Having trouble differentiating between IOIs and drunken girl shenanigans

Stayinghereforreal · 2014-10-23T18:33:29+00:00

You are being used like furniture in those situations.

I_Wear_Jorts5 · 2014-10-23T19:19:32+00:00

I'd say in most of those instances, the girl is "interested," in a sense, but she's basically looking at you like a piece of meat. She isn't looking at you saying "wow he seems really cool, I should go throw myself at him." It's more like, "I'm horny and, since I'm a female, I can do whatever I want. Decent looking dude? Better go make out with him." It's essentially hypergamy at its finest. Funny how men are so often accused of viewing women as "pieces of meat" when women go out, get drunk, and do the same exact thing

[deleted] · 2014-10-23T19:58:17+00:00

What is it you hope to gain by asking this question? In this sort of environment no one is going to be attracted to you for your personality. This is a NAWALT line of thinking, you're hamstering.

If you have this many women approaching you you're doing something right, i.e., being attractive. If you are rejecting this many women, you are in the wrong place, i.e., find a place you feel comfortable hooking up and hang out there.

MorpheusGodOfDreams · 2014-10-23T19:17:48+00:00

I don't want to waste my time with a girl who just wants validation from men.

Imagine if nothing you ever did or said had any value. If your achievements and successes did not matter to yourself or anyone else, regardless of whatever pop-psychology "you go girl" was floating around. If you never developed self respect because of the toxic environment of being around other people without self respect. If you needed validation, just to feel alive and not completely worthless, and all you had to trade for it was your body.

All women want validation from powerful men. If this disgusts you, then you are entering into the "bargaining" stage of TRP.

VegasHostTre · 2014-10-24T01:42:03+00:00

All these situations are nothing more than teases and should avoided. In fact I would not want to makeout with these Ebola spreading sluts anyway. At this point in America's history, making out in a public place is equivalent to a hug and sex is equivalent to making out. Here are the alternatives to the situations you've presented.

A. Girl was sloppy drunk, avoid later rape charge and let her pass

B. Girl was teasing, looking for validation and attention

C. Again avoid later false rape charges

D. This one is interesting in the feminine dynamic, if the friend was giving you shit right from the outset, then she called you over because they saw you as low value and just wanted shits and giggles. You could've given them tingles saying something cocky and arrogant to blowing them off.

You may could've gotten laid in all these situations but from what I read you may have been better off.

monsieurhire2 · 2014-10-23T20:18:59+00:00

FYI, drunks and drug addicts are LOSERS. For some reason, people don't assimilate hawt chicks in bars as drunks, and therefore losers, but they are. This is someone so miserable, that they have to poison themselves into a state of intoxication, so they can then do things they can disavow later.

Wumpus1 · 2014-10-23T18:17:36+00:00

You answered all of your own questions already. If drunk girls are hooking up with more than one dude in a night they are not looking to fuck most of the time and just want to make out with the next guy. Look at the situations with some perspective. Plus I wouldnt want anything to do with those drunk sluts anyway if im just another makeout.

IOI's are the same on a date as in a club, eye contact, kino, etc. Though eye contact is much easier to read, and you can bet kino escalation means shes into you if she isnt making out with every dude in the room.

OKJaded · 2014-10-23T22:48:43+00:00

Is this a humble brag? They know nothing about you, of course its all based on looks and timing.

Yes those are all explicit signs of interest. Yes she is probably drunk, horny and wants some. You met her first criteria of being the best combination of attractive and approachable. All you have to do is not fuck it up.

Play the situation how ever you want.

Red_August · 2014-10-24T01:58:31+00:00

1- Drunk girl made out with any guy found decent enough
2- Drunk girl danced with any decent-enough guy she sees
3- Drunk girl makes out with whoever is decent enough - final choice is later
4- Drunk girl has enough courage to make a move and set you up with fat friend

See a pattern here?

puamua · 2014-10-24T05:25:05+00:00

"Guy that walked by at that moment," provided the guy is decent, is how 90% of girls choose who they get involved with.

Title	Having trouble differentiating between IOIs and drunken girl shenanigans
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Date	October 23, 2014 6:05 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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