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yeah ive read the sidebar, but i havent implemented trp principles when it comes to women and at times my old habits kick in to the point where im not even conscious. but yeah fake it till you make it might be the way to go.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:39 PM
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You shouldve just said "thanks" or any other 1 word response you would give a homie that replied to your story. it was a poll "dm", with options yes/yes, and before a girl wouldn't even hit me up if she wasnt interested - from MY perspective. but yeah thanks for the direct punches to the face, knocked some sense into meh
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:13 PM
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yepp i woke up a stonger man
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:11 PM
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Yes, I did. Usually when talking to a girl if she wasn't interested she would reply short words, or not reply at all, whereas this one replied as if she had interest but took forever to respond - which I will say again is why I'm confused whats crossing their mind.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 12:23 AM
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I get what you're saying, but it simply doesn't make sense for this scenario since the conversation was 3 lines short, and her replies seemed genuine and like she was interested.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 10:52 PM
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I get your point and while it does make sense, the part that puzzles me is that not a single girl would hit me up over an IG poll unless she was interested, I guess that's just how I've been "programmed"?
/r/askTRP23/12/20 10:50 PM
1

Trying to ignore, but this is the first time I've seen a girl do this and it's gotten me really puzzled.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 10:48 PM
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But how do I kill the part of me that enjoys getting validation from others? There have been a few instances where I have been able to self validate and not care what anyone else thought. The biggest problem with this is I can't recreate self validation, it just comes by naturally. While I am open to trying psychedelics, now is not the time.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 01:38 PM
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Yeah,the turning my back on them is what has been lingering in my mind for a lot of time now, but at the same time the energy is unmatched.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 02:11 PM
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My point was that the "main" group of friends is a group of people I like very much and have been with for a big part of my life. And now that they are what they have become I'm not sure if I should bring it up or just continue hanging out with people I find interesting and fun to be with.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 07:38 PM
1

The 4 points you have in this post are all a mixture of immaturity and not giving a fuck(find the balance yourself). But it doesn't look like you don't give a fuck yet, hence the existence of this post. Stop caring and do as you wish.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 12:45 AM
1

I tried doing 5x5 SL, then changed to some other intermediate routine, but I realized that I'm not eating right since I only had newbie gains and stalled from that point onward. I wasn't as devoted, and by the time I found out about the problem being the food I eat I had already given up.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 08:35 PM
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no need to comment if you're not gonna contribute at all with your halfassed sarcastic comments
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:48 PM
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No I'm not autistic, and I don't understand where that's coming from. I have lifted before, but I didn't see a gain in mass and I decided to stop. I have been thinking recently about taking kickboxing trainings, together with my brother since I'm not interested in lifting.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 03:02 PM
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I can understand you thinking that I'm being sensitive, but when I grabbed his T-Shirt and asked him why he's wearing that, he was all up in my face, basically being aggressive at my minimal reaction to his first comment.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 06:25 PM
2

The problem is when I reacted like that he came up in my face. He's being a dickhead for no apparent reason, and this has only started happening lately.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 06:24 PM
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Depends on what you want the outcome to be similar to. You can be an asshole and report her, eat the shit and be quiet cus she will hunt you down in class or if you have some mega epic joke that you think might give you the chance to comeback then that is it.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 04:47 PM
1

I'll try the breathing tactic, which the headspace program also suggest you do and I'll get back to you through PM.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 12:20 PM
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I agree on your last statement, but only partly. It just forces you to deepen your thoughts, so you end up thinking about something that wont even matter in a short span of time, but you're doing it anyway. I was meditating around a month or so using a cool program I found on the internet that has positive reviews. I had the natural high from time to time, but it just boosts my overall confidence when it occurs.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 12:19 PM
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I meditated using headspace, and did take 10 and 15 and decided to pause to see if I notice anything. My head is still busy and I'm still overthinking way too much and not living in the present. I highly doubt it's anxiety, because before a big event I can feel a bit anxiety, but it's gone in an hour maximum. This overthinking problem I've been having for the past half year is something serious that I should take care of.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 01:23 AM
1

I've let go of putting women on pedestals, and women aren't a key part to my life. It's hard to identify what is good and what isn't right now because I learnt something in the wrong way, thinking it's correct or good if I think like that and now I cannot differentiate between good/bad.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 02:59 PM
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What would you say instead of "Get it yourself."? I've noticed one friend of mine when you ask him to do something you can do yourself he'd say "I can't my phone is about to power off." even though you'd ask him for something else and he'd start fucking around with you until you do it yourself.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 02:50 PM
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This subconscious mindset is confusing me to a whole different level and while I've noticed a lot of positive changes in my mindset, I do notice a ton of negative changes. I could start acting like a dick out of nowhere because of some small thing, because that's what I learned is an alpha thing to do.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:10 AM
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I misunderstood the whole alpha beta thing. Right now I would first think how a beta or alpha would react then react the way I think is right(the alpha way in my mind). I try to analyze if a person is alpha or beta, and I do stuff the way other people do them, not in my own way which ruins the definition of self, but I do it regardless for some reason and brush it off as "I want to do this". And I've noticed that sometimes I think about what other people would think of me when I'd do something, …
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:08 AM
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when you were down you pushed yourself up so you can be loved instead of doing it for your own pleasure. when she leaves you and gets pumped by another cunt, will you then start going to the gym again full on motivated? you need discipline. think about this as well, if you don't go to the gym are you going to sit home and watch youtube/waste time with your girlfriend then you should go to the gym instead.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 09:39 PM
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what the fuck is a shit eating grin
/r/askTRP27/12/18 09:35 PM
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She tattooed a man's name that will be there for her temporary. That's a red flag in my head.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/18 03:58 PM
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What did you mean by the last part?
/r/askTRP15/12/18 02:36 PM
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I started freshman as a 15 year old, and I lost contact with most people from elementary school so I don't have no impressions to change.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 12:49 PM
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That's one thing I need to do for now. Get comfortable even in silence and not feel awkward or put too much attention on it.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 12:36 PM
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I've been lifting since July. Lost 3kg's(originally was 70kg, roughly 180cm and I'm 17 years old) I would say I'm undergoing the teenage phase, meaning that my clothing fits well together, but a 20+ year old wouldn't wear that fit. I've read most of the sidebar material, and the book No More Mr. Niceguy Yeah that's my problem I suppose. I wasn't motivated to go on more dates because of the last one, regardless of gaining experience even if I fail.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 12:35 PM
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She also insinuated I must not have been cool or done well with girls in school because of it. >YOOOOOO how the fuck did you know? I was the kid that used to sit alone in the corner. There are 2 ways to go over this, one depending on your current location and the other if you can be confident without giving a shit while using the technique. Leave her presence. You agree and amplify. Go ahead and mock yourself(some time after someone firstly mocks you about it). Take everything anyone says about …
/r/askTRP06/12/18 04:12 PM
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She told me this guy smokes weed every day so she was worried about that. >"HE SMOKES WEED? EVERYDAY? He's a fucking lunatic!!!!!!!!!! i view this as a shit test, not as you being cucked. she's checking if ur gonna be confident and say "oh have fun" and go out with a plan b that you shouldve had before in your head. idgaf mentality+plan b
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:49 PM
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i mean shit, that happens to all of us, or used to happen to all of us. u can put it in your brain to stop giving a shit over their problems and handle yours. you don't see them throwing advice at you when you complain about something - they don't care as much as you do
/r/askTRP05/12/18 03:13 PM
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It's easy to fix other people's problems, while you can't fix yours. As soon as the thought of opening your mouth and helping a friend comes to your mouth just remain quiet and if they ask you then speak. Sometimes even if you open your mouth and start your sentence, just say that you had a brain fart and don't give advice.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 12:18 PM
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Or you can cut the serious compliments and joke around instead. If she's showing cleavage you could say something among the lines of "Jesus Christ did not approve of this dress/skirt/whatever.". If you've teased her already you can go ahead and tease her again by saying "Nice... shoulders(or insert other naked part of body)", while looking at her chest then switching to her shoulder. It should all have like it's own flow. Don't go up to her, small talk, silence, then tease. It should all come in…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/18 07:39 PM
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I'm having issues having trust in "close" friends. I'd never care about female friends. They're there to satisfy your needs or maybe get her friends to meet with you. If you're around your friends, but you display superior attitude, confident and all that(not being a dick) you can still pull. However, having a hot friend with you can attract another girl that's already a bit interested you or not interested at all.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:52 PM
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So you're saying being empty inside and thinking that life has no meaning is better than picking your life up? Those issues you have right now might be small now, but they'll grow bigger later on. Learn to cope with stress, problems and fight against them. To not take a single hit from the joint/blunt while it is being passed around in your face is what you need discipline or motivation(temporary) for. If you can't handle it just leave the room in which whoever is smoking and come back once they…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 09:10 PM
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As a fellow member that has had oneitis in the past, I'd say this post is definitely oneitis. Not to mention you're shitting where you're sleeping - don't date girls from your class, shit can get nasty later on. I'd say this girl is only in it for the school work and you should be in it for that only. You can test your flirting abilities on her and get shit done at the same time. Does it matter if you went to class? Will you gain more knowledge and learn easier than you would on your own? If so,…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 09:03 PM
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Either stop completely or consume 3 times monthly, unless you are struggling socially when high.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 08:33 PM
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theres dudes out there like me that came in 10~ seconds when they first lost their virginity. to my surprise i couldnt care less about it. ot: just stop caring if ur gonna cum and enjoy the experience.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:56 PM
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Happens to me by my mother and brother. You might've even noticed your mom badmouth your sister when she's not around and when your sister's around they both gang up against you.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:39 PM
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M17, So this sounds stupid but it's a real problem I'm having, so basically me and friends(3 friends including me) are making a minecraft server i think you mistyped your age ​
/r/askTRP18/11/18 09:06 PM
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once every 3/4 days id say is better
/r/askTRP18/11/18 09:00 PM
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Get her to prove with her vaginal opening.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 08:47 PM
1

