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How to become stoic?

frmisunderstood

March 1, 2017
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Title How to become stoic?
Author

frmisunderstood

Upvotes 0
Comments 16
Date March 1, 2017 4:47 PM UTC
(9 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5wx2vr/how_to_become_stoic/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/how-to-become-stoic.83479
https://theredarchive.com/post/83479
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Comments

[–]Gucci_sauce_1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Learn to not give a fuck

[–]frmisunderstood0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

How to do it ?

[–]Darth_Antonius1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Know that you cannot control everything that happens to you, only your reaction to it.

[–]dRePe_Thill0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

quick sidebar search on TheRedPill sub

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3a2bl4/stoicism_101_a_primer_on_how_to_be/

[–]Bruno-OS1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Talk less, smile less.

[–]silver-gun2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Smiling less is good.

I read a fuckton self-help trash that strongly recommended smiling in social interactions. And I tried it extensively. It did the exact opposite.

Now the only person I smile at is my neighbor's dog.

[–]coloredzebra0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

LMAO, THIS!

[–]Poptart3180 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol is this a troll or are you for real?

[–]MrTyler_Durden1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You don't have to be stoic 24/7. You only have to be stoic when the shit tests from both males and females start flying at you. Or any sort of chaos. It's like that chip eating guy who stopped that fight on the subway. Two people where fighting on a crowded subway and people were recording it and this guy stands up, eating a bag of chips, never says a word and just goes and stands in between the two people fighting. He is just standing there as a wall between them feeding chips into his mouth like he's done it a million times. Now I'm obviously not saying to go out of your way to stop fights, but it was the way he did it that was stoic. I remember reading an interview with him because the video went viral and he said that he got thousands of requests from women to come wife them up. I'm sure some of it had to do with his 15 minutes of fame, but there's also a lot about what he did that turned them on.

[–]silver-gun0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Being stoic & flirty seems to have powerful effects on women.

After reading your comments about stoicism in other threads, I tried it on women who previously didn't respond my energetic flirting attempts back. And now they're pretty much hitting on me while I sit there calmly and tease them with no outcome in my mind.

[–]coloredzebra0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Woman like a cold, calcuated man. Your energy/attention is valuable, use it wisely

[–]silver-gun1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. Energy and attention should be gifts given to qualified ones only.

[–]brooklynisburnin1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Learn to recognize emotions triggering in you before you can act on them, then take a sec, analyze whether what you were going to do is rational or emotion caused, act accordingly.

[–]Mildly_Sociopathic 1 point1 point1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Meditations - Marcus Aurelius.

Read it.

[–]NwAlf0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This book is great. I was amazed how a roman who lived thousend years ago had things to say that are valid today. Great book

[–]Darth_Antonius1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

As this is the highest rated post on the TRP about this subject, I suggest you look here.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3a2bl4/stoicism_101_a_primer_on_how_to_be/

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