I’ve found I’m way too helpful to my friends close to me. I’ll be stressing myself out making the arguments and shit in my head about what to say to try and help them better their lives and shit like stopping them playing video games, breaking up with manipulative girlfriends etc.

Me doing this is just stupid, most of the time they haven’t even asked for my help or aren’t even looking to change so I don’t get why I get so invested in trying to solve their problems. I think it’s just because their lives seem so easy to fix but what can I do to completely clear these stressful thoughts and just focus on my own grind?