sounds like you take yourself a little too seriously. Forget the lifts, that's indicative of your issue. Women will only get with a man that accepts himself. There are two ways to convince women of this, you can fake it (pickup/lifts/making up a crazy active social life) or you can actually spend the time to look inside and do the mental work. You just gotta find a strategy to be content. You gotta fight that anxiety that there's something you should be doing and something you're lacking, you go…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 07:13 PM
15

The state becomes the alpha in the relationship when you get married.....that's brilliant. Bravo.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 09:03 PM
0

Dude yes dip into your oh shit fund this is absolutely the time to do it. Call the cops, absolutely. Get it on record that you're trying to keep this shit in the open. Then bounce. Dude you're in so much of a better situation without this girl. The only caveat is you need to be able to prove you didn't abuse her. Your goal is to walk without her being able to say you hit her and basically caused every bad thing in her life. Past that, you have no responsibility just go.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:38 AM
2

Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. Would you rather be led on or would you rather a girl told you the truth?
/r/askTRP15/09/15 08:53 PM
2

Yes you should care because trickle truth.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 04:14 AM
3

Change something.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 12:33 AM
2

Dude is stoic for being chill while his home is invaded sure, but an alpha is someone others want to follow. No one would follow someone that let that happen without retribution. An alpha is someone who meets the danger so the rest of the tribe doesn't have to, no one would let that guy be in charge.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 08:13 AM
0

Lol, if I told you that then you'd know who I was. I'm not as stupid as you :)
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:52 AM
0

I do know you actually, I caught that reference you made a few weeks ago and tracked you down from that comment.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:48 AM
5

You're playing with fire. It doesn't matter what's "right" or "wrong," it only matters what is. What is, is if you live in an at will state they can fire you and not specify a reason, which is what happens to wave makers in big companies.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 07:47 AM
0

I do think I know a lot, that's very astute of you. You come across as someone who blames their situation on everyone else instead of taking responsibility for your life.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:36 AM
0

"Seems like everyone [else] is so cold and negative, not worth living, woe is me" You will punch no one in the jaw, you will keep projecting your own negative thoughts onto other people and you will keep getting the same results. If you meet an asshole in the morning, you had an unlucky morning, if you meet assholes all day, you're the asshole. Edit: Bullies cull the weak, they serve an essential evolutionary function, if you don't like it, congrats, you were born in an era that promotes weaknes…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:30 AM
1

You won't get the same level of experience at the well established position. At the startup you will learn how business is made, which will help you more in the long run. You're early 20's, you're going to spend your money on alcohol and chasing women, the rest of it you'll waste. Experience is more valuable than money any day.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 06:23 AM
0

Oh darn, the world doesn't live up to your ideal. How about you stop shitting on the world and do something about it. If it bothers you that much, quit posting pity parties online and go influence people in positive ways. Be the change you want to see in the world. No one cares about your intentions or ideals, only your attitude and actions.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 05:57 AM
1

"Do not talk that much" This is your answer. If you're in a meeting, and you decide on a course of action, and a subordinate questions that course, do not answer. Simply let them rationalize their position, then discard it and move onto the next item. Engaging or even acknowledging their position lowers yourself to their equal. You don't answer to them, so don't.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 03:19 AM
1

Success. Men act, women appear. Men will be judged on their actions, women will be judged on their appearance.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 03:12 AM
3

Ask your mother if she would accept a date with the president of your country.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 03:10 AM
2

You can't target fat loss.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 03:07 AM
5

The grapes of wrath put it well. When the farms started going bare, the women would look to the men to see if they showed defeat in their faces. The men didn't show any worry, and the women knew everything would be ok. The lesson is that the attitude is the important part of being a man. If all your shit burns down tomorrow, you rebuild it. If you want to find that strength, you have to find it inside yourself, you won't find it here. If all you have left is yourself, you have to make that enoug…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 09:59 AM
22

If you're single and child free you'll always be a threat to them. They feel just having you around is dangerous to their marriage so they'll push you away
/r/askTRP02/09/15 06:06 PM
24

I agree, this seems like overcompensation for an inability to let things go unless they're out of sight. I think it may be a useful step for some people that have trouble with attachments though. The point isn't to not have any stuff in your life to care about, it's about not caring about the stuff that doesn't really matter. I like to play acoustic and electric guitar when the fancy strikes, there goes my two suitcases. I like to shoot guns and hunt when the fancy strikes, can't travel very far…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 01:06 PM
3