I wouldn't say laughing at one's jokes is definitely an IOI, maybe you're actually funny to her. Neither is bumping into you.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 08:32 PM
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I am struggling with this one, but stop talking about anything connected with TRP unless your opinion is specifically questioned. My friends sometimes start talking about girls and giving tips, they wouldn't even ask me for an opinion, but when I'd say something with TRP beliefs they usually look me strangely and forget what I said. No TRP irl, that's a must.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 08:29 PM
1

do you wish for an insult regarding a certain relative or something that is connected to the whole situation?
/r/askTRP18/11/18 08:25 PM
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If you enjoy doing the drugs(while you shouldn't overdo them)and she gives you shit for it start nexting her or ignoring her. How you life your life is your problem only. If she gives you more shit then end that shit - she's not the only fish in the sea nor is she anything special. Just an ordinary girl and it's just your turn right now.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 08:14 PM
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Hit the gym you spastic cunt. Your past should help you get motivated because of it being bad in itself, then discipline yourself and you won't have to base your actions off of motivation.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 03:27 PM
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Try making beats on FL Studio, or play a game and go to bed earlier. Next day wake up in 10am, eat eggs and bread(toasted without butter) and after 2 hours hit the gym.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:59 PM
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I was mostly confused if I should give him a 2nd chance and the next fuck up to ghost him, regardless of him being in all of my classes. This has happened to me before, where a "good" friend of mine forgot about me as soon as I dumped the same ex that my other "good" friend made out with. After dumping her, he directed all his attention towards her and forgot about me. I ghosted him and he started questioning my friends if I was mad at him, and gave him a 2nd chance. Which leads me to the fact t…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:57 PM
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I stopped seeing this girl and was a little emotional bitch. I was trying to lose the feelings and he definitely helped me because he wanted to go for a coffee with me so we can talk and I can vent etc.. I don't know if they only made out and don't care if they even had sex. When I made out with an ex of his, I remember very good asking him before if he'd get mad and if he's okay with it. He agreed and I did my part.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 09:01 PM
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Why I'm upset with my "good" friend is because he supported me since he knew what happened between us(before I even knew TRP existed). We were talking often and at that point I felt like he was a good enough friend to listen to my problems. Turns out he went behind my back due to other drama, that I partly got involved in, but didn't pick sides. He thought I had picked the other side and so went and used stuff he wasn't able to before because he thought we were good friends.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 08:59 PM
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He is thirsty, yes. I don't care about my ex. My problem was that I thought a bit more highly of this friend and he went and did that. Something he told me when he first told me about this he said: "I thought we weren't going to be friends anymore so I went and did that." and it sounded extremely sketchy to me.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 08:55 PM
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:'(
/r/askTRP15/11/18 08:52 PM
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since im still in hs i just take a few deep breaths from my nose and out of my mouth and remind myself that its nothing big and that ill take care of whatever the problem is.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:24 AM
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In school/college/work or at home?
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:29 PM
1

I work out thrice a week, but I haven't been to the gym since Thursday because of tests. What you said about loving yourself definitely sounds logical. The first time I read that on TRP I used to think that you're supposed to remind yourself that you love who you are and you'd become more comfortable with your body.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:24 PM
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I'm still in high school which is why I find it difficult to feel differently. It might be because of the bad grades, but even if I do bad grades and there's nothing I can change about it I don't understand why I'd feel bad about it now rather than earlier. I'm going to try and study consistently as we take lectures.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:20 PM
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lol haha
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:39 AM
1

This was the girl's call for the boy, who owned the phone, to flirt with her in elementary school.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 11:11 PM
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She's not the only fish in the sea. You didn't get her number and big fucking deal. Use your mind for a second to think about the situation. You noticed IOIs and had fun at the party, no need to force a date with her, she's not the only girl on this planet.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 05:16 PM
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and do speed or xtc
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:49 PM
1

I mean I got the balls to wrap my arm around a girl, but since there was barely any kino so I might've come out as a creep. The problem is that she got her friend to come to the park as well and then we met up with my friends. At first I was a bit quiet, but then I started teasing both of them and joking around. Don't really think escalation is ideal in front of other friends, even if it's just one. tbf im proud that i had the balls to go out on a date with her and not be quiet throughout the da…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 05:34 PM
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It was a one on one date, and the plan was to go to the park give my friend the hash. He would've smoked it and gone away with my other friend. Her friend also came to the park so I'm a bit confused about that. Later more friends came and that shit just went nowhere.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 05:17 PM
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You should let her drive at least once, because she really wants to from what I read above. The wrong thing of you to do is let her drive all the time and sit quiet in the passenger seat because she's the leader of the ship that way and not you.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:33 PM
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Learn to love yourself, tell jokes with your friends. Something my social circle and I do is after watching some national comedy skit we like to reenact it irl(not hardcore though) and we laugh at each other, the imitations and holy fuck everyone is laughing. Be present mentally when you're with your friends, if you're quiet and not doing shit with your social circle they'll just keep you because they feel pitiful of your boring fucking life. Pick your shit up. Continue with gym and drink whey p…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:45 PM
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Sounds like you have a wife. Anyway, if she cries that's a clear indicator that she wants to cause drama and not actually resolve a problem that has existed for some time already, in her head. I say you let her drive a few times, after all she insists; it would be completely wrong to just sit on the passenger seat(she'd be leading the ship, and not you).
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:35 PM
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you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for What the fuck
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:30 PM
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Since I'm still a beginner don't take my words for granted. TRP is against social media because it causes a lot of drama, it helped you in a way here, but you shouldn't be that invested in anything that doesn't revolve around improving yourself - LTR is excluded. She breaks down, cries and swears she "just forgot" to tell me and that her phone was left at her place the entire night or she would have texted. She didn't know how to get you to be pitiful so she cried - classic girly drama. Soft nex…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 07:29 PM
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I had read the article before and I read it again. I still don't know what I'd reply when someone(not the boss or a person of authority) asks me about something and there's an option to either explain myself or do something else. I guess I'd start fucking around with the person and not take him seriously.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 07:00 PM
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Do I just ignore the question or whatever it may be if I don't want to explain myself?
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:58 PM
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I hate the people that go into the gym, use one machine/rack and after they're done with their set they sit on their phone for 10+ minutes, straight up fuck off. Confront her and don't back down once she replies, think it through in milliseconds. For example when she responded with the "most rude tone" you should've told her that she said she had 2 more sets 50 minutes ago - don't back down it shows that you're a pussy. You can't solve a problem by shoving it under the rag and forgetting about i…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 10:20 PM
2

