Noticed that the guys with the most girls are the ones which seem to possess this carefree and fun attitude/personality/approach towards life. They could take it or leave, just enjoying the moment, she laughs, he laughs, they are just enjoying the moment for what it is. There seems to be no indication of sex or anything sexual, they are just having a good time. How does one embody this and not be some perverted weird guy drooling over a hot woman?