You shouldn't be texting her as much, if she asks what you're doing and you don't want to tell her, just don't text back. You lost when you engaged her with the coy "I'm not telling" bit. You can't tell her you're playing hard to get and then expect it to be effective. Change the subject and simply ignore all attempts on her part to lead the conversation if you absolutely have to be texting this girl. Spoiler alert, you don't have to be texting her. What you told her when you said I'm not tellin…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 11:21 AM
3

Leave. Come back after a day with some other friends and offer a handshake and an apology. Have one of your friends go in and casually inspect for weapons. If he's hostile then, you've got a problem. I doubt he'd kill you after cooling down, but if he can't get over getting his ass kicked in a fight he provoked and subsequently lost, he'll probably be an enemy for the foreseeable future. He hasn't accepted the loss, he still thinks you're fighting and he knows he can't go toe to toe with you so …
/r/askTRP25/08/15 10:23 AM
7

Yeah, imagine hatefucking her and turning her into an alpha widow that one time. Haha.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 01:13 AM
7

Poophole loophole, you can get in there I promise. Haha I had a girl that claimed to be a virgin tell me "fuck me harder daddy," the "first" time she had anal sex.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 12:57 AM
1

This is exactly the needle in the haystack this dude needs to find, apparently he already "tried it" though, so idk.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 11:44 PM
0

Right, you gave it the old college try and now you've given up and come to the internet to solve your problems. You're gonna be so successful!
/r/askTRP28/07/15 11:43 PM
2

Start volunteering. Try to do things you'd imagine people with too much money in your field might do and try to find and meet those people. It really is all about networking. Doesn't matter how good you look on paper, "that guy that Jeff was saying was a hard worker from his volunteer gig," will always be a better foot in the door than a good application.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 03:40 AM
2

It doesn't hurt to go down to the station and file a complaint or something. If you get it on record beforehand you'll have an easier time convincing someone. "Well ok here's my side of events and oh yeah I filed a complaint down at such and such station a week ago about this same type of behavior."
/r/askTRP22/06/15 04:12 AM
11

Entitlement is your ego telling you that you deserve things simply for the fact that you are you. This is a fallacy as you'll see if you spend enough time here. You deserve things by what value you give to get those things. Men act, women appear, a man's value will be judged from his actions, and a woman's from her appearance. Everybody doesn't get a trophy when you play Life, you have to earn that shit.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 03:16 PM
4

Something from a while back sticks with me. "Your body is an outward reflection of your inner values."
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 07:38 PM
1

The reason is standing right in front of you are you blind?
/r/askTRP28/05/15 10:37 PM
0

You're right, I don't get it. How do you expect to give advice here if someone else's weakness makes you lose frame and throw a tantrum? When I came to trp, I didn't even know or care what a sidebar was. It wasn't a part of my life so of course I didn't know. The point of trp in my mind is that it's here to teach us things that our fathers weren't around or didn't bother to teach. Personally, I think you're just trying to make yourself feel better, which is ok, good for you.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 08:53 PM
0

You should do what you think is right. Getting upset because a clueless dude came here with questions before reading every ounce of the sidebar is just poorly estimating how much the average person gives a shit about rules in a message board. This isn't a place for you to feel better about yourself. This is a place for OP to learn. If you've already learned all the rules yourself, you've outgrown this place and you need to leave.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 10:16 AM
2

Don't quit your job until you have something lined up, been there, done that. Huge mistake. You need to lift weights, heavy weights, not just for your body but for your mind, the testosterone will help you. You need to start reading, not only will you learn shit, but you'll train your brain to focus. Search trp for recommended books, there are lots of them out there. You want to work outside yes? Take your ass outside and look for people at work. Talk to them, ask them what their previous jobs w…
/r/askTRP28/05/15 09:18 AM
0

Go do something with your life if reading about sad shit on the internet annoys you. Fuck you dude. This isn't a place for you to have a temper tantrum, this is a place where dudes, learn how to grow into men. Your bullshit isn't helping, fuck off.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 09:04 AM
0

"Awww, that's cute."
/r/askTRP28/05/15 08:39 AM
11

To answer your title question, yes, but not if that question ever crosses your mind. Stop comparing yourself to others, always compare yourself to you yesterday. Forget about the dude completely. That will be your undoing if you can't.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 09:01 AM
17

