Yesterday a woman invited me to a bar last night. I agreed and we set the time for 10pm. I went out solo and got there at 1030. I'll admit I felt really outta place. Tons of people were staring hard af. I was dressed exceptionally well and am tall so I guess that's it. I got a few comments about if I was old enough to even be there lol.

But, basically I felt uncomfortable. My first true night solo and meeting a HB8. I don't drink but I got water to blend in. Sparked some convos. Now I was texting my date. She told me she was like 10 mins away. Ok cool. So, as time went on I waited and felt like she flaked. I sent one last text asking "are you still coming?" at like 1150. No response. So I assumed she flaked and left soon after. I made sure while I was in the bar I got a number at least. Which I did.

I then got a text saying "I went in looking around for you". This was exactly 1:44. And she blocked me after sending that text. Which actually irritated me because my time is valuable and I should be the one upset. I was there at a decent time.

Now I ask you guys did I wait too long? Or should've waited longer? That almost killed my night. But, I chose to make good use of the location.