During the "dating phase" from what I've seen on posts, people suggest texting only for logistics. This leaves no room for a fuck up. I'm stuck on asking a girl out on a first date, if you are interested in helping me check my posts btw.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 10:03 PM
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I have it bookmarked, but the author edited it and removed it.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 08:24 PM
1

While I do understand the calling out part, what I meant by whenever I deem fit is that when the convo is near an end or tomorrow when we haven't spoken at all that day. We keep exchanging pics over DM and I'm not sure if I should just tell her about the date in the middle of talking about something or wait like I said "whenever I deem fit".
/r/askTRP05/11/18 07:50 PM
1

It's basically slim fit jeans that are shorter(should make your ankle visible). I am 17, but that shit is trendy here even when it comes to people that are 20+.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 07:48 PM
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I have two pairs of jeans that are ripped. One pair is black, self-made carrot fit, ripped on both knees and they're not small holes. The other pair is super skinny fit type, has one huge rectangular form and the other cut has a similar form. I used to fold the ends on the black ones until that look stopped appealing to me and I switched to no fold and had my mom cut the ends, basically making them carrot fit. Depends on how you style them. So many people have skinny/carrot fit ripped jeans wher…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:19 PM
4

I usually manage to see some girls looking me in the eyes while I move around with my friends from the corner of my eye. I like to turn around to look them back in the eyes just to see if they'd continue staring or actually be surprised.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:10 PM
1

Guess I'm overthinking it. I'm just gonna ask her whenever I deem fit and fuck that shit. Could you give me an example on the calling out part? Didn't really get it. Thanks for your comment.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:05 PM
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even tho I said to myself I wouldn't get it before commiting to her ????????? Express yourself when asked, don't hide it always. If there's something wrong or something you don't like, be vocal about it and express it the same moment. You both gave too much attention to the ex and how they didn't say hello bla bla. The same moment you let her control the direction of your walk is when you entered her frame, not to mention you lying about everything being okay, and then her crying. Been there onc…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:19 AM
1

Improvements? Are you well paid?
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:14 AM
0

Time to hit the gym Angry Joe.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:04 AM
2

Cut out women for some time. Engage in monk mod. Get to know your priorities and put them in your head. School comes first, facial hygiene and lifting both come as second. Don't touch your face with dirty hands, be very careful. There's a post on the sidebar regarding acne. If that post doesn't help you in curing your acne, and it's really bothering you and it's going nowhere - then go see a doctor. Depending on your acne level, your doctor can even prescribe you accutane(google it). Focus on yo…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 09:08 PM
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fukk dat bich move on
/r/askTRP31/10/18 08:54 PM
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He should try flirting unless she's in the same class. If she's in the same class as him then mission abort.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 08:50 PM
2

Maybe you have an innocent smile. I doubt it's an actual compliment by the girlfriend of the host, because her man is already there. With all the TRP principles you had studied, you should be able to change in a more dominant person and not be as shy. Improve your conversational skills and stuff like that. At the end of the day if you want to look a bit more deadly, improve posture and trim your entire head with a machine using a 1 and grow out a beard. It could be your body language, and I thin…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 08:45 PM
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Don't be blinded by the fact that women are materialistic and will use you whenever they can. Scum men can carry similar characteristics.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 06:24 PM
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Something I used to do was think of the girl's bad characteristics and remind myself about them every time I'd see her.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 06:00 PM
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Not sure if it's just me, but I sometimes don't feel comfortable just being quiet because I pull up my phone. And if you don't pull out your phone are you just going to stare at other people?
/r/askTRP31/10/18 05:57 PM
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https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=fratty If your next move is to rat on your friend and say that you know what she said about you, then don't even think about it. If you can get her to say it to you face to face somehow, then agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:13 PM
2

There's an explanation behind NoFap, hence the reason so many people follow it and claim it's true. Masturbate 3 times a day for 2 months and I guarantee you'll see change. You'll lose interest in so many IRL actions and you'll be lazy.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 01:39 PM
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Form your post better next time and watch on your English - it's an internationally used language and it will help you almost everywhere. Every guy that aproached her till now are all immature and stupid and she shutted everyone down. And generally she spoke about how she's fucked up and empty inside and such things. You could've probably teased her at this part. You need to get that shit to pop up in your head as easy as 1, 2 and 3 as soon as she says something like that. When it just comes nat…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 01:29 PM
1

And how would you argue against the scientific explanation that NoFap actually helps some people. I've noticed that it boosts my confidence when I haven't wanked in 2+ days, and often feel more relaxed. When I wank I feel shittier for the rest of the day and the following day or maybe even the day after that.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 01:12 PM
1

Also don’t smoke weed with chicks you just met and want to bang. Agreed. Don't smoke with a girl unless she's "chill". Look at it this way, you were quiet and she was quiet. You're not the one that supposed to be leading conversations all the time, although you're not supposed to be quiet all the time. You could've at least made it fun for yourself by using banter to your advantage, fucking around with her maybe even flirt if she responds positively to the banter.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 11:35 AM
2

Something I would do is act as if I don't know her, it could backfire, but her attitude backfired at her right now. No need to be salty, act like you don't know her.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 11:30 AM
-1

Attacking your providers won't do you much. You couldn't be bothered to look for an answer yourself, getting spoon-fed is a lot easier for you and you will never change that thing about yourself.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 11:26 AM
1

Don't stick your dick in psycho. Plenty of stories like that on the sidebar and you should cut contact if she, and yes she will, act the way she is known for. Stop being lazy and just look for the answer yourself in the sidebar. If you're too lazy to search for it, then don't even make a post about it.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 11:16 AM
2

Exactly. When your pet does something that you don't want it to do, do you caress him and give him a treat or punish him?
/r/askTRP21/10/18 11:14 AM
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a cheap jewerly for my LTR If you're gonna buy a gift, you should be outcome independent and you shouldn't invest yourself in anyway. You paid for a woman, that isn't your mother. Seek help. she stated that she lost it because the clasp wasn't that perfect. Do you have any idea how ridiculous you sound? Next time read your text after you write it and think about it. What the fuck is wrong with you? Are you missing brain cells or is this THE ONE? ​
/r/askTRP21/10/18 11:12 AM
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I've been trying to engage in small talk and the least of kino, for example grab by head and pull to playfully pester, if you get my drift. I've usually had positive results
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 11:05 AM
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Two options, one of which is the right one and the other is completely wrong. Since you've already went against your friend do you: A) Want to go against your friend once more, "just for his good" B) Be a good friend and admit what you've done friends>girls Be rational, you're a male for a reason and don't blame it on the alcohol.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 02:41 AM
1

Find your style and rock with it. Don't dress like the most generic retards out there, unless it looks good on you. Fuck me man, you can dress like a hippie and still hit it from the back if it goes with your "theme".
/r/askTRP21/10/18 02:36 AM
1

wtf bro im easily a 10 and this girl is baiting me.. did i tell you that i banged 2 sluts yesterday and beat the LIVING, yes living, shit out of 2 nerds haha
/r/askTRP21/10/18 02:34 AM
1

I feel like I shouldn't be forcing my game and let it come naturally from maintaining frame and not giving it too much attention.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 02:33 AM
1

