I've NEVER paid for sex nor do I plan to start. However, I've been getting this response a lot lately. Partially due to the fact that I'm becoming more blunt with my requests and also doing it much sooner.

Ive gone on so many time wasting dates and I'm so sick of "playing the game" its getting repetitive like I'm playing a level of Mario I've beaten 500 times.

It feels super forced or fake to pretend like I actually want anything more than something superficial. Not that I have hatred or disrespect these people. Finding "something serious" is not a priority right now.

I know partially this is a shit-test, but I don't even know what its testing other than for them to dismiss me as a putz that pays for more drinks and dinners. I know all they're trying to do is buy time as an excuse to "get to know each other".

What verbal or non-verbal responses should I have to the question "What's in it for me?" or some variation thereof?