Haterade makes you strong when you drink it quietly.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 08:58 AM
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Go to the job fair, don't just hand in resumes, getting a job shouldn't be your goal, networking should be your goal. Talk to people, be a very curious dude about all types of stuff. Don't just take any job, but find the best job available and get your ass to work while you search for a better job. Start volunteering. Make new friends that can get you a job. Networking is the most important aspect of a job search, you want to be the guy that when a hiring manager looks at your resume he goes "Oh…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 05:02 AM
1

Send her packing. Salvage yourself, she's lost already.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 05:34 PM
1

Just ignore it, she's trying to get your emotions rolling with this one, don't bother with it at all and it'll go away.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 05:24 PM
1

Yeah this does seem like an inappropriate question to expect people to answer. 9001 and I have a crush on all of my new friends. Looking to break 10000 by the end of the week.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 03:52 PM
5

She's trying to leverage for more control in the relationship. She wants more of your commitment for less of her sex. It's a game of value, she values your commitment, you value her sucking your dick. If you want to throw her for a loop, don't say anything about the not having sex bit, say it's completely fine, then tell her something came up and she can't come over. Next time you see her, she'll have subconsciously gotten the hint that she has to keep up her end of the deal for you to keep your…
/r/askTRP24/05/15 03:43 PM
1

She's testing you to see how much it bothers you, you win if you don't let it bother you.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 01:56 PM
2

I wouldn't do it all in a row, she'd probably think something serious had changed. Try every other one or so for a bit, and then after a while of that skip a couple and tell her you can't tonight but suggest another time that works better for you. Take it slow, power exchanges have to be subtle.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 08:40 PM
1

If you want more control, stop saying fuck yes we can hang out whenever you like. Tell her no a few times, say you're busy. If she knows that you have other things that are more important than her, she'll be more willing to try to come upgrade her status in your eyes on your schedule. You're not an orbiter and she's not your plate, you're her plate, it's not a bad gig. If she gives next level head, personally, I'd keep the status quo because you gotta be willing to lose her if you want to chance…
/r/askTRP21/05/15 08:41 AM
1

Being alpha isn't a yes or no thing, it's a behavioral thing, so is beta. Men act, women appear, so as a man if you change your actions you change your value. It isn't a binary thing. Alphas can regress, and betas can make progress. The world isn't black and white and neither is the SMP.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 06:06 AM
1

It's good to have standards for the way people conduct themselves in your presence. A true alpha protects those in his group, that's why he's the alpha. It's called the big man theory. The strongest man gets his pick of the food and women in exchange for running towards danger instead of away and quashing group conflict to keep the unit whole. The best thing to say, "that's pretty weak to be talking shit about someone when they're not around to defend themselves." Gossip is a feminine manipulati…
/r/askTRP18/05/15 08:07 PM
12

This doesn't seem like a stop talking vs forgive him situation. This sounds like a "I'm going to skullfuck you" situation. You don't have to get violent, but you need to call him out and stand up for yourself at least. He needs to know that you know he's fucking you, and he needs to know that you don't accept it and he's now your enemy.
/r/askTRP18/05/15 03:44 AM
1

Of course he doesn't have a concept of it consciously, if he was familiar with trp terms he probably wouldn't have sent the message in the first place. AMOG isn't just something that people familiar with trp do, it's an ingrained behavior in our gender. He's not trying to get the guy to bow out either, he's searching for dirt on him so he can slip something into conversation with the girl. "Hey Steph what's with that guy you're seeing? I talked to him on FB and he got really aggressive with me, …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 06:11 PM
5

"Hey man I appreciate you looking out for her. Keep your head on straight and one day someone will choose you. Peace." He'll probably try to continue to engage, he's trying to covert AMOG you. I wouldn't respond after that unless he started repeating his veiled threats in an obnoxious way, and then only to say "Dude you're right I haven't heard of you, but bro are you threatening me? Is this something we need to talk about in person?" Also, if you ever meet this dude in person for any reason, do…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 09:51 AM
0