These spastics would rather wait for a spoon to fed them and let someone lead their live rather than forming their own life.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 02:31 AM
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Oneitis. You've given this skank so much attention that you even made a post about her. You're trying to get spoon-fed because you're too lazy to look for answers yourself - cut off this atrocious attitude. Read sidebar and structure your mindset and thought process around the same beliefs that TRP offers.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 05:49 PM
3

This post makes me think about a few topics that have been torturing my mind for some time. Reading so much stuff and yet implementing so little. Another thing it made me think is that how I'd read a few stuff about gaming, and it's just fun. I hesitate to import it into my outside life, or if I do I do it in small quantities. I saw somewhere that game should come on it's own, and from living in your frame and maintaining it - which is one of the reasons of why I don't want to dedicate myself to…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 05:33 PM
1

Stop doing that ASAP. Yeah, I started becoming aware of how toxic and annoying that shit is. Guess it's because of my lack of gaming skills so I redirected myself to that. No more imitating. If you don't want to do it, don't do it. This is where the problem lies. I can do anything and rarely would I complain about stuff. I don't want to do it because they can do it themselves, they aren't invalids. It will take some arguments at first, but a glass of water? How lazy can you be that you can't go …
/r/askTRP07/10/18 01:25 PM
1

Is there public transport? If so then you hop in a metro/bus and go to a more populated place where you can game women. You could even bring a friend from your neighbourhood. There are probably other people living near you, so you can probably hang out with them. But don't rely on other people, you need to learn how to live on your own, how to be alone(whether it's most of the time or not).
/r/askTRP03/10/18 03:16 PM
1

Or coach red pill, he makes nice and calm youtube videos. If you want a simple laugh, watch Hercules MGTOW.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 07:57 PM
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I'm trying my hardest not to give advice to friends irl, even when I'm not asked for it when something TRP related comes up as a topic - even though I'm 2 months into TRP. Don't even bother preaching, because you're going to waste breath and I doubt you'd open anyone's eyes. If you see acquaintances/friends not doing good with women, don't give advice. Don't stuff your nose in other people's business and focus on improving just yourself, and maybe close friends like someone else commented below.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 07:44 PM
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If you get fucked over in life, learn the lesson and move on. Don't hate the game, learn to manipulate it. Simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 07:30 PM
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Stop being a fucking muppet and do not mix alcohol and weed. Drink alcohol for parties, know your limit and don't fuck up the party for other people there. If you want to see how you're going to be intoxicated do it at home or something. If you feel like puking lock yourself in the toilet/bathroom, hug the toilet shell and do your thing. Smoke weed as a recreational purpose, don't overdo it - it's not good at all. I would say twice a month is ideal, if you cannot live without it. I walked into t…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 09:01 PM
1

I can always watch PUA videos since I have a few folders pirated, but I wanted to see if this shit could come natural. If not then I'll try either reading the book or the videos. Thank you.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 02:43 PM
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The most important of concept of TRP is converting your belief from making 'women' being the center of your universe to make 'yourself' the center of your universe. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4radyp/collected_advice_and_methods_for_beginners/ - my life revolved around women and pleasing them, while I was secretly an evil nice guy, which means being nice to women in exchange for pussy, which is also known as the covert contract. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ykmh…
/r/askTRP01/10/18 02:38 PM
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I said the same thing about A&A, but we both agree OP didn't do the best thing in that situation.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 02:13 PM
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You say that the only thing you do is sit on tinder and wait for some girl to hit you up. And I reply that you're wasting your time being unproductive. Help your mother with the chores around home, or do them yourself.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 02:11 PM
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I keep waiting for bitches on tinder to respond to my messages from my fake account and time just flies by How productive. If you're gonna whine, make sure you're perfect and no one can say a single thing about you.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 05:46 PM
1

I'm genuinely curious, how would have you responded being called a creep? I'm not saying he's entirely right, because she told him that she's not open to kissing in public and he insisted and forced a kiss 3 times.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 02:06 PM
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I'm new to TRP, but you could've said something like "Well, it was nice wasting time with you." and not asking her if she's not even going to say good bye. If you smiled throughout this entire act and didn't show a sign of care then it was a nice move. Or you could've A&A'd the part where she called you a creep and joke about it. But I assume you had enough of her bullshit. There are girls that don't want to kiss in front of a lot of people, so I don't really think it was a sign of unattractiven…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 12:58 AM
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I'm struggling to accept that I CAN be alone at times. I simply can't sit at home on a Friday night while all of my friends from my group are out with their girlfriends, other friends are busy.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 06:14 PM
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If you want the anger to go away maybe meditating can help you. Listen to aggressive music, trap metal or something and u'll feel like ur oozing out anger. Talk to your true friends about her if you haven't and tell them your honest opinion about her. Don't hide your anger and say whatever u have on ur mind.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:39 PM
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It really depends on your taste. Google "hair styles with head type" or something like that, and you'll get what you need. I had quite the long hair, with a 3 on the sides and back. It grew to the point where I couldn't be bothered to style it and after I got heart broken, during my beta days and before finding out about TRP, I cut it short to 3 or 4 entirely. Best thing is I get my hair cut at home by my brother and he experimented a fade, which was at first shitty, but when he saw that I was u…
/r/askTRP25/09/18 07:00 PM
2

You can find them on TPB proxy websites.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 10:18 AM
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I don't see the purpose of buying it after reading.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 10:08 AM
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You can torrent RSD tutorials which are up for sale on their website(I think). I have Max's project "The Natural" and Tyler's "Blue Print Decoded". I also have "Project Go" which is SimplePickup's project. My brother claims they are efficient, while I decide to stick to TRP, until I don't see much improvement regarding my game. At the end of the day women aren't a MUST to my mission and my sole purpose as a human being.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 09:19 PM
2

