How do you drop a plate?

rosesmellikepoopoo · 2019-02-22T11:10:08+00:00

When you wake up message her 'good morning beautiful, love you.'

At lunch 'Can't stop thinking about you, love you'

Before bed 'Good night gorgeous, sleep tight, love you'

repeat this for a few weeks

She'll never come back

BuckNekkid18 · 2019-02-22T11:30:34+00:00

Ghost or the classic "I'm too busy with life right now, too busy to be hanging out".

shitpommesfrites · 2019-02-22T11:30:35+00:00

"I'm sorry but i don't think we should see each other anymore; this is just not the right relationship for me right now." Or whatever reason you feel fit. I personally think we men should be honest, without being mean, when ending a relationship(who knows, it might be your next girl's bff your dumping).

patuloco78 · 2019-02-22T11:34:45+00:00

Let’s take a break. I will contact you again when I’m ready to come back

XXXMersenne · 2019-02-22T11:54:48+00:00

It's not Chess bruv.

Considering your shyness and apprehension: Just text less, stop seeing her.

Otherwise: Let her know, and do so without the superfluous explanations to spare egos. Don't embellish or nuke it.

Radical honesty. Weight off your back. Then gym, weight back on!

FereallyRed · 2019-02-22T12:48:23+00:00

I tell them I've found someone and am going to try the monogamy thing.

This does four things...

Easy split.

Not her fault.

I can be "boyfriend material" if you act right.

Easy boomerang "Didn't work out, come over so I can cry on your shoulder".

imtheoneimmortal · 2019-02-22T12:57:27+00:00

By actions

Chad1738 · 2019-02-22T11:01:20+00:00

“Hey I don’t think we should see each other anymore, have a lot on my plate currently” Something along those lines. If she gives you a hard time, ghost, delete, block.

embracingtheredpill · 2019-02-22T11:09:55+00:00

Why don't you want to ghost her? Effective, can pick up later whenever

zxcvb7809 · 2019-02-22T12:23:21+00:00

Pretend like you are a beta. Give her too much attention, come across as needy and always be available.

iamkirbatron · 2019-02-22T12:25:27+00:00

From one of the founding fathers of The Redpill:

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/01/04/how-i-break-up-with-girls/

[deleted] · 2019-02-22T18:59:27+00:00

Set up a situation where you slam her at her place, play her out for anal then afterwards, get up and say you're going to the bathroom to clean up but actually, lock the bathroom door from the inside and sneak out the bathroom window and go hard no contact, delete and block on everything.

MurkyArtichoke · 2019-02-22T12:21:20+00:00

Just respectfully tell her you don't think you should see eachother anymore. If you're lucky she will take the hint and don't cling to you asking questions about why etc. If she asks, just say you are really busy atm or you "don't see anything LT with her".

I know many people will say to ghost her; text her less and slowly make her go away, but imo that's a shitty and immature way of doing it. Just be honest and tell her, and you won't be wasting eachother's time unnecessary. You would have wanted the same if you were in that position.

Title	How do you drop a plate?
Author	KaiSmashSmashSawmash
Upvotes	2
Comments	19
Date	February 22, 2019 10:57 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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