How do you build confidence?

BuhrZap · 2020-11-24T13:57:50+00:00

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AltruisticBeautiful7 · 2020-11-24T14:11:30+00:00

" Partly due to the fact that I don't really want to waste my energy trying. "

No it's not partly, it's completely because. You want bitches to waste THEIR energy approaching you then, even better if they just happen to drop by your bedroom as a gift from heaven to suck your holy dick. Well congratulations you are in fantasy world.

Your post smells the common mix of entitlement and victim mentality, nothing new under the sun tho.

Yes, you still have to approach. Also, confidence comes from results + a little bit of delusion. Nothing you can find glued to your house.

Side bar + Book of Pook + One of those PUA's Video Courses ( RSD Max The Natural ), it cannot be more chewed than that.

mikkeldaman · 2020-11-24T16:38:57+00:00

I know it sounds really cliché but in the case of confidence the "fake it till you make it" dogma really works. No one is really born confident but it's a learned skill. If you want to see how confident you can get you need to push limits (even if you're shitting your pants) to see how much people are willing to accept. I'd say you will be surprised the lengths the average person goes to avoid conflict.

In addition to that, when not directly required to, keep thinking of yourself as being always in the rights and that your thoughts, opinions or values are not less significant than others'.

Chris_in_PL · 2020-11-24T13:57:27+00:00

I'm 5'7, aged 37, and managed to pull a beautiful 23 year old 5'11 girl a few weeks ago. Height requirements might be what they write on their Tinder profiles, but if you're (perceived as) alpha enough, it doesn't stop stuff happening. Don't use height as an excuse. Build yourself in every area you can control, congratulate yourself on kicking ass in those domains, and then look for and act on the green lights girls will give you.

150420throwaway · 2020-11-24T22:12:11+00:00

Not a pussy slayer myself but own your height, you can’t change it so why the fuck should you be ashamed of it.

If any guy takes the piss out of you for it for no reason, they’re a fucking cunt who has nothing going on in their life. If it’s a girl then same shit, probably got a fleet of red flags behind her as the whale is obstructing the clear sight from said flags.

Worst part for us dudes is the little amount of compliments we get. Say whatever you want, but even if you look like a model and are athletic, if no one says anything, you will doubt yourself, or at least that’s what I’m thinking- I could improving at a faster pace than others, accomplishing more, but without verification, I won’t see it.

Title	How do you build confidence?
Author	BuhrZap
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	November 24, 2020 1:51 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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