I was thinking about copping the rational male, but my parents didn't want to buy me that book, so I'm gonna start saving up so I can get it and read it. I mean I can read it online, but I want to own the book because giving the 10$ for it will probably motivate me to read it.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 10:35 PM
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You have a point, but my friends go out alone with their girlfriends, except for one of my closer friends.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 07:59 PM
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Well yeah, if they were normal friends/acquaintances I wouldn't be bothered. The problem is that they're really close friends, but they forget about each other when they have girlfriends in their lives and it irritates me. Some are bp to the point where they want to get a girlfriend so that their lives would become more interesting.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 07:57 PM
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I don't really care about normal friends/acquaintances, but I have 2 close friends and my best friend in our social circle, hence why I care.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 07:54 PM
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I'm lifting as well, but that takes 2 hours of my day max.(including the walk there and back). I'm reading TRP material, I'm not studying like crazy, but I'm not stalling as much with school work. I do my homeworks(which isn't anything major where I live), and I mainly focus on my maths(have 3 math subjects). To get into a nice uni I need to invest 2 hours per day so I can finish with an average grade A and get into the uni I want to with ease.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 05:43 PM
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I can't cope with the fact that it's just how it is. You forget me when you have your girlfriend and when you breakup you finally remember that I exist.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 04:56 PM
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Yeah, but I can't keep it on grayscale. I'm 17 and have a lot of free time, which I'm not sure how to use so I want to scroll through ig.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 04:26 PM
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Nah, don't be that guy that will fight over anything just because he can't solve it another way.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 02:29 PM
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Do I call her out and tell her I wont tolerate her disrespect Under whose frame do you want to operate, yours or hers? Hers: Congratulations, her having sex with another human being got to you. Now go stick your head in your vacuum cleaner you absolute fucking mong. Yours: Congratulations, you're not lacking brain cells and you chose the correct answer. Soft next, DGAF and abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 02:14 PM
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I see a lot of TRP members advise turning on grayscale on your phone.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 01:47 PM
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I would say that 5x5 SL is good for a beginner, I've been doing it for the past 2 months(since my first time in the gym). I'm not sure when to stop, but I've started adding seated barbell curls at the end of each training on top of the 3 exercises, and sometimes I even do 1 abs exercise and dips - I want to start doing chinups, but I can barely do 3 pullups in 1 hour so I'm not sure if I'm gonna start doing chinups anytime soon. Could you help me out with the bulking? I don't know how to bulk an…
/r/askTRP23/09/18 12:46 AM
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I love clear and long reads such as this one. Also, you broke a TRP /RULE/ by not fucking with a condom, but oh well. Like /u/lucidcunning said post what's gonna happen with the heartbreak skank.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 01:57 PM
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sexual or romantic company of women I'll be completely satisfied. Learning to accept yourself for who you are and loving yourself the way you are is the way to start. Then remind yourself often that you don't need anyone else, but yourself to live on. Start valuing your friends and make sure you are in the center of your own universe - prioritize yourself. Find your mission(your dream job, video editing, computer science, whatever)and try to achieve it by contributing every day at least a bit to…
/r/askTRP22/09/18 01:55 AM
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I was talking about just feeling shitty from the inside, I probably misunderstood you.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 12:59 AM
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This shit has happened to me as well, I've yet to figure out how to fix it immediately or in the following hour. The problem is that this happens when I'm outside, otherwise I'd try to shower with cold water which is quite hard for me. I guess you should try meditating to solve your issue. I'm trying to motivate myself into meditating to see it for myself, that might help you out as well.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 12:12 AM
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When did you figure about TRP and started reading the sidebar?
/r/askTRP22/09/18 12:09 AM
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If I had no contact for that long, she would call my family and friends. Quote from myself: I'm guessing you ignored red flags before you two got into a relationship. The relationship is between you and her, not both of you and your relatives. http://blackdragonblog.com/2015/03/26/the-20-second-rule/ Read this along with some other stuff from the website. And you clearly haven't read the sidebar as much as you NEED to.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 12:07 AM
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I'm guessing you ignored red flags before you two got into a relationship. Say no, and tell her to give you some privacy. If she gets all dramatic, i.e. starts crying, raises her voice, typically shouting, insults you then cut contact for 3-7 days(depends on severity). Not to mention her bringing up your past relationship, it's unacceptable. When such action is repeated, get serious and tell her not to talk about your past relationships because you two are here for another reason. If the offence…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 06:11 PM
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Don't take this sociopath seriously, let her do her thing and don't take her seriously. I would consider chatting shit to her, something like "You won't get the attention you've never been given as a child from me." you won't be able to resist laughing at this poor cum stain. Or tell her to go and make you a sandwich, just use banter.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 06:05 PM
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There is a girl the first time we met she fell in love with me and started actively seducing me by touching my body > a year before she tried to seduce a friend of mine the same way ??? i'll accept to pair up since i've never got a gf and so i feel i've to do it. "You'll accept"? So you want to be in a relationship with a skank that keeps trying out her seducing on any guy? Flush your cock inside her clitoris and don't care about her feelings or any of that bullshit. When did you figure about TR…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 06:00 PM
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I've noticed some girls' breaths smell like something sour, never thought of sour milk tbh. Some of my friends' breath even smell like rotten eggs and it's unbearable. I think bad smell has become a fear of mine, and I don't want to ever stink, hence why I always bring gum with me and when taking it I take it secretly so no one knows I have gums(you all know the struggles of a person with a packet of gums).
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:50 PM
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Just try to have fun with your mate next to you? You're not forced to socialize, you can always be quiet and be "THAT" guy or you could talk with your circle of friends, or to your closest friend and the 6 hours will end before you know it. Everyone is forced to stay in school, some people use that time correctly to have fun and others are miserable during that time. Whats awkward about showing your teeth? Why would you show them to someone in the first place? Just laugh and don't give a shit ab…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 05:29 PM
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I haven't taken a viagra, and don't plan on ever taking one. So get a hobby, or follow this thread once you have the urge to wank. https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/9gugrb/when_the_urge_hits/
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:24 AM
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You can do something about your looks. Say if you have acne, there's treatment you can try unless you're lazy like myself. Remember to maintain hygiene, dress properly(not like a metalhead) and if your hair is a bit longer and harder to maintain, then cut it however you want(a bit shorter is recommended so that at least you can have a nice hairstyle - google them for your type of head). Game can also be improved by reading TRP material from the sidebar from both /r/asktrp and /r/trp. Ctrl+F and …
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:18 AM
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it was a mix between melancholy and bliss What the fuck lool I've never had something like this happen to me, but when I ended my first LTR and the last time I got heartbroken before I found out about /r/trp I cried quite a lot for my LTR and cried once after I got heartbroken because I just soaked up all the emotions and didn't show shit even when I was talking with the girl about our "thing" I held my emotions. Crying after you soak in emotions for some time feels like you've been reborn, but …
/r/askTRP19/09/18 10:40 PM
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Yeah, I was confused as hell the first time I read another post about frame. It didn't contain examples and I was quite confused, not sure what frame really is. The point is to construct frame on your own in your brain and hold it, hence why when I was explaining the situation with my mother and I, I noted that I wasn't sure if that's really frame. But since you get the gist of it, you should continue reading and you'll start understanding it better.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 10:30 PM
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You should've guided her through on what to do. I remember back in elementary school(I'm in HS now)there were these two people, the one didn't know what to do during the makeout or how to do it and the other guided him through it. So the partner guided the opposite person, so that the guider would enjoy it more and not just experience the nothingness in the opposite person and then bad mouth him for his retarded way of making out. If you want something, ask for it. Don't always expect the person…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 10:14 PM
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I ejaculate prematurely, but it didn't really matter too much. I stuck my cock inside, found out that it's not that good(fucked my ex oneitis btw, yikes)came in 10 fucking seconds lmao But I didn't really give a shit about it, cus I cut ties with this girl and a week later of giving no attention to her she gives me her clitoris - she was tipsy and I was lucky. But even if something similar to this didn't happen to any of your situations, you still shouldn't care about the opposite partner. Just …
/r/askTRP19/09/18 10:11 PM
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Check the thread I linked you, it'll surely help you out.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 07:22 PM
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By definition it's anyone who's celibate against their will. I definitely want to have sex, but I cannot. Therefore, I am incel. I just don't identify with the incel community, because I've seen guys much uglier/shorter than myself get laid with beautiful women, which invalidates their lookism theory. Yes, you can have sex. Looks don't matter as much as your attitude towards women matters and how you talk to them. Work on your game and you'll start pulling hoes.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 07:21 PM
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This is where you fucked up. the girl I had strong feelings Why? What does a girl have to offer so you can get oneitis for her? Is your own presence not enough for you? Like @richboy297 said, love yourself and work on yourself. There's always time for school, you won't be exhausted after school unless you sleep 6 hours a day, or even less. Make sure you sleep 7-8 hours a day, 7 being minimum. Try meditating, I posted this today and it had good comments, with instructions about meditation and wha…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 07:18 PM
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She's definitely not the only girl you're going to enjoy spending time with. If there is a girl you don't enjoy spending time with, then that's called wasting time. You gain nothing from spending time with the girl if you don't enjoy it.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 06:29 PM
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but I cannot control how I feel I'm not sure how you came to that conclusion, but yes you can. Anyway, my main question: is this over? Sort of. I'd say soft next and talk to other girls from your class(don't force dumb conversations). Joke around with them, and when talking to them eye to eye be the flirty and witty dude you are. Implement IDGAF mentality, so when you get rejected you couldn't care less about the rejection and you move on to other woman. However, if she tries to open up conversa…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 06:04 PM
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implement IDGAF mentality and actually mean it. don't fake it till you make it.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:56 PM
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I'm not sure, but understanding Frame was quite complicated for me. I'm yet unsure if I hold frame, and yes I've read threads about frame and how to maintain it. Maybe because English isn't my mother tongue and I had to concentrate a lot to BARELY understand it, and I still doubt I have understood the term frame and it's values. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3iix64/frame/ During an argument with my mom once I asked the question "Why can't I sleep at a friend's house?", I already k…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:35 PM
1

