How to approach a slut

raisins3142 · 2016-12-19T02:51:16+00:00

Do not approach her in a way that makes her feel like a slut. Approach her like you would any other girl and then re-calibrate as you go.

GameOver17 · 2016-12-19T02:26:51+00:00

Grab her by the pussy

[deleted] · 2016-12-19T02:16:03+00:00

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sweetb00bs · 2016-12-19T02:54:03+00:00

Call her.

falecf4 · 2016-12-19T02:55:27+00:00

Pretty much how I started with my last gf. You know she's a slut but obviously, I hope it's obvious, you don't ever let her think you know/think she's a slut before you've slept with her. You may he able to tease her about being a slut after.

Stop over thinking it, just arrange to hang out and don't worry about the outcome. If you can arrange a 1-on-1 hang out right away to maybe have a drink and watch a movie or something at your place or her place you're over half way there.

Cunt_Robber · 2016-12-19T03:02:47+00:00

You got her number? Text her: hi this is [name] whats up? Thats usually harmless/friendly enough that theyll respond. Then text her: so i was gonna grab a drink tonight, wanna join? And see what she says. Ill assume since she gave you her number youve already broken the ice, so it's a matter of yes/no/not tonight but another night/not tonight and vague flaky reasons. Even if she agrees to the date, plan something for yourself that evening in case she flakes. Lets say she agrees and you two meet up. During the date, start out asking background info and see if you can focus in on stuff like her study abroad experience or something exciting she's experienced. Try to relate it to something exciting youve done, maybe youll connect on similar experiences and the conversation will take off from there. Here at some point youll have to start gaming her. If she likes you she'll be receptive to it. Jokes, teasing, flirting (the alcohol should be getting you two loose by this point), kino. When you see she's enjoying herself in your company make an assessment about taking her home. Plan out some options in your head: what can you say to make her come to a certain destination with you, how you will get to the destination, what will happen once you get to the destination. If you have some idea about these things, you will maintain an air of confidence as you execute and not appear to be fumbling moment to moment like a nervous or inexperienced person. Even if youre nervous, dont drink more than her or try to show off. Your objective is to connect with her on an emotional level that will garner her trust, both in terms of safety and in terms of you providing her with a fun time. It's not as hard as it sounds, the key is to have fun yourself, to take it easy and relax and see how fun she can be for you.

IronMonk48 · 2016-12-19T03:04:49+00:00

Treat like any other girl. Text her and offer her the chance to join you for drinks or coffee. Simple.

Title	How to approach a slut
Author	debrope
Upvotes	5
Comments	29
Date	December 19, 2016 1:51 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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