How do I overcome my Flaws?

hoopingblob · 2020-01-03T15:49:38+00:00

Be alpha, fuck chicks

Serious: You should accept what you cannot change

Nastynatee · 2020-01-03T17:27:07+00:00

Apparently alot of people here have never heard of Neil Strauss

RacistMuffin · 2020-01-03T19:08:58+00:00

First of all, in relating your comment to Neil Strauss, he was in the complete same position as you were. As with many great pickup artists such as Mystery. All fucking miserable guys that either blamed themselves on things that they can't change. Yet, early on they have always forgotten to focus on the things they can change.

Listen, nothing is going to fix your baldness or height(source im 5"8). But, the first thing you should fix is your obsession with women. You named your height, but you are amazing at sports because you're athletic. Why the fuck are you bitching and moaning then? Because you put women in your priority and it skews your perception of yourself. If you put other things on top of your priority, you wouldn't be bitching and complaining about yourself. You perceive yourself as negative since your results don't correlate to things you have as your main priority.

1) Change your priorities and focus on a purpose.

Since your main goal right now is to score chicks, change that to your secondary goal. Let your main goal be something that allows you to generate similar hormonal effects such as fucking women. Like doing a competitive sport.

2) Change your perception of female nature. You didn't get dumped because your stupid self-perception of yourself being ugly and not right for her. You got dumped because you were insecure, needy, or also AWALT(hypergamy). And while AWALT does stand true, it could also be notable that you dropped relatively lower in status either SMV or social standing which could have made her lose attraction for you.

3) >I'm not valuable to continue on seeing when they have better bigger options.

Do you not have better options? Will there be hot girls out there looking specifically for personality as opposed to honest signals such as looks? Will there be chicks that actually find bald guys fucking hot?

The answer is fucking Yes. Develop an abundance mindset and stop complaining, jesus.

In the end, all of the things I have listed for you to change have one common theme. It's all related to internal-value and creating self-worth. You are too fixated on things to fix externally rather internally.

MattyAnon · 2020-01-03T20:36:56+00:00

And I can get a girl interested. But after like a month of two they drop me. I'm not the type of guy that's "worth" being with regardless of said and shared connection.

Perfect..... see multiple FWB's, let them go easily.

I just got dumped because of it.

How do you know the reason why? It might be your personality you know....

Sorry for bitchy post but I don't know what actions to take

What do you WANT?

fannyfire · 2020-01-03T16:41:56+00:00

You’re not absorbing the sidebar. If you’re a fucking loser and won’t accept it there’s nothing anybody can say to make you think otherwise. You’ve said you’re a loser, you know you’re a loser but you won’t accept it. When you accept that you’re a loser you can burn it all down and start again.

Title	How do I overcome my Flaws?
Author	legend503
Upvotes	1
Comments	16
Date	January 3, 2020 3:38 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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