How do I stop cumming so fast?

demoneyes905 · 2014-09-14T16:52:37+00:00

KEGELS. Train those PC muscles so that you can stop yourself from cumming from pure strength.

Do 5 sets of 10 hold count (where you tighten your muscles as if you are stopping yourself from pissing) , 2-3x a day. You will start to notice you last a lot longer after a few weeks. Google some kegel instructions online if you are confused as to how to do it.

This is your best bet. It has helped me a lot. It will get you to 1.5 - 2 hours on average and some people last a lot longer than that with more training.

alreadyredschool · 2014-09-14T17:43:40+00:00

Do kegels: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/299fbe/rsex_best_of_kegels/

And you should not care about when you cum. Cumming fast is great. Sex is about your pleasure. If you think you will disappoint her when you cum before she does finger her.

If you still want to last longer just watch tons of porn and masturbate, death-grip and all that stuff.

DaftOdyssey · 2014-09-14T15:07:33+00:00

Breath slow and deep. Be in positions where you're not causing stress or pressure on your core, which the majority are the abs. So less missionaries or simpler in terms: no thrusting. Let her do the work. And stop thinking about how good it feel more often, especially at the beginning, in order to increase your time.

definitely_hetero · 2014-09-15T00:40:22+00:00

pretend you're fucking Renée Zellweger.

mithridates1 · 2014-09-14T16:14:54+00:00

name the starting lineup of the 1996 yankees

asd1100 · 2014-09-14T17:01:47+00:00

think more impact rather then speed, there really isn't any reason to go for speed unless she is close or you're bored.

Synthtwo · 2014-09-14T18:16:20+00:00

Learn to edge. Squeeze the muscles like you're trying to hold your pee as you feel you are starting to ejaculate, you can hold it in and last for hours.

Practice with masturbation, squeeze whatever muscle group it's called that you wold squeeze if you're trying to stop peeing while you fap, slow down if you feel yourself getting too close to ejaculations and squeeze those muscles to hold it in.

Done properly it pretty much resets your boner. Using this I typically fuck girls until theyre sore.

throwaway-aa2 · 2014-09-14T18:08:36+00:00

Masturbate more often.
More plates. I find it hard to believe you have 2 or more plates with regular sex, and are coming that fast.
If you know you're going to have sex that day, masturbate before hand.
You're wearing condoms I presume... follow the advice of PostPilot.
The kegel exercise is interesting. Wondering how that works.
Switch positions often too. If you're honest about it, there is probably a predominant position in which you cum. Missionary, Doggy... make sure to not only switch positions often (when I started to come too much from missionary, I started fucking my girl doggstyle more often. When I started coming too much from that, I would hold one of her legs up and fuck her that way. When I started coming too much from that, I had her ride me more often.
Try different ones to find the position that stimulates you the least... you can go to it when you need to (mine is the lady on top... as long as she's not tonguing me down. This makes the girl work [and the ladies usually don't have as much endurance as us])
Switching to oral is a good choice. If she can't get you off with a blow job, do that, else oral on her (or you could let her do the blow job until before you're going to come, then do oral on her).
When I used to get close to coming, I had two techniques. The first, was letting my mind WANDER. I would start thinking about what I had to do tomorrow... start thinking about work... maybe imagine I'm fucking some fat ugly bitch I hate and she smells... these are all things that will make you less hard.... I'm probably going to get shit from this...but sometimes getting the girl to start convulsing and start screaming like a dog is worth it. Imagine you're fucking your sister, or your grandmother, or some dude. You basically want to stay hard as possible without coming. You're default when fucking an attractive girl is "warmer" and these negative stimuli are "colder". So as you get warmer and warmer to coming, go "colder", but not too cold that your dick gets soft. You basically want to use hot / cold to maintain a throbbing dick, but not cum or get soft.
Also... I used to just look at the wall in front of me, and not look at the girl. Odds are, she will like this if you are fucking her hard as well(you're fucking her without looking at her which is a big checkmark on dominance. My girl used to beg me to look at her, I would say no, and she would come very quickly after that).
Also.. I would get close, and I would pull out. Either take a 10 second break, or I would start going extremely slow. Basically keep going in and out, but go ALL THE WAY IN (DEEP, let it fill her up COMPLETELY), and go all the way out. If you have a big enough dick, this will make her go CRAZY... generally us guys can't get off this slow (unless you're right at the tipping point).

Read Sex God Method. I had got very good with women, and I read this book and it basically echo'd everything I'd taught myself over many months, and a lot of other helpful tips.

n0c0ntr0l · 2014-09-14T17:05:41+00:00

Breath deeply and evenly.

haterandhypocrite · 2014-09-14T20:44:21+00:00

If you need them, antidepressants can sometimes make blasting a load really difficult.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-09-14T20:52:43+00:00

Cum again.

Also learn Tantric- Books like: Way of the Superior Man and Way of the Superior Lover.

kanaduhisfruityeh · 2014-09-14T20:56:25+00:00

Do kegels, strengthen your PC muscles. Just doing core exercises in general (lower back, abs, upper thighs) should help to strengthen your PC's.
Practice jerking off for long periods of time, going to edge and then holding back with help of PC muscles.
Jerk off to porn or images (photo/video) of women you find attractive. That will desensitize your dick to physical stimulation (i.e. death grip) and to the visual stimulation of seeing attractive women's bodies.

ben0wn4g3 · 2014-09-14T23:49:57+00:00

Vodka

SFofallplaces · 2014-09-15T06:42:45+00:00

Picture the head of Kevin Spacey 7-feet-tall hovering above your bead.

throwdownshowdownman · 2014-09-14T18:28:05+00:00

"You know what your problem is? Your putting the pussy on a pedestal "

mrpoopistan · 2014-09-14T17:17:03+00:00

How attractive are the women you're with?

Erectile and ejaculatory response is largely a function of the perceived value of your partner relative to your own perceived value.

Overzealous_BlackGuy · 2014-09-15T03:08:59+00:00

Yoy could also edge at the point of Cumming...and convunce every womeb you have multiple orgasms..and the best part is you start over each time and you last longer each time. Let her suck yoyr dick and right before you cum let go. Breathe for a sec..smile and make her think she did a good job.make her suck the mess up to get you fully erect again and keep going....mindblown everytime...and learn to eat pussy...seriously. Women will fuck you bettwr if you please them.

Title	How do I stop cumming so fast?
Author	neverlaika
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Date	September 14, 2014 2:42 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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