Erectile dysfunction?
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:26 PM
1

how do i go from asking tinder girls out on dates to just asking her to come over for netflix and chill A few minutes into the conversation she asks: "What are you doing tonight?" >You.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:17 PM
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but I'm the kinda guy thatt hrows big parties and like to make my friends laugh by inviting em all and watching the drama unravel lol. Cheers What a nice ending.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:15 PM
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Depends on how you want to look at it, you can be one of the two: A) Nerdy guy - doesn't maintain eye contact, you might want to be like this or similar which is not good at all. is shy to do basically anything because he overthinks stuff, is shy of what other people with think of him and a lot other stuff; B) Ready to kill guy - this is not a bad first impression to leave on people, because if you have a conversation with someone they'll find out that you're not like that. after all you won't b…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:08 PM
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That's what I was trying to say, but worded it incorrectly. I was searching for an experienced member's opinion, who could tell me if his life changed in any way possible and if it did, then how?
/r/askTRP19/09/18 04:55 PM
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I already have headspace downloaded on my PC, I'm just never motivated enough to try it out.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 04:51 PM
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No one can convince me to do it, I was asking for benefits from someone that already has experience with it.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 04:49 PM
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do whatever you feel like doing and have no regrets for it broski. dont try to please her during sex, look out for yourself and make sure you enjoy it. be ready to dry her if you ejaculate prematurely lol
/r/askTRP17/09/18 08:56 PM
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Nicer girls put beta males down in a nicer way. Others will just glance at you with disgust as you drop your hideous fucking pickup line, which is not even necessary, and continue minding their business. Is someone on the verge of sobbing about harsher critics? D: ​
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 07:41 PM
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If the mutual friends(unless they're really close friends) are retarded enough to listen to her vent, then so be it. Don't vent about it to friends or acquaintances, because they're gonna spread lies and twist the story in the favor of whoever they like more between you and your ex. If you need someone to vent to, call up a close friend or best friend and if you have time go fetch a coffee and have fun. Make sure you organize people you know in your head properly. Don't put them in the "close fr…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 07:20 PM
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I started waking up 30 mins before the start of my first class is because I used to wake up at 6:40, while my first class starts from 7:30, and as soon as I'd wake up I'd go to the toilet and usually didn't even take a dump and just sit there for half an hour, or I'd take a dump and then at school I'd have a stomachache after recess. Maybe I should start taking food from home, because eating a toasted bread with sour cream and ham is surely better than eating a toast for breakfast. I've never tr…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 07:02 PM
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ready for the black mamba Quite an interesting word for the term feces. By the way, some times when I wake up in the morning I have the urge to take a huge dump, but when I go to the toilet and do my thing, the black mamba just cannot abandon my filthy arsehole. I've never thought that there was a pooping technique, other than sit down and squeeze the brown indian out of the middle of both of your cheeks. Sometimes, even when I take a shit in the morning when I'm at home and I feel like I'm clea…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:57 PM
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I'm just not excited and speaking with her feels like a chore. Don't talk with her when she wants to and you don't. ​
/r/askTRP17/09/18 09:24 AM
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I've tried waking up earlier, but it hasn't really happened and I end up being more tired, which honestly is not worth it in the long run. I don't drink coffee that much, but when I do it's during the evening and when I'm home. One strange thing I've noticed is that when I get coffee with my friends out, I don't have the urge to poop.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 09:21 AM
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machiavellied Could you explain to me the meaning of this word? I have read it on google before, but didn't really understand it.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 10:32 PM
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Yes, I'm among the young members of this community. Thanks for your comment above by the way, cleared up some things for me.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 10:21 PM
1

A friend of mine knows how to irritate me and does it from time to time. He'd mumble something and then he'd hit me on the back of my head, and I'd hit him back harder. There are times when I rage because of his actions and one time I ended up smashing my fists onto the top of his head in front of most of the classmates and he was the one that was made fun of. Oh and when I asked the question above, we, the male classmates, make fun of ourselves in a playful way, so I was trying to make sure tha…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 08:36 PM
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If someone is attacking you personally for no particular reason, then also ignore it. If they constantly do it, and I'm ignoring it, won't that make me look like I'm weak? I can guarantee you that most of the people witnessing the harassment from the other person will be laughing at you if you ignore it and not let it get to you.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 07:40 PM
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Sympathetic because your game worked and you made her dreadful until you texted her? Think twice before doing something, or better yet count to 15 when doing something questionable and ask yourself if you really want to or should do it.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:17 PM
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Where did you get the idea of her having STDs? Do you know her name and do you have her on social media? Check her social media out to see if she's a hoe and to avoid contracting such a disease don't creep on her at any possible time. Escalate during such an activity, such as watching a movie/tv show. Then text her for logistics and only for that. Don't see her more than once, or maybe even twice a week.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:15 PM
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If you're gonna see her often, then don't shit where you SLEEP* - it's the worst possible thing unless you can play it out perfectly, which I doubt.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:10 PM
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You should've not messaged her the same night and just go about your night as you would. She would've ended up messaging you after a few days and not ghosting you. The part about next time, that's just your frame and you held it tightly until you messaged her and gave a shit about her ghosting you. She wanted your attention more than having sex and she wanted to have sex just so she could get more attention and you denied it which made her want more.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:08 PM
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Meant to write attitude, not texts. You were persistent about the question and it was a boring question, at least for social media. Read the sidebar and you'll see that it states: "TEXT FOR LOGISTICS ONLY, UNLESS YOU WANT TO FUCK UP.".
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:57 PM
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Nicotine addiction: Try becoming a social smoker(only smoking around others and minimize it to 5 cigarettes a night. If muscle memory kicks in, and you gotta have something next to you so you can keep your hand busy buy sunflower, (salted) peanuts or other nuts. You could also fill up a 0.5l bottle of water and take a sip every 5 minutes or something. Once you start the habit with nuts/drinking water, then just try drinking water because it's healthy to drink 3l of water a day, and if you workou…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:53 PM
1

Or you could tell her to come over and she'll be swallowing your children???
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:40 PM
2

you're blowing her dry with your creepy fucking atttude
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:36 PM
1

I don't remember the sidebar advising you NOT to text for logistics only.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:18 PM
2

Just remind yourself that your past actions are a reason for the individual you have become and you wouldn't have the current mindset if that never happened. Take it as a learning experience and don't give a shit. That happens to me whenever I used to exit an emotional relationship, because I miss the person, but after I stop giving a single fuck about my ex partner I thank myself for going through that bullshit because the aftermath could be much better. After I stopped seeing my last "future p…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 04:32 PM
2

i don't eat pussy cus they all smell like tuna foh
/r/askTRP16/09/18 04:26 PM
1

Programming will most likely be my career, or something similar to that since I will be going to an I.T. university. Watching another youtube video isn't the right thing to do, but I'm just not motivated to try programming(or I might be too young to focus on university now).
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 04:09 PM
1

The only time I would approve of this shitty excuse is like this one time when a friend of mine had a blackout during a birthday and was leaning backward on a bench, partly dead. This girl sits next to him, towers over him and tries to make out with him, which you could say is rape lmao. This dude didn't even move at all, and at the end of the party he asked me if he made out with a girl and I told him what had happened.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 07:51 PM
1

My best friend cheated on his STR and blamed it on the alcohol and said he didn't remember anything of the thing. I wanted to throw him off the balcony, not because he cheated, but because of that shitty fucking excuse.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 04:13 PM
1

I disagree. https://stronglifts.com/5x5/#Muscles_Worked
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:18 PM
1

I doubt I can do 3x10 of both, because my muscles don't hurt after I'm done for the day, but I think they might end up dying after the addition of the chinups/dips.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:12 PM
1

There is one list that has added arm work, and I wasn't sure if I should add chinups and dips to the routine. I'll stick to the overhand grip. Thanks!
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:11 PM
5

