How the fuck do I like comfort less?

epistemic_humility · 2016-12-25T04:12:50+00:00

Baby steps, as the say in What About Bob. Start with forcing yourself to take a cold shower or just turn it cold towards the tail end of it. Begin a meditation regime and one for weightlifting, start foam rolling and Journaling to figure out your career and life missions. Break down big goals into achievable little goals and strive toward them like a mother fucker. Be hard on your self for forgetting but always start again. Start reading in if you don't then never stop. Learn two more hobbies or delve into yours further. I think if you have all this handled along with your social life and finances you'll start to find a sort of comfort within discipline.

The point is to strive and push for more to be better. You want to be satisfied with yourself and your lot in life of course but there should always be something you're working towards. If you can do so in comfort then don't fret.

Cheers

pbgswd · 2016-12-25T05:03:02+00:00

Brazilian Jiu-jitsu does it for me.

b33k3rz · 2016-12-25T11:44:47+00:00

Do something hard as fuck that will induce a lot of pain and suffering but not kill you.

For me USMC boot camp made me comfortable with pain/uncomfort. It feels wrong if I'm comfortable, or not working my ass off, or slaying my body in the gy,

H4RV3YSP3CT3R · 2016-12-25T06:07:12+00:00

You could lose that tommorow, you'll end up like everyone from high school, ugly and depressed. Don't let your dreams be dreams.

FarOrAMess · 2016-12-25T08:15:38+00:00

I believe you won't change your tendencies until you get some new experiences that you know you wouldn't have if it wasn't for you stepping out of your comfort zone.

Keep pushing yourself, do things that give you anxiety at first but you know it's dumb that they do - hitting on chicks, saying hi to some dude who looks cool, be a little more involved in a convo with the means of expressing yourself more.

You got this buddy

Velebit · 2016-12-25T14:36:02+00:00

don't get yourself injured, if you want to man-up that never in history meant working out more, to toughen up you just need to do stuff that you don't like to do, not do stuff you like to do to the point of extreme, that is not going to do anything.

volunteer to help kids, sick, elderly, you will have to do stuff completely our of area of your personal interest for the benefit of others, you can join a big bro program to help be a buddy to one of those kids without parents and kinda give them advice how not to mess up their life.

you can work in a soup kitchen to assist the poor, if you really don't want comfort why not volunteer in a old peoples home or for old people who have nobody and need help to wash and go bathroom and cook for them, or maybe you can entertain kids that are sick in hospitals, there are plenty of ways

Title	How the fuck do I like comfort less?
Author	herewegoagaindammi
Upvotes	12
Comments	8
Date	December 25, 2016 3:34 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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