Test her. For example if she's leading the hike find something interesting you want to check out and say "hey we should go check out x" if she blows you off, say, "well I didn't come out camping to follow you around the woods, I'm gonna go check it out" If she's just got a hardon for power, she won't be willing to take the groups interests into consideration and shouldn't be followed. At that point we would be mortal enemies in direct competition. If she's just taking charge because she's compet…
/r/askTRP05/05/15 09:28 PM
1

Do hard things. Set some goals for yourself in other areas of your life and work towards them. Don't tread water long enough to acknowledge your insecurities, always be moving forward.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 09:49 AM
3

Never tell a girl overtly that you're going to fuck them unless they're already under your thumb. Women talk in code to keep up the appearance of being a good girl. You gotta learn how to say you're going to fuck her without saying it. Talking about sex is a logical thing, having sex is an emotional thing, they're on different wavelengths. Half the women I meet say they're not having sex, the other half don't mention it at all, almost all of them get down. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3-son3E…
/r/askTRP05/05/15 09:29 AM
0

Sweetie I'm a sadist, a girl's pleasure is absolutely the last thing on my mind.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 09:22 AM
2

The same reason some guys get behind the choreplay idea and brag about going the twenty extra miles bent over backwards. They're socially inept and don't know what's going on.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 09:19 AM
1

It's not. An alpha wouldn't feel the need to tell someone he's better than them. It would just be something he assumes everybody already knows. Talking big is generally an indication of an inability to walk big.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 09:11 AM
0

Gotta disagree. I had a plate a while back that I fucked two or three times really well in the beginning. After those times I only got head then fucked her in the ass, she would ask me to give it to her, begged me on occasion, but even though I didn't, she still kept coming around. She'd bring me food, clean my place up, available 24/7, all that. The point you're trying to make about not knowing what you're doing being a bad thing is valid, that would be inexperience which would be seen as weakn…
/r/askTRP03/05/15 01:43 AM
2

She would be especially responsive to trp ideas, she just wouldn't throw as many shit tests your way.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 12:15 AM
1

Went into a work program, saw some numbers that are obviously pulled out of thin air, but there is some validity to them. Odds of getting a job based on a few variables. Know someone at the company 1/5 Fill out an application in person 1/200 Fill out an application online 1/300 Networking cannot be understated, I got my current job by knowing somebody that knew the VP.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 01:04 AM
-2

A: "Well, after your mom and I started hooking up with other girls I kinda lost count."
/r/askTRP29/04/15 10:32 PM
9

She doesn't believe your dread, show, don't tell. An example of telling would be saying how you got hit on the other day by a chick, an example of showing would be to take her out to a bar/club/random social place, and have good and fun interactions with other hot women, don't worry about whether she's watching, of course she's watching. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment, if she starts slackin on her duties, you need to start taking away some of the perks sh…
/r/askTRP26/04/15 08:21 AM
9

Every minute you spend worrying about what to do if a basic bitch asks you a basic question is wasted time.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 08:06 AM
18

She already knows to keep it a secret.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:51 AM
16

Ignore it. Don't say anything, or say something like, "I'd spend all my new found free time enjoying hot wings with friends and hitting on big titted women."
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:44 AM
1

The number is just a means to an end, not an end itself. Why are you here on trp? Do you want women in your bed? If that's your goal, make it happen. Ask them out for a walk, or coffee, have fun, touch them, then invite them over to your place for a movie. Don't talk yourself out of it. Why do you say you don't want to do anything with her?
/r/askTRP22/04/15 12:42 AM
23

You gotta accept this part of you before any woman will.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 05:23 PM
0

He's not beta, in the first 20 seconds she tries mention petting a dog is the same as petting a cat, he waves his hand in her face and says no, no dogs, shh. You're rationalizing that women place the same value that men do on looks in a partner and you're jealous of this dude's success. That's chick stuff bro, don't be a chick.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 06:23 PM
3

https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/everything-you-know-about-the-friend-zone-is-wrong. Don't do nice things for her, disqualify yourself as boyfriend material basically.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 07:39 PM
1

https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/everything-you-know-about-the-friend-zone-is-wrong If you start to pay for her shit, she'll start changing the way she looks at you. This is her pushing for commitment, ask yourself what you want from her and act accordingly. If you want to stay fwbs, don't pay for her and just make sure you're good company.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 09:35 PM
2

The man's dick doesn't work, he can't move or speak without machines, and he's a household name. Dude is far from a bitch.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:14 AM
3