Hooking up again would be great but slipping back into oneitis is a risk. Who are you lying to? Yourself, us or both? Tell her to leave your stuff in a box and leave the box outside her house half an hour before getting to her house. Man the fuck up and hard-next her once you take your belongings.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 09:43 PM
3

Start doing 5x5 SL and start with just the bar(minimal weight) and add up once you improve your form, it will become perfect eventually. Watch youtube videos on how to do it and you'll get a hang of it eventually. There's an entire website dedicated to 5x5 SL - follow the instructions properly. https://stronglifts.com/5x5/ Nutrition mini-guide. You're supposed to gain weight, so it can convert to muscle(read both of the guides they're very helpful). https://stronglifts.com/5x5/#Nutrition Bigger …
/r/askTRP11/09/18 09:32 PM
1

I can definitely understand where you're coming from, but I guess you'll have fun once you become tipsy. You can definitely find some topic to talk about which will be interesting. I would say getting to know her, but I'm not sure on that. Not telling her to bring her friend will help you in the long run imo, because one you'll be able to escalate and two, you'll learn to do shit on your own instead of relying on someone else.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 09:01 PM
2

Dedicating an entire post to a female reeks oneitis my man, trust me. Why are you emotionally invested? I cannot fathom the idea of emotionally investing yourself into something that will later fall apart and devastate you mentally and maybe physically. Stop giving a shit about this slutty "fake-shy" girl, because at the end of the day she will dump you and act like she cared about you, until you see her instagram story with another dude that she bad mouthed earlier on in your friendship/relatio…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 08:25 PM
1

A: It does sound boring, but if you are interesting to her then the date can turn out great. B: I'm going to avoid the virgin part as I'm not that experienced. But if she lets you fuck IN THE ROOM NEXT TO YOUR PARENTS' and they hear you and you don't give a shit, you might be given shit around home and all you should do is own up to it. Don't go all shy and blushing because your parents and siblings might start making fun of you. C: What's even bolder is her accepting it, whilst being your first…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 08:14 PM
2

Don't be emotionally invested, don't give a shit about your mistakes, because they're intended so you can learn from them later on. Don't say the words "I like you" or anything among the lines of that. She should get the vibe, just by your flirting and your game. If she's giving you IOI's and isn't shy, she can kiss you in front of everyone, unless all eyes are on you two and you're "forced" to kiss each other. Don't develop oneitis, I can't stress the influence oneitis has on you.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 08:04 PM
1

When I first came to the gym I spoke with this oldhead and asked if the bars are 20kg(implying they're olympic bars) and he got frustrated in a second saying they're maybe 10kg. And yes, I am using a powerlifting bar.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 07:59 PM
1

I thought it made a difference, hence the question. Thank you!
/r/askTRP11/09/18 07:51 PM
1

I've been going to the gym for the past 2 months(with a few breaks due to vacation) and I started with just the bar(maybe 8-10kg). I kept doing 7.5+7.5(plates)+10(bar) squats until I recently discovered I can do 15+15+10 = 40kg(max. as of now) without a problem. I also discovered a few tricks about the OHP - that you're supposed to tighten/flex your lower body so you can do bigger weights. My max. weight on OHP is 20kg, and the first time I did it with 5+5+10 I think my triceps died the next day…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 07:51 PM
2

Client came in and everytime she tried to dominate the discussions, i would be the asshole and cut her off and told her exactly what i wanted. This was new to me as well since i've always been 'Respectful' of women and their need to speak. Unavoidably she started sulking because i was not giving way on anything. Could you provide me with an example? I'd love to see an example of how you cut her off. I do have something in mind about the cutting off part, but I might come out as a bit too rude wh…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:26 PM
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stop being a spastic and caring about your plate's feelings lol
/r/askTRP10/09/18 04:16 PM
1

Yeah there's nothing wrong with having an LTR, but the wrong thing here is how they're treating their relationship and I can't understand that. I can't comprehend the fact that they need a woman to make their life happy, and not have fun with the rest of us. It's not like I don't have other friends to hang out with, but I know these kids since a young age and I don't want the ship to sink just because of girlfriends and their wrong(IMO) view of the world.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:47 PM
1

I'm not sure if I got the right understanding for the term purple pill, but I'm pretty sure it is just reading TRP material and not re-enacting most of it.(I do lift, and try to think like a RP'd mind would). I'm not sure how to swallow the red pill. I've read half of the posts on the sidebar and read on the main trp subreddit daily, I check out the asktrp subreddit often as well. I do agree with all of the ideas I can think of so far. Their point of view is kind of disgusting for me. They think…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:44 PM
1

I always see people saying "read the sidebar", but I'm not sure if they mean that one should read all of the posts on the sidebar, or focus on some posts. ​ A little bit more on topic: Personally I'm struggling with women and I really wanted to focus on getting women, which is quite weak in one way. As a 17 year old, I'm not sure how to "get" or "find" my mission. I know what I'm interested in, but whenever I open up a programming tutorial or something like that I'm immediately disinterested, an…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 02:36 PM
1

I think going ghost without "ending" it at all would've been the best move. By messaging her and ending it, you sort of care about her and if she's going to be fine after it's done. It's okay to care about your close friends, but not about plates. Ghost, take pictures and upload them on your instagram story or profile, fill in your schedule with gym work, see friends throughout the day, and if you have school and you're a teenager just ask people you feel comfortable around and you think are fun…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:58 PM
1

Similar thing happened to me. She sent the picture to multiple people asking if anyone is up for coffee tonight. I hit her up(we had been chatting before)and said I'm up for it and she said great I'm gonna come with a friend. I ditched her and said something about the weather being bad, and after that I couldn't care less. I ended up making out with her(which is nothing special) after a month or so at a birthday party and we were together most of the time at the end of the party, which is quite …
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:32 PM
0

Utilize it by canceling it with no remorse or care and go out with your date, take a selfie with her or take a picture of the table with the beverages and tag your date or when taking the picture of the table make sure she's in the picture as well.(watch out if she does some retarded fucking pose and correct her on it)
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:05 PM
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I THINK you could've A&A, unless you don't have that type of a humor and she wont understand it as jokes. Don't take my words for advice though.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:55 PM
2

Exactly.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:21 PM
1

The dude that tried correcting me on my form told me to push the bar up from my chin and bring it back. Whereas, in the videos they start from the neck, touching the chin from below, and bring it up whilst pushing the head a bit back.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:20 PM
1

I always do the full range of motion because I don't want to just do the exercises and don't get the gains When squatting, I didn't lower my body as much as I was supposed to and after watching a lot of videos I corrected my form. I'm still struggling with the deadlift, even after watching a ton of videos about it.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:18 PM
0

Visual representation of how I did OHP: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F3QY5vMz_6I&t=31s I checked your video out and I used to do it similar, except I didn't bend my head a bit when lowering the bar and didn't tighten/flex my entire body.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 04:59 PM
1

I'm pretty sure there's an "inside rule" about oneitis. After you hard/soft next them, don't step in contact with them and pay no mind to them.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 12:08 AM
1

The problem(for me) is that we're in the same group of friends and whenever I look at her it's just those emotions taking over which I can't even control. I'm just feeling bad overall and I lost all the groove I thought I had the past week and I feel like I forgot all the stuff I learnt(although I barely learnt anything). Not only that, but I don't talk to women on social media, just a few female friends which I have no interest in other than fetching a coffee so we can have a chat.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 07:56 PM
1

I do.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 05:49 PM
1

Yeah I was very underwhelmed, asking myself if that is sex.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 05:37 PM
1

Hm. I guess it was lucky, and yes I'm very inexperienced when it comes to TRP and I'm looking forward to my RP journey. I'm asking what to do for now(you think I'm trying to use a shortcut)because I don't feel the nicest inside of me and I need a way to overcome it at least temporarily.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 05:32 PM
1

It's not some attitude, it's just me being confident that everything that happened yesterday was because of me, and her intake of alcohol. However, if I really have an attitude please do correct me and help me out.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:29 PM
1

