How do I navigate an aggressive white knight?

BinglesTRP · 2015-07-05T14:10:45+00:00

By literally not expending any effort.

You just need to work on keeping your frame. When you're able to do this effortlessly in this situations, it's going to look like one guy is making an asshole out of himself (the other guy), while you aren't even wasting your time.

CopperFox3c · 2015-07-05T14:49:17+00:00

Amused Mastery works just as well on men as it does on women.

You may also may want to read up on AMOG'ing, e.g. Rollo's Take as well as an example from ScottishRedPill. You can search the main sub for more.

fullcount-bottom9th · 2015-07-05T18:26:53+00:00

My most simple suggestion: keep lifting -- guys are less likely to pick on other guys who are bigger.

was this guy bigger than you? Was he drunk? Could you give more details of the conversation that got him started on you?

lvVSlickVvl · 2015-07-05T14:43:41+00:00

The obvious answer is to get her away from her orbiter and bud a personal rapport.If she wont, it sounds like the girl is allowing/encouraging g him to do this. If she'd Rather have this orbiter than you, next.

[deleted] · 2015-07-05T15:57:29+00:00

My answer to any social situation is to charm the person. If you can't charm them, charm everyone around them.

northsidefugitive · 2015-07-05T18:42:30+00:00

Smile, set your shoulders in a nice, lazy posture, and lazily shrug him off like he's nothing.

RPthrowaway123 · 2015-07-05T21:44:38+00:00

Try and get her away from him. If he's determined to go nuclear, next the girl. Getting into a fight makes you and him look stupid, and if you look stupid then it's a lost cause anyways

RidleySmith · 2015-07-06T01:49:12+00:00

You're acting like a pussy, that's the only reason they aren't afraid to step to you. Why else are you trying to subdue and get in the "good books" with some beta faggot?

So the White Knights come to try and AMOG you when you're trying to pick up a girl or... You just find yourself pointlessly talking to white knights? PUA's have built up many effective strategies for dealing with cockblocking guys (because they have to deal with it all the time), Google "AMOGing" to learn more

rangamatchstick · 2015-07-05T14:19:50+00:00

In that situation you described, smile and laugh.

Es_Kyuu · 2015-07-05T14:04:10+00:00

What exactly do you mean when you say he was having a go at you? What kind of things was he saying / doing?

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-07-05T22:40:58+00:00

Hahaha sounds like he's already your bitch.

TitsAndWhiskey · 2015-07-06T03:28:11+00:00

I doubt anyone will agree with me, but I tend to just say something like, "look if you have a problem lets just step outside and handle it."

If you say it with a calm demeanor they almost always back down.

throw_em_all · 2015-07-06T18:00:55+00:00

Easy, your approach should be to make him the insecure, awkward one. Like for example:

He gets really close, "Dude wtf, you trying to kiss me or something? You are most definitely handsome but I'm not really interested" while smiling and stuff.
He starts AMOGing you, call him out "Ohh I see, you're just like, marking your territory right? That's cool man, you're definitely the alpha here, don't worry about me, I'm honored you think about me that way though!" light kino, shoulder tap, hand on the shoulder/back etc.

Over everything else, be chill, don't react, no emotions, just laugh at the situation.

TheBigO420 · 2015-07-07T15:05:53+00:00

You don't. Fuck him, let him make an ass of himself. You have more important shit to expend your energy on.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2015-07-05T16:44:52+00:00

If Captain Saveahoe invades your space, gay him up. Basically call him a faggot. "Sorry man...I don't swing that way, so back off." If he gets physical, fake out and to the side with your non dominant hand and throat punch him. "When in doubt, knock'em out."

Hamilton5M · 2015-07-06T00:17:02+00:00

Ask the girl out loud if the guy is her boyfriend. She will probably show visible disgust, or shoot him down.

The guy will feel like shit and probably leave or flee to a corner.

flatox · 2015-07-05T14:29:56+00:00

Usually I'd say it's a waste of time to discuss with someone who talk of topics where everything they believe are merely illusions, they don't even require reasoning for to accept as their reality.

As for answering your question, i'm not sure what to answer. But i will let you know that their "good books" are less than worthless. Be the guy whose "good book" they want to be in.

AnarchyBurger101 · 2015-07-05T17:14:23+00:00

Pepper spray, tasering, stomp his kneecaps, a swift kick to the nuts, a knuckle punch to the throat to shut his yapper from gag reflex. :D

For some people, there's no way to use reason, or verbal judo to defuse drunk and stupid. Kick their ass, zip-tie hog tie em, chuck em in a basement, and let em sleep it off if they go to attack you, and that's only if it's a friend.

Too many 20 somethings assume other people will fight "fair" , and get their asses beat senseless, get shot up, or killed.

Like this one dude, he's some sort of MMA fighter, won some state championship, and all that crap. He ran up against someone who "didn't play by the rules" as in slamming a crowbar into his head, and then kicked the shit out of him. He gets out of the hospital, does a sneak attack on this guys super expensive junkyard special truck that set him back all of $500. All he really does is knock out the windows, which for a junker truck might set someone back $120 at the pick a part place, and $8 for silicone and misc tools.

Of course, the MMA guy and his friends, they had cars that had rims that each cost more than this guy's truck. So guess what a pissed off gorilla is going to do to them? :D $35k down the toilet, and 5 of them in the hospital for even more money. Yeah, the gorilla broke his probation, and had to skip town for 3 months, nothing new.

Personally, I had no problems with the gorilla, didn't want his meth'd out girl, didn't give a shit about his personal life. Told em the owner wanted em off the property, and if necessary, I'd have to file a no trespass. It might have helped that a previous employee on the property spread the rumor that I was a terrorist(terrorist, anarchist, something like that!), and had a heap of guns and munitions at my disposal.

Well, not exactly true, but, if someone bigger than me throws a punch, I'm gonna slice their guts out with box cutter, tell the cops I was in fear for my life, and used what tools I had available to preserve it. My word against that of a convicted felon with a mile long record.

Marc "animal" MacYoung used to have some good books on the subject, which mostly came down to strategic retreats, and if you have to, forget fighting fair, disable the enemy, and get out of dodge.

He's a big long in tooth now, but you can find his ramblings online. http://macyoungsmusings.blogspot.com

Title	How do I navigate an aggressive white knight?
Author	Scouter95
Upvotes	22
Comments	23
Date	July 5, 2015 1:29 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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