Being a man is a mental attitude, your physical limitations will make you stronger mentally. Consider, would Stephen hawking have learned such an encompassing view of the cosmos if he could have written his equations down and come back to them when he felt like it? His disability required him to push harder to just do average, and his habit of pushing himself harder gave him the advantage in the end.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 08:37 PM
1

I think it depends on the area you're in. I just came from a large city to a rural area and the quality and quantity both is less out here in bumfuck. Women in the city would be down for all kinds of stuff like it wasn't a big deal but girls out here seem so phobic about even the most innocent of dates.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 08:01 PM
-1

Screenshot the conversations, bring them in and show that you're being reasonable.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 07:58 PM
7

Don't ask her what's wrong at all. If it's something important or something you can help with, she'll come to you with it eventually, but more likely it's not that important and she'll just go to her girlfriends or orbiters, which is where she should go to unload her emotional bullshit. If she says she's fine, think of it as her saying, "this is either some emotional crap or some kind of game that I want to play but since you're the captain I'm not going to blatantly disrespect you by speaking o…
/r/askTRP28/03/15 07:51 PM
2

Most people here have had the heartbreak experience, it's a necessary step along the way to realizing the truth of your reality as a man in 2015. Your gf's friend is treating you that way because she doesn't respect you, and your gf is allowing it because she also doesn't respect you. The best thing you can do now is move on and find some strange pussy to comfort you.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 07:20 PM
5

That's presupposing that a feminist values any man's sexual fulfillment at all. That's not a notion that even registers in their minds or if it does, it registers only as something that needs to be squashed.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 09:02 AM
2

"I'd hit it"
/r/askTRP28/03/15 08:56 AM
3

Kids that are abused or neglected by their parents have trouble with accepting their own objective self worth because the subjective experience they went through was basically rejection from the people that were supposed to grow them into healthy adults. You should read this: http://www.strugglinghero.com/healing-toxic-shame-what-is-toxic-shame/ then go see a therapist.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 03:42 AM
0

Haha wow, deal with your shit woman
/r/askTRP19/03/15 03:49 AM
-1

With number 1, I'd do it, I've had a girl tell me it adds friction and makes it feel better, makes sense. Number 2 no way.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:51 PM
1

The average man has to work to get any pussy at all, the average woman doesn't have to work to get at least some dick. It's hard being a stud, it's easy to be a slut.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 07:33 PM
3

You already said you're not her boyfriend, you've been clear about the situation, she hasn't forgotten it, and she probably won't stop seeking more commitment from you either. Just let it be, you don't have to constantly tell her that, once is enough unless she asks.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 03:15 PM
4

Troll
/r/askTRP16/03/15 03:22 AM
1

Don't answer
/r/askTRP13/03/15 02:45 AM
1

"What makes me stand out is I don't give a shit about standing out, just being true to myself."
/r/askTRP10/03/15 11:03 PM
1

For the mystery.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 11:21 PM
1

https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/everything-you-know-about-the-friend-zone-is-wrong
/r/askTRP05/03/15 08:18 PM
4

I would say yes, partially, but I think Dwight is more of a natural alpha. In a survivor setting I can distinctly see Dwight stepping up to run things and Jim sitting back and letting him. Jim is obviously the character people are supposed to like, but it seems like he's a bit of a "nice guys finish first" fantasy. He's the geek that grew up, and he's definitely more adept at social maneuvering, but he's a little too controllable by the women. He moved his entire life away because an engaged wom…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 05:56 AM
1

It's a reference to this circlejerk of a post.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 07:53 PM
1

Are you still looking for some kind of answer here? Or did you want to double dutch rudder this thing.....
/r/askTRP24/02/15 07:33 PM
2

This is exactly what I've run into, self professed "kinky" chicks are always telling me how they want it or what their limits are, I'm like shut the fuck up I just want to make you bleed. Every once in a while I'll run into a legit masochist, but for the most part I think it's just girls realizing that the reality of today's average dude is less than their fantasy and they want to reverse that but only in the bedroom and only inside their parameters for what that fantasy is. A large percent of t…
/r/askTRP24/02/15 09:24 AM
3

http://counsellingresource.com/features/2011/11/08/gaslighting/ http://mind-hacks.wonderhowto.com/how-to/gaslighting-101-turn-peoples-own-thoughts-against-them-0154973/ http://remycarreiro.com/the-art-of-gaslighting-or-how-i-learned-to-love-driving-someone-insane/ She wants a war, give her a war.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 08:29 PM
1

