How do you reward LTR good behavior?

purplefidgetmidget · 2018-05-14T14:23:50+00:00

If it works, don't break it.

I occasionally do nice things but I don't do them as rewards, and if they go 'aww' I tell 'em to shut up and pretend to be annoyed

vandaalen · 2018-05-14T14:59:30+00:00

Reinforcement of good behaviour is a good thing, yes.

Take her out to diner, buy her some lingerie you'd enjoy wearing her, do an activity you both like to do, organize a weekend trip, etc.

She should really earn this by behaving well over a longer period of time though.

microgum · 2018-05-14T15:19:26+00:00

Needs to be random.

If she’s behaving well take her out or whatever.

Never schedule date nights or shit like that though.

She’ll reflect on those things when she’s doing the cooking or whatever and want to stay attuned.

Irishminer93 · 2018-05-14T17:43:44+00:00

My ltr is the home maker type. Put it this way. The very first time she came to my house she started to nest. Almost immediately. We had already been dating awhile and I knew I was going to make her my ltr. But to get back on track, in my case, I used some fairly basic stuff. Every time I saw her clean or take care of the home in some other way I’d give her a quick hug or peck on the cheek and make a positive comment on her looks. Don’t get me wrong, verbalizing your appreciation is important. If you don’t there’s a good chance she’ll accuse you of taking her for granted somewhere down the line. But as far as conditioning goes, it isn’t as useful.

MattyAnon · 2018-05-14T17:28:22+00:00

Occasionally is fine, but never by obligation. But really, you want to avoid material compensation. Even at its best (random, occasional) you still run the risk of being seen as bb.

throwitdownman · 2018-05-14T19:19:56+00:00

Would you rather have it the other way around? Where you do nice things for her, and she maybe rewards you if she feels like it (aka BP)?

Keep this state for as long as possible, this is the way it should be. Fight the urge to be nice.

Kommanderdude · 2018-05-14T20:04:43+00:00

By inserting your penis in her.

RationalLondoner3 · 2018-05-14T15:44:04+00:00

per se

Title	How do you reward LTR good behavior?
Author	squat_til_u_puke
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	May 14, 2018 2:16 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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