How is it that confidence is so effected by clothing/grooming?

319Skew · 2018-03-24T18:56:51+00:00

Dress and groom well and you grab attention. Confidence in yourself maintains the attention and get's the IOIs. Being fun and string up emotions gets you the close.

There are guys that can dress up in a stained wife beater and walk out of the club with 9s because they have confidence and are fun.

There are guys that dress on point and can't do more than smile at the cute barista that secretly wants his dick because they have no confidence.

And then there are guys that are good looking enough to get the attention, confident enough to get the IOIs and stupid enough to miss them all because they lack the awareness, skill or are too boring to close.

ShotgunTRP · 2018-03-24T18:30:44+00:00

“Every girls crazy bout a sharp dressed man” - ZZ Topp

Mr_Badass · 2018-03-24T18:37:21+00:00

They can sense that you have very strong Ego Boundaries. It means they re picking up that you have a strong sense of self confidence, and have high self acceptance of who you are. They notice that you're mentally strong and love yourself.

Captain_Save_A_Hoe_ · 2018-03-24T18:34:58+00:00

I know people with forearms the size of their wrists who get women frequently...

Youre just rationalizing not doing. You will keep saying I need a better car, a better apartment, a better job, a better dog, a better set of genes until you have all of that and realize you did not need any of it.

CypressSmallz · 2018-03-24T18:38:33+00:00

Bc it’s you taking care of yourself physically. You know you look better, so you feel better, which directly results in a confidence boost.

The tough part is taking care of yourself mentally, and treating yourself right within your own mind.

redpilledprince · 2018-03-24T20:43:09+00:00

When you look good you feel good and it shows in how you carry yourself.

Edit: It's often small details that can take you from a 6 to and 8. I had braces for 2 years going from not great teeth to perfect teeth and it sky rocketed my SMV.

beastmodeking · 2018-03-25T02:47:12+00:00

Every time I get a hair cut which I did today I feel sexier. I even gets girls looking at me on the street when I do. I try to get a haircut once a month since my hair grows fast btw

Andgelyo · 2018-03-25T13:07:50+00:00

It’s a mental thing that creates a feed back loop or something. You look good therefore you feel good and you create this aura that people can be drawn too. It’s like working out, you feel like shit before, but after working out you feel amazing and more upbeat. I wouldn’t feel that way if I just sat on my ass all day eating Cheetos.

Title	How is it that confidence is so effected by clothing/grooming?
Author	newflame97
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Date	March 24, 2018 6:27 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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