The best way to get over a girl is to fuck ten of them.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 04:16 AM
1

Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Women will date up, and commit down. "Why would I want to date someone who is inferior to me?" You're displaying the hypergamy of women here. You want the best, and that's ok, but you have to be the best to get the best and even then, you'll always have to be on your A game. If you want an answer to your question, it's because she'll suck your dick, wash your clothes, cook you food, and do it with a smile because she knows …
/r/askTRP05/02/15 06:45 PM
11

"Why? Are you interested in her? Normally I'd compete with you but....you look a little hard up so I'd probably let you have her."
/r/askTRP04/02/15 08:21 PM
1

It's like the child with the hot stove, you can tell them it's hot, but until they get the visceral experience they don't understand. I think most men here have had the experience of trying their best and still being rejected by a woman they've grown to care about. The woman is the hot stove, yes it hurts, but it's a necessary experience in order to understand how the world works. Your mind is not disabled, and it will grow stronger as a result of this.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 07:23 AM
2

Check out this article, basically, you want to downplay your provider status or potential provider status. Don't even tell them you're in a STEM field.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 04:41 AM
2

I get that all the time, sometimes women have a hard time adding to a conversation because of that reason right there. Men act, women appear, you're going to have to carry the conversation and that's a good thing because you can steer it in a direction that suits you. Bring her into your frame, but you gotta make your frame interesting for her. You can say something like, "What's funny? I wasn't saying let's go swimming in it, although you can wear a bikini if you really insist." Obviously if sh…
/r/askTRP29/01/15 04:34 AM
1

You gotta hook her first before that. Push pull, there is no stand around and let the hotties come to you.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 12:48 AM
2

She's not blown away by your profile/pictures/whatever. This is just her saying she's open to you putting forth a bit more effort. You haven't demonstrated that you'd be fun to hang out with yet. You're not a woman, you don't have the option to just expect people to want to hang out with you, sorry for your luck but you have to act valuable before you have value.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 11:41 PM
5

You put her on the defensive when you asked her why she didn't text. The lie sounds like a shit test in response to that needy behavior. I'm not excusing the lying, that's definitely a red flag and unacceptable, but ask yourself if she would have said the same thing if instead you had said something like, "Wow, I had so much fun doing "x" yesterday, how was your day?"
/r/askTRP27/01/15 03:30 PM
2

Don't compare yourself to others "having a party" only compare yourself today to yourself yesterday.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 01:44 AM
1

Find female friends yourself to focus your attention on. She'll be much less likely to mess around if she knows you have options and she can be easily replaced.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 11:13 PM
2

Her decision to not have sex doesn't mean you don't get to. Tell her hey I've thought about it and while you're welcome to do what you want I just don't feel like going celibate is right for me. Let's just be friends.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 08:48 AM
0

"Hey I found a great spot for you to put this while you fix your bra." Then drop it on the floor.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 10:19 PM
1

She might have taken that as a sign of jealousy and now she's testing that.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 10:15 PM
1

Grab her hair in one hand and her neck in the other..... lightly, go in like you're going to kiss her, then take a deep breath and tell her she's welcome to think whatever she likes.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 10:11 PM
2

Tell her she's right, her submission would be worthless with that attitude.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 08:00 PM
13

Don't even be home when she gets back.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:22 AM
2

It sounds like she's just inviting you out. You can look at this as a shit test, or you can look at it as a chance to go see a band you like with someone else paying for your gas to get there... If her two friends are female, show them some interest, flirt with them. Your "plate" might finally let you in if you can show that you have game to build attraction in other women. Go, and ignore the bullshit drama. If the chick isn't on your nuts, go find a chick to hang out with that is.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 09:57 AM
1

Whatever you call it doesn't matter. A girl will say she doesn't want to bang all the way to the point when her panties are lying on your bedroom floor and your dick is in her mouth. Who cares what she says, just make sure to have a good excuse to get her alone at the end of the night.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 04:32 AM
2

Half the girls will say they don't want to, the other half won't specify either way, all of them will get down. You can say something like "What you thought you were getting laid tonight?" Or "I don't care, shut up stop being weird." Move past it, seven seconds after she says that, lightly pinch her thigh and bite your lip. The reason she says this is because sex is on her mind. This is basically your cue to start moving it isn't a roadblock. If she resists you touching her, that's the only no g…
/r/askTRP02/01/15 04:24 AM
5