I don't even think I got lucky. I dominated during the entire situation and I think she wanted to have sex with me before, it's just that I was way worse.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:52 PM
2

Could you link the me the post which covers the A&A/humor method?
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:39 PM
1

Two weeks at maximum of reading TRP. I was confused as to why she's acting like nothing happened yesterday. I was doing great yesterday, when I saw her today again it fucked me up. Maybe she's around me too much? How do you suggest I operate in my frame and not in hers? Можеш и на македонски јазик да ми објасниш.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:33 PM
1

I wouldn't really say I'm overinvested in her. I realized that it was just my turn to use the schlampe and there's nothing more to it, it's just that there are times where my emotions take control over me(most of the time I'm the one controlling them and not vice-versa). Even when we're alone, I don't know what to talk to her about - it's unbearably awkward.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 02:42 PM
1

Well that wasn't my problem/point. My problem is that I read a lot of stuff from the sidebar, including the teasing bitches post and I'm still unsure how to flirt with any girl and at any time that I wish.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 06:01 PM
1

Yes, I never even planned on bullying the bitches lol I'll ask for IG instead :=)
/r/askTRP11/07/18 03:38 PM
1

Good luck, it might help you a lot. Didn't do that much for me though. If you can't focus properly and read the post, pause and read it in 2-3 hours.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 12:49 PM
1

I'm on my phone and I can't send you it sadly. Scroll through the sidebar and you'll see it or Ctrl + F --> tease on /r/theredpill.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:57 AM
1

I never said nor thought that I could understand everything this subreddit and theredpill have to offer in a week. I said I can notice a bit of change in my way of thinking, and I am very much aware that it's going to take me around 6 months to understand this, and not evem completely understand it.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:38 AM
1

I open posts from the sidebar and read them, then try and implement that in my daily life.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:17 AM
1

I read the "how to tease bitches" post, and the first time I read it I was left clueless. Like the saying goes: "Went into one ear and exited from the other." I read it once more and it made more sense, but I don't have enough experience to understand it enough for it to help me. I even spoke to a friend of mine because I was genuinely curious on how he gets hoes, and he told me he does the most cliche thing and they fuck with him. I asked him to give me an example and he told me that he introdu…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 12:45 AM
1

I'm not sure which question you answered.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 04:37 PM
1

I started with just the bar(squat and bench) and did the barbell row with 2.5kg on each side(should've done 5 on each side). I'll be adding 2.5kg each time I do an exercise.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 03:49 PM
1

Yes, I tried benching with 5kg(combined) and it ended up being harder than I thought. Took off the weights and just did it with a normal bar.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 01:59 PM
1

Can't you get injured if your form is not proper?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 11:36 AM
1

I'm pretty sure you need to have the proper form, otherwise you'd be looking like a vegetable.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:45 AM
1

Yes, I watched the youtube video on how to do all the exercises(deadlift, barrbel row, squat, overhead press and benchpress). They were mainly focusing on the form and thats what I'll be doing as well, as I start with the appropriate weight for me.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:44 AM
1

I really want to go. I'm positive about it and I want to try out something new in life. My question is if I'm supposed to stretch and/or jog before doing the reps.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:41 AM
1

I've started analyzing women more and more these past few days and I keep finding out similarities between them. They'll do anything in their power to make themselves feel nice, regardless of the outcome. Just like this one girl I stopped seeing around a week ago, before I even knew this subreddit existed and I had oneitis for her. I'd be submissive and let her take control of me while I enjoy whatever was happening with us. We stopped going at it and I'm soft nexting her(would've gone with hard…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 12:40 AM
1

She's doing it with most of the people from my friend group, us being around 6 guys. We've all noticed her and I would always tell my best friend that she's just in it to make her ex jealous and fuck up our relationship. Yes, I'm pretty sure she can get almost any dude she wants to, but not everyone is a fool. She has a skank friend that is trying to do the same thing to my friend. I told him what her intentions are, and I was quite sure with what I was saying - given the examples from my friend…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 12:11 AM
1

Yes, this female allegedly talked shit about me before, but now she's all up in my face trying to talk with me. That's the sole reason why I chat shit about her disgusting personality. She's like a sunflower - turning in whichever direction benefits her the most. One day she bad mouths a friend of mine the next day she gets him to go to a coffee shop. AWALT :=)
/r/askTRP08/07/18 03:52 PM
1

Whenever we(multiple friends including the guy that had a thing with her) talk about her I'd remind myself and the others of her horrid personality, but I'd also say yeah I'd pound the living shit out of her. So I'm telling them my honest opinion on her. He's not really invested in her, and he never was. They were like an LTR, but my friend wasn't emotionally invested in her, and he refrains from talking about her - and even when he does, there's no stress, tension, anger or such emotions. I def…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 03:50 PM
1

Hard nexted her. I'm currently working on myself and I am going through the sidebar slowly, but surely. I think it's a bit too early for that, I'm trying to just get the basics and then move over to the other material. Thank you for the inspiring and motivating comment.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 01:17 AM
1

Your point about my anger taking the best of me does make sense. I've yet to learn to control my emotions and not let them control me.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 01:06 AM
1

Yes, I don't have the abundance mentality, that being the reason as to why I'm here.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 01:00 AM
-1

Get her to make sure her parents get the fuck out of the house for the time being of your date - even if she tells them that you'll be there. And if she can't do that, it's not that bad as long as you're not forced to stay with her parents. Jeans, no holes(ripped), a proper T-Shirt, all white/black socks and make sure you do your hair(don't add 1 kilo of gel or tons of water). Get your mom to pick your Jeans and T-Shirt if you're unsure with your decision. When going in to meet with her parents,…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 05:20 PM
1

Зборев на англиски за поубаво да разбере другарот погоре, нема потреба од нервози одма и беспотребно влошување на расположението. Фала за инструкциите околу сајдбарот, и за тоа со теретаната ке размислам повеќе околу темата ,,теретана" бидејки претходно никогаш немам помислено да отидам во теретана. Не гледам како имам его трип преку моите коментари, ако можеш да ми помогнеш и да истакнеш точно некоја реченица во која се правам важен и си го кревам егото. Фала од напред!
/r/askTRP07/07/18 05:05 PM
1

I've had a teacher, but they were never talking about the general rule which you mentioned above. I just completely forgot to organize the text into paragraphs for it's beauty to shine.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 04:54 PM
0

I didn't say I could get shorter, but that I couldn't continue to grow in height.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 04:52 PM
1

I guess so, but I'm not a good writer, although I would want to try and be better next time.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 04:27 PM
1

Абе за кур шо мте боли сега ме боли, али сакав да видам дали некој би можел да ми каже да не сум правел нешо друго грешно. Тоа што се приврзав е точно, али тоа е/беше дел од мене. Сега се менувам за мое добро и гледам мене да ми е подобро. Јас се ставам во центарот на мојот универзум во мојот мозок, наместо да имам девојче во центарот. Да преќинам комуникација со девојчето? И што сакаш да кажеш со тоа теретана 5х5? Зошто јас сум околу 65+/- килограми и 175цм висок. Мислам дека не ми треба терета…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 04:25 PM
1

I think it looks a bit better now, hopefully. Couldn't add a tab before the start of every paragraph for some reason though.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 04:13 PM
2

That should look a little bit better. I separated the text into paragraphs just as I imagined the status of our thingy. First paragraph being the introduction, second being the first make out and up to our first argument and the third paragraph being the end of our thingy and the conversation me and her had after the day we had coffee.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 04:12 PM
2

AWALT my brother, good luck with your legal actions and don't let this skank get away with it. If someone tries to play you, play them twice as harder, spin them in a circle then kick them with your boot in their arse. I'm a new member to this community, there are some stuff which I /THINK/ you're doing wrong; too emotionally invested in someone(from work). Just walk into the bonding with the female with your penis, and not your heart or your head because when you fuck up the woman won't sympath…
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