Why do so many women play games?

OrzhovPalatine · 2019-06-04T15:42:35+00:00

Because they can and have to. Hang around women enough and you will start to understand what it is to be them and it'll make sense.

But in short women have to play games to filter out men. Imagine you're a very attractive woman and all day men show up and you don't know for sure if they're only interested in your tits or just you.

You need a quick.way to filter through these men as to what they intentions are. They use the "games" to figure out where to place each guy. Whether hes friend material, lover material, provider material, etc

Theres other layers but it boils down to this

legend503 · 2019-06-04T15:16:01+00:00

I don't want to hear "omg who hurt you" i just see people behaving like this everywhere

bemore_ · 2019-06-04T15:20:42+00:00

It's not an education or even an attractiveness thing, it's a self-awareness thing. Women can only play with a guy with lower self awareness relative to theirs or less dominant males, beta's.

It's because when you see them you make assumptions about them based on how they present themselves, not understanding AWALT

DriedUpPlum · 2019-06-04T18:33:12+00:00

How do you handle them? If your game is better than their game then you know to nope the fuck out of there.

How can we complain about women running game when men are here trying to learn how to do it too? Why is it somehow more evil for a specific woman to want a few free drinks or a party to go to then for a man to trying to put a woman’s entire life at risk to get his dick wet for a night?

The only things these men are putting at risk or maybe the cash(which is their fault) and their egos(again... theirs to comfortably lose). The man isn’t typically going to be put in a situation in which their safety is being physically compromised by another human being.

Kenic_In_MD · 2019-06-04T15:17:47+00:00

Don't we all play games? Let's say you want a job, they make you write a paper (your resume) and pass a couple of tests (phone/in person interview). Even then sometimes they test your proficiency at work via training and the like. With girls it's the same way, they play games to test your aptitude, they shit test you to test your frame/ego. Sometimes they do things just to bring excitement because you're boring them. It's how this relationship/sex stuff works.

Girls play games all the time, but it's not their fault that the some of the men they deal with aren't wise to the game. Which they then take advantage of, wouldn't you do the same if there was free exclusive parties, free drinks and potentially sex with no strings attached being offered to you? That's hard to turn down.

I've seen girls flirt/touch guys get a few drinks then bail on him turn around do the same get them all turned on get more drinks and leave the bar. It's mind boggling and cold blooded as hell but hey do what works I guess lol.

2022-09-17T17:12:57+00:00

It is not women who play games. I have never known a woman who played games.

The women who say they are not interested or just want to be friends mean what they say. It is men who chase after these women or ignore what they are saying. It is men who try to be friends with them. It is men who complain that their friend(s) act that way-venting, offering emotions, looking for support, neutral activities, friendliness. That is what friends do.

It is men who are lying to themselves and women when they pursue friendship in hopes of a transactional relationship, thereby reducing friendship to deception and manipulation. They only have themselves to blame if they are embarrassed, rejected, or shown up by some other guy.

It is their own fault they were socially inept and unassertive, incapable of being direct, and being clear they wanted sex and dating. They expected sex for friendship. Friendship doesn't work that way. The women were completely honest from the beginning.

That is why friend-zoning is a 'thing'.

I have not done the following that men I know, dated, or have met have done:

Offered drugs, sex, and shelter in exchange for sex.

Pretended that friendship was a relationship.

Covered up interest in a married woman.

Asked someone to move in without meaning it.

Try to get someone to leave town for my benefit through manipulation.

Followed someone around to see what was happening.

Ghosted someone after cheating, then shown up with new lovers, parading them deliberately in front of an ex. Then expecting to be wanted back as if nothing happened. Calling around each weekend to check on the ex and showing up without permission. Calling the ex on vacation to inform of new sexual encounters. Dated the ex's best friend. Introduced the ex to the mistress. Spread rumors such as 'she is still in love with me', 'she wanted to get married', 'she broke up with me for no reason', 'I have no idea why she dumped me', 'she broke my heart', 'she had a plan to force us to marry, so I cheated', 'she thinks I am the love of her life'. I CAN TELL YOU I NEVER SAID ANY OF THESE THINGS OR EVEN THOUGHT THEM. I thought he was trash. Good riddance.

And all the other forms of manipulation, lying, ghosting, cheating, and deception that MEN engage in.

Title	Why do so many women play games?
Author	legend503
Upvotes	9
Comments	34
Date	June 4, 2019 3:06 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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