Maybe that's why he asked the question...
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 10:31 AM
1

Pity will never attract women. Don't wait until she offers you a place in the conversation. Make yourself a place in the conversation, ask permission from no one. No pity allowed. It's not the bartender's responsibility to get you laid or make you feel validation from women, it's yours and yours alone. Once the existential realization hits you on a visceral level, you can realize that what you want is completely in YOUR power, that is to say, that nothing except YOU stands in your way. Lift, rea…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 03:57 AM
1

It's a Zen Yoda thing. Do, or do not. How you let go of it is a personal challenge, just like letting go of being short or any other variable in your life that you can't change. Your focus is what defines you as a man. Focus on your failures, no matter how small, and you'll always fail. Focus on your successes, no matter how small, and wherever you're at in life, you can be content. The obstacle is the path, stop looking backwards.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 01:20 AM
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The first rule of fight club is you do not talk about fight club. Don't tell your Dad, if he's not fully unplugged you're just going to make him insecure and anxious at best and he'll probably take it out on you, the messenger. The only thing I can think of is show him, take him out and be social, encourage him to develop hobbies that don't involve her. Be a role model, that's the only way to effectively teach someone the legitimate truths that society doesn't let the innocent hear.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 01:13 AM
1

Beat the biggest one up for no reason.
/r/askTRP21/12/14 11:58 PM
1

You don't make up for it, you get over it. Wishing on your past takes away from your present. Stop planning to join a gym and join one, stop thinking that you don't know how to approach women and start approaching them, badly if you have to but just do it. Stop letting your self-deprecating thought habits define you. You had shitty experiences as a child, but as a man, you create your own experiences, and no one is responsible for them except you.
/r/askTRP21/12/14 11:37 PM
0

"Did you check the expiration date?" Her: "No? What?" "You gotta roll them all the way down it's on the bottom."
/r/askTRP21/12/14 09:37 PM
0

Give him manly compliments, he'll start trying to live up to them. A girl once simply told me she liked that I was so manly, it stuck with me to this day. Of course I tried to live up to it after that. Just make sure the compliment is genuine.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 03:22 AM
39

It's the world's fault for making you what you are, it's your fault for staying that way.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 09:08 PM
2

You choose those thoughts. As an actual man, with an actual man brain, you are capable of choosing the opposite thoughts. It won't come naturally, you will have to work for it. Once you condition yourself to choose a certain way over and over, you stop choosing and just start doing. Start lifting and bettering yourself actively as a man, then your body will naturally produce the testosterone that will drive your legitimate masculine essence. It starts with your choice every minute of every day t…
/r/askTRP11/12/14 12:38 AM
2

She probably still has the boyfriend that's why she didn't text you herself.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 11:46 PM
1

You're allowing your happiness to be dictated by a woman. Personal satisfaction comes from within. Let that shit go, you'll be stronger for it.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 01:51 PM
2

This could mean she's just checking out of the argument but still holding onto her approval of her friend's actions. Be careful about making it a you vs her friend thing in her mind. You should probably directly comment on her friend much less if at all. It sounds like a tricky situation, what she, and every woman craves, and what her slut friend actively enjoys, is that male attention and the excitement of adventure that being a slut gives. If you want to hold her attention you gotta take it. I…
/r/askTRP09/12/14 11:55 PM
1

Completely disappear, if you tell her, you're basically teaching her how to do it better next time.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 11:36 PM
0

False confidence is the predecessor to real confidence in those that want to manufacture confidence.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 05:07 AM
0

Charles manson never murdered anyone.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 08:22 AM
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My favorite part is where the woman touches the man's leg without asking, directly before the man asks to touch the woman's leg. Did they not notice or is that the actual message? Special rules for men, but don't worry about what the woman does.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 06:42 PM
4

The first rule of fight club....
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 10:45 PM
0

Suffering is the path to true enlightenment. Find your strength.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 03:59 AM
1

"Guy that walked by at that moment," provided the guy is decent, is how 90% of girls choose who they get involved with.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 05:25 AM
2

You have to make a life that women want to be part of, where's the manual for life?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 11:59 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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