How to act when getting back together with LT girlfriend?

COORDOORS · 2017-09-23T20:52:59+00:00

r u ok knowing she's been out fucking while you guys weren't together

JeffreyDoe · 2017-09-23T19:29:46+00:00

It will never be the same like it once was. Thats my advice to you. Do what you want with it.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-09-23T21:07:32+00:00

Its already over. Breakups are final. Move on. Cancel the meeting now.

beta_bud · 2017-09-23T19:32:43+00:00

I can see where this is going.

My advice would to act completely indifferent. Which will be hard because you aren't. I'd suggest getting to that point before meeting up because you will fuck up. She would be so attracted knowing that you could leave and be totally fine. If you aren't at that point, it will show. The relationship may go a bit longer but if she senses you're overly invested it will go downhill because she'll have a perceived higher SMV that you.

Good luck man. I'm sure many folks will say don't, but we all know you're going to meet up anyway. Been there.

No_senses · 2017-09-23T21:33:34+00:00

but I imagine TRP would suggest otherwise

TRP would ask why are you even thinking about, let alone meeting, an ex girlfriend. That is one thing, but you failed to even give any details about your relationship and your breakup, which means anyone who would actually answer your question has no real perspective to give advice. C'mon man.

HaywoodJablome69 · 2017-09-23T22:39:56+00:00

Who dumped who? Are you Oneitis for her? Need more deets..

As general advice, have some sex with her with ZERO commitment for a while. Make sure you really want to do this.

Oh and if you are Oneitis you need to stay away for now.

ScottDurden · 2017-09-24T00:36:45+00:00

This is never a good idea.

catalisto · 2017-09-24T03:14:00+00:00

Prepare to get burnt and your ego shattered. At least there's only one direction to go from there.

Title	How to act when getting back together with LT girlfriend?
Author	College_Moe
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	September 23, 2017 7:26 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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