I need some opinions and advice from you guys on birth control. I've been seeing this bitch for about a year and I've been hitting it wrapped up this whole time. I'm slowly starting to trust her and am thinking of starting to hit it raw. She's had an IUD in the beginning of our relationship but got it removed because I refused to take the rubbers off. I didn't trust her and I didn't have any experience with BC so I really wasn't comfortable blasting inside her. Now I'm slowly starting to wean off the condoms and am thinking of putting her back on the IUD. Can someone with more xp chime in on IUD's? I really dont know anything about them. I would go with her to get it, to verify with my own eyes it's in there. Is she able to get it removed without my knowledge though? Can I feel it in there? I know I sound paranoid af but I'm not willing to take any chances with my future and take care of a baby I'm not ready for. I know Rollos iron rule about being in charge of the birth, but does that mean we always wear condoms? If there's anything else I should know